Dj Dr fox arrested

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9mm

3,128 posts

211 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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Oakey said:
9mm said:
If it's so clear, help me out. When is it acceptable for a bloke to make the first move and touch a female intimately?
Well, within minutes of meeting on the first date it's customary to whip out your cock, grab her by the head and shove it in her mouth. Right there in the restaurant even.

Try it out and report back.
It isn't and we all know that.

Let's stay in the real world where on the first, second or any date you like you believe she's interested. What can you safely do and at what point to initiate something more?

Oakey

27,592 posts

217 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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9mm said:
It isn't and we all know that.

Let's stay in the real world where on the first, second or any date you like you believe she's interested. What can you safely do and at what point to initiate something more?
When do you think you should attempt to initiate something more intimate and what do you think you can safely do?

zygalski

7,759 posts

146 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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Oakey said:
When do you think you should attempt to initiate something more intimate and what do you think you can safely do?
Never & nothing if you're a DJ it would seem.

Oakey

27,592 posts

217 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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zygalski said:
Never & nothing if you're a DJ it would seem.
I don't know why you persist with this horsest. Would you walk into work tomorrow and grab another female member of staffs tits?

Yes or no?

zygalski

7,759 posts

146 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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Oakey said:
I don't know why you persist with this horsest. Would you walk into work tomorrow and grab another female member of staffs tits?

Yes or no?
No. I have a girlfriend.
However, I've done my share of heavy petting, got a bit carried away & been told no. Thank God I'm not famous.

Magog

2,652 posts

190 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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When are they going to pin something on the DJ who used to sleep in a campervan outside a school.

smegmore

3,091 posts

177 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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This is turning into Mumsnet.

hehe

Oakey

27,592 posts

217 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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zygalski said:
No. I have a girlfriend.
However, I've done my share of heavy petting, got a bit carried away & been told no. Thank God I'm not famous.
So if you didn't have a girlfriend you'd walk into work and grab a female staff members tits?

When you were told 'no' did you stop or did you continue to force yourself on her?


9mm

3,128 posts

211 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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Oakey said:
zygalski said:
No. I have a girlfriend.
However, I've done my share of heavy petting, got a bit carried away & been told no. Thank God I'm not famous.
So if you didn't have a girlfriend you'd walk into work and grab a female staff members tits?

When you were told 'no' did you stop or did you continue to force yourself on her?
I'm not interested in being told when to stop - I get that. I want to know when it's ok to start and you seem reluctant to provide an answer to that question for reasons I can't fathom.

anonymous-user

55 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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Apparently it's ambiguous as to whether or not you should walk up to a work colleague you have no relationship with and grab her tits, whilst at work rolleyes

Getting a bit desperate now.

HerrSchnell

2,343 posts

200 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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Oakey said:
I'm pretty sure he's not a doctor as well!

IanMorewood

4,309 posts

249 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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Oakey said:
When do you think you should attempt to initiate something more intimate and what do you think you can safely do?
Save the finger blaster until you have at the very least felt her tits.

Burrow01

1,813 posts

193 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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La Liga said:
Apparently it's ambiguous as to whether or not you should walk up to a work colleague you have no relationship with and grab her tits, whilst at work rolleyes

Getting a bit desperate now.
If you were a celebrity pre 2000 (say Boris Becker, James Hunt or Mick Hucknall as examples...) then it did not seem ambiguous at all

DLT / Dr Foxes activities seem pretty mild compared to the admitted excesses of multiple rock/ sports stars from the past, and I don't see them being hauled in front of the beak at the moment.

This is the world they lived in - people acquiescing to things due to their fame that most normal people could not imagine - is this not an integral part of the cult of celebrity we live in?

9mm

3,128 posts

211 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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La Liga said:
Apparently it's ambiguous as to whether or not you should walk up to a work colleague you have no relationship with and grab her tits, whilst at work rolleyes

Getting a bit desperate now.
Desperately obtuse perhaps. rolleyes

Let's stick to a scenario we can identify with. You don't "walk up to a work colleague and grab her tits, whilst at work".

You take her out for a drink/meal, perceive yourself to be on a good thing and make the first move. Which is unlikely to be 'grabbing her tits' but might well involve a snog and a bit of a grope if the snog seems to be going well.

Is that ok? If so great, we know that's a move that won't get us arrested (all based on sensible assumptions such as us not being 70 and her 15). If it's not ok, what is?

Edited by 9mm on Wednesday 1st October 20:21

zygalski

7,759 posts

146 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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Something that'll get you put on the sex offender's register according to oakily doakily.

steveT350C

6,728 posts

162 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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9mm said:
La Liga said:
Apparently it's ambiguous as to whether or not you should walk up to a work colleague you have no relationship with and grab her tits, whilst at work rolleyes

Getting a bit desperate now.
Desperately obtuse perhaps. rolleyes

Let's stick to a scenario we can identify with. You don't "walk up to a work colleague and grab her tits, whilst at work".

You take her out for a drink/meal, perceive yourself to be on a good thing and make the first move. Which is unlikely to be 'grabbing her tits' but might well involve a snog and a bit of a grope if teh snog seems to be going well.

Is that ok? If so great, we know that's a move that won't get us arrested (all based on sensible assumptions such as us not being 70 and her 15). If it's not ok, what is?
What is OK? Ok.....

I always worked on the idea that a female's primary erogenous zone is her brain. Anyone fumbling around trying to get a snog or grope is a bit of a Neanderthal.

Get her to 'want' you mentally, then the physical stuff is easy.

9mm

3,128 posts

211 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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steveT350C said:
9mm said:
La Liga said:
Apparently it's ambiguous as to whether or not you should walk up to a work colleague you have no relationship with and grab her tits, whilst at work rolleyes

Getting a bit desperate now.
Desperately obtuse perhaps. rolleyes

Let's stick to a scenario we can identify with. You don't "walk up to a work colleague and grab her tits, whilst at work".

You take her out for a drink/meal, perceive yourself to be on a good thing and make the first move. Which is unlikely to be 'grabbing her tits' but might well involve a snog and a bit of a grope if teh snog seems to be going well.

Is that ok? If so great, we know that's a move that won't get us arrested (all based on sensible assumptions such as us not being 70 and her 15). If it's not ok, what is?
What is OK? Ok.....

I always worked on the idea that a female's primary erogenous zone is her brain. Anyone fumbling around trying to get a snog or grope is a bit of a Neanderthal.

Get her to 'want' you mentally, then the physical stuff is easy.
OK, I'll try asking you, since the PC brigade seem to be avoiding answering questions.

I'm sure we get all this cerebral stuff. Do you get that at some point it might get physical?
If you do, when do you make your move and what kind of move is acceptable? If you don't think a man should ever make the first move, just say so, and millions of men can just turn themselves in.


Edited by 9mm on Wednesday 1st October 20:35

9mm

3,128 posts

211 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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steveT350C said:
9mm said:
La Liga said:
Apparently it's ambiguous as to whether or not you should walk up to a work colleague you have no relationship with and grab her tits, whilst at work rolleyes

Getting a bit desperate now.
Desperately obtuse perhaps. rolleyes

Let's stick to a scenario we can identify with. You don't "walk up to a work colleague and grab her tits, whilst at work".

You take her out for a drink/meal, perceive yourself to be on a good thing and make the first move. Which is unlikely to be 'grabbing her tits' but might well involve a snog and a bit of a grope if teh snog seems to be going well.

Is that ok? If so great, we know that's a move that won't get us arrested (all based on sensible assumptions such as us not being 70 and her 15). If it's not ok, what is?
What is OK? Ok.....

I always worked on the idea that a female's primary erogenous zone is her brain. Anyone fumbling around trying to get a snog or grope is a bit of a Neanderthal.

Get her to 'want' you mentally, then the physical stuff is easy.
OK, I'll try asking you, since the PC brigade seem to be avoiding answering questions.

I'm sure we get all this cerebral stuff. Do you get that at some point it might get physical?
If you do, when do you make your move and what kind of move is acceptable? If you don't think a man should ever make the first move, just say so, and millions of men can just turn themselves in.


Edited by 9mm on Wednesday 1st October 20:36

Magog

2,652 posts

190 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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steveT350C said:
What is OK? Ok.....

I always worked on the idea that a female's primary erogenous zone is her brain.

Get her to 'want' you mentally, then the physical stuff is easy.

steveT350C

6,728 posts

162 months

Wednesday 1st October 2014
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9mm said:
steveT350C said:
9mm said:
La Liga said:
Apparently it's ambiguous as to whether or not you should walk up to a work colleague you have no relationship with and grab her tits, whilst at work rolleyes

Getting a bit desperate now.
Desperately obtuse perhaps. rolleyes

Let's stick to a scenario we can identify with. You don't "walk up to a work colleague and grab her tits, whilst at work".

You take her out for a drink/meal, perceive yourself to be on a good thing and make the first move. Which is unlikely to be 'grabbing her tits' but might well involve a snog and a bit of a grope if teh snog seems to be going well.

Is that ok? If so great, we know that's a move that won't get us arrested (all based on sensible assumptions such as us not being 70 and her 15). If it's not ok, what is?
What is OK? Ok.....

I always worked on the idea that a female's primary erogenous zone is her brain. Anyone fumbling around trying to get a snog or grope is a bit of a Neanderthal.

Get her to 'want' you mentally, then the physical stuff is easy.
OK, I'll try asking you, since the PC brigade seem to avoiding answering questions.

I'm sure we get all this cerebral stuff. Do you get that at some point it might get physical?
If you do, when do you make your move and what kind of move is acceptable? If you don't think a man should ever make the first move, just say so, and millions of men can just turn themselves in.
I don't think you do 'get' this cerebral stuff.

I have never 'made a move'.

When I am with someone I have want to have sex with, we have 'moved' together. I usually lead the conversation and flirting to a stage where we both know what we want, or not. Often, the female will take over and lead the flirting process. It's basically a conversation.

Pornography is partly to blame here. One can go online and find naked females of any shape, size, colour or age and wk off; instant gratification. Real life is somewhat different.

Blokes need to stop treating females as sex objects. They will then get laid more! biggrin

Females in the real world are just human beings and should be talked to thus.


A good sales technique is to tell someone that they cannot have what you are offering. Makes them want it so much more. wink