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Pappa Lurve
3,252 posts
151 months
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Medical circumcision is, I think, done differently and thus not comparable.
And no, I dont want my ear lobe removed, but that has roughly zero relevance.
So my point remains, billions of people have had it done without the slightest issue. I have seen countless with my own eyes. Your opinion is of course valid but it strikes me that stating it hurts without having seen it is a not really a strong argument. Equally my view remains only my opinion but it seems to have some backing to it! Of course one imagines it would hurt, I thought so before the first one I saw but I can say, hand on heart, I was wrong about that and my experiences since then do nothing to change that view.
Of course, it is up to people do do as they choose but I personally feel that one should not legislate without evidence and if such evidence exists, when weighted against the billions who have had it done and who then circumcise their own sons without any issues at all, then the evidence needs to be far stronger than has been presented.
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TheHeretic
67,822 posts
124 months
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Of course the earlobe thing is relevant. For some absurd reason you are not overly keen on having a bit of skin chopped off without your consent. You seem to forget that it is my new found tradition, and I shall do it regardless. Would you deny me my traditional right?  It is no different than the chopping off of a foreskin, in the name of an old book. You say it is not religious, but the fact that you seem to go to so many suggests it is not merely tradition, but is a religious affair, presumably Jewish. As for the pain aspect... Can you tell me that the infants do not feel anything? You say that you have watched, and they don't look like they are in pain, bit how do you know? Studies suggest they do, as I posted. I find it amazing that anyone in this day and age would support such a thing, but these are the lengths that certain religious types will go to to retain their special book of superstitious nonsense. You are chopping off a body part of an infant, who has no sayin the matter, and cannot articulate even the slightest complaint on the issue. Yet you go ahead in a cavalier 'well, lots of folks did it' attitude. Odd how religions are so obsessed with the penis isn't it.
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Pappa Lurve
3,252 posts
151 months
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Yup, most have been Jewish. It is a little hard to explain but you pretty much have to take my word for it that the significance to most Jews, although by no means all, is cultural and traditional as oppose to a firm belief that if they don't they will be smote with bolts of lightening! It is very hard to explain the significance to be honest and most people, understandably, see it as a straight forward religious thing. It is to an extent but I know a huge number of Jewish families who obey nothing beyond the basics of not killing people who still have their boys chopped!
The ear thing is different for many reasons, its a rather large lump of flesh but if you showed me it being done and it didn't hurt, I would have no objection to anyone who wants to doing it. Having said that, I like my ears as they are. I would liken it more to getting an ear pierced, only somewhat less painful. I also don't fancy having my left arm removed with a hacksaw but that is as tenuous a link to ones ear lobe as an ear lobe is to a foreskin!
Have they told me it does not hurt, of course not! But I can't help thinking that if it did the baby would cry for more than a few seconds. They cry when they are uncomfortable and they don;t when they are not generally speaking. To me its that simple.
I do understand why people hold your view and I completely see where you are coming from. My own background is presumably different to yours which of course one assumes colours my views in the same way that all our views are formed in part by our background but also in part by experience and my won experiences lead me to think if it hurts, the boy would cry a lot. In the main they seem utterly unconcerned by the whole thing.
Must admit I have always wondered where it came from though. For example, if you look at the Kosher laws, or Hallel, they make huge sense if you live in the ME before refrigeration or a better understanding of food hygiene. No idea the historical routes of circumcision and I have no idea if it is known, but I'll do some reading about it as I do love my history and theology, which are often intimately linked.
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TheHeretic
67,822 posts
124 months
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The point of the ear thing is that you would have no choice. It would just be cut off, pain or not. You seem to be missing the point of that, or oblivious to the fact you seem to wish to choose whether it is done, which goes to illustrate my point. Leave chopping to adults, and whether they choose to have it done to themselves, and justify it to themselves, rather than do it to others, and justify it to others.
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XCP
10,475 posts
97 months
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I had it done for medical reasons at the age of 10. Did it hurt? Well it was done under general anaesthetic, but when I woke up... Oh yes.  You bet.
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Derek Smith
16,015 posts
117 months
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I've hd two Bouviers, great big dogs. My two had docked tails but this has been banned because it causes pain in the puppies which are but a few days old when it is done.
We protect dogs but not children.
It seems from the information on this thread that it is not a religious practice but merely one of habit. My dad had it done to me, so I will do it to my son. It is a tribal mark. I worked in a factory where one bloke was from Nigeria who had three dirty great scars on each cheek, mutilated so he could show that he was different. Genital mitilation is just tribal marking no matter how you cut it.
If the kid wants it doen to him when he's 16 and his consent is freely given, without pressure from adults or some vicar then go ahead. But until then, leave the kids alone. These people should satisfy their strange urges elsewhere.
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TheHeretic
67,822 posts
124 months
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 Animals get more protection than kids.
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TwigtheWonderkid
6,016 posts
19 months
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Pappa Lurve said: Must admit I have always wondered where it came from though. For example, if you look at the Kosher laws, or Hallel, they make huge sense if you live in the ME before refrigeration or a better understanding of food hygiene. No idea the historical routes of circumcision and I have no idea if it is known, but I'll do some reading about it as I do love my history and theology, which are often intimately linked. I think I gave the current thinking on this in a much earlier post. About 6% of men are auto circumcised, that is the foreskin is permanently retracted naturally. They have exactly the same appearance as a circumcised man. It is thought that in a tribe in pre historical times, someone obviously saw this, liked the look and the ease of maintenance, so had a go at their own. Obviously happy with the results so did it to their newborn sons. We know for a fact circumcision was around long before Judaism. People say it's unnatural, but really it's just changing one natural look for another.
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CommanderJameson
20,646 posts
95 months
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Pappa Lurve said: Rolf! so if it hurts so much why is there no sign of distress and why do most cry either not at all or at most for a minute or two? I ask again, have you ever seen it done? Perhaps the babies you're watching get unwittingly mutilated are in shock at having bits of them cut off. Of course it f  king hurts. You're cutting a bit of their cock off. Just because they don't write you an affadavit stating that "actually it hurts" doesn't mean it doesn't. Mutilating your kids to satisfy what it says in a book of rules about how not to offend the sky pixie is bloody ridiculous and should result in serious prison time.
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XCP
10,475 posts
97 months
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TheHeretic said:  Animals get more protection than kids. My son in law has a Bulldog. With a tail. He spoke to a breeder at Crufts, who expressed incredulity that he had not had his dog docked. ' not a proper Bulldog' was the term used I believe. Shows how cruel some people are if you ask me.
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smegmore
1,690 posts
45 months
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The mutilation of infants, sanctioned by some old  in a black robe and tall hat FFS. No better than that other crowd across the border of the promised land who howl at the sky 5 times a day. f  king prehistoric savages all. Burn them.
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rohrl
3,695 posts
14 months
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smegmore said: The mutilation of infants, sanctioned by some old  in a black robe and tall hat FFS. No better than that other crowd across the border of the promised land who howl at the sky 5 times a day. f  king prehistoric savages all. Burn them. Well as Archbishop of Canterbury you would say that Dr. Williams but let's face it, they're an excitable lot and unlikely to stand still long enough to allow us to set fire to them all.
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TwigtheWonderkid
6,016 posts
19 months
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There's various cultures around the world where they never cut their hair. I wonder if they think we're barbaric for lopping off our kids hair when they're young.
And these blokes who have never cut their nails, so they're about 20 foot long. Yet we trim our babies' nails without their consent.
We all cut bits off our kids as our culture dictates.
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TheHeretic
67,822 posts
124 months
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Worst argument ever. I presume you still circumcise yourself, to this day?
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Bill
26,350 posts
124 months
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He visits a circumciser every 6 weeks because it grows back so quickly.
Anyway, having seen how distressed a newborn gets during a pinprick blood test I struggle to believe that lopping off part of a sensitive organ is painfree.
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Derek Smith
16,015 posts
117 months
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Bill said: He visits a circumciser every 6 weeks because it grows back so quickly.
Anyway, having seen how distressed a newborn gets during a pinprick blood test I struggle to believe that lopping off part of a sensitive organ is painfree. It was the same argument used with tail docking: the puppies don't really feel anything and the crying is more to do with being taken from their dam. I had a weimarana and saw the puppies being docked. They were patently in pain.
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TheHeretic
67,822 posts
124 months
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As I said, I wonder how popular circumcision would be if done in early adulthood... I find it strange how adamant some people are about mutilating someone else in the name of their tradition. Makes no sense at all to me. Hell, if it isn't religious, and is traditional, then can anyone give an equally crap reason for that? "Because" doesn't really cut it, (excuse the pun).
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XCP
10,475 posts
97 months
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TheHeretic said: As I said, I wonder how popular circumcision would be if done in early adulthood... I find it strange how adamant some people are about mutilating someone else in the name of their tradition. Makes no sense at all to me. Hell, if it isn't religious, and is traditional, then can anyone give an equally crap reason for that? "Because" doesn't really cut it, (excuse the pun). I had it done by a surgeon in a hospital. It was a traumatic and painful event I can assure you. The argument that because this was a medical procedure it does not count, is nonsense in my view. I cannot imagine what it would have been like without general anaesthetic.
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Derek Smith
16,015 posts
117 months
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I have to say I fail to see any argument for allowing this practice to continue. All it is is a tradition. No one is trying to any adult having it done to themselves if they so wish but to userp the child's right to choose is an assault. You can't even tattoo a minor yet this is allowed.
Am I, excuse the pun, missing something in the pro argument?
The only question is whether a parent should be allowed to mutilate a child.
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andy_s
8,462 posts
128 months
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