Amber Peat's Parents: We just want you home.

Amber Peat's Parents: We just want you home.

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Dan_1981

17,402 posts

200 months

Friday 21st August 2015
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Not a pleasant existence.

One wonders how many times it's repeated across the country though frown

hornetrider

63,161 posts

206 months

Friday 21st August 2015
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Reads like a hatchet job from the estranged family.

Zoon

6,710 posts

122 months

Friday 21st August 2015
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hornetrider said:
Reads like a hatchet job from the estranged family.
I suppose the estranged family removed him from the house?
Sounds like a dreadful character to me.

Magog

2,652 posts

190 months

Friday 21st August 2015
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hornetrider said:
Reads like a hatchet job from the estranged family.
A bit, but there is an awful lot of corroboration from different sources in that article. I know it's the Mail, but even so, I doubt they would have risked running that story if it was not true.

Timmy40

12,915 posts

199 months

Friday 21st August 2015
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It does seem to be a horrible depressing pattern with these stories, as soon as you read the lines "XXXX stepfather and mother were blah blah blah" you can't help but think, Oh here we go again.

PorkInsider

5,889 posts

142 months

Sunday 23rd August 2015
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Magog said:
hornetrider said:
Reads like a hatchet job from the estranged family.
A bit, but there is an awful lot of corroboration from different sources in that article. I know it's the Mail, but even so, I doubt they would have risked running that story if it was not true.
There can't be much doubt around him being sentenced for animal cruelty and fraud, at least.

Sounds delightful.

Edited by PorkInsider on Sunday 23 August 11:38

BlackLabel

13,251 posts

124 months

Monday 7th September 2015
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How sad.

mail said:
The grieving father of Cinderella schoolgirl Amber Peat has revealed his heartbreak at discovering his 13-year-old daughter had begged social services to let her live with him in the lead up to her death.

Adrian Cook, 40, said his young daughter had desperately asked the authorities if she could move in with him, with paperwork revealing concerns of 'extreme punishments, constant ridicule and lack of emotional warmth' at the home she shared with her mother Kelly, 34, and stepfather Danny, 31.
mail said:
He was stopped from seeing her for the two years prior to her death after losing parental rights when he split from her mother.

Since the pair were never married and Amber was born before the law changed in 2003 to allow equal rights to both parents, he had no right to see her.

Her mother stopped him from contacting the youngster when she met Danny Peat in 2013, and even moved house and changed her telephone number.

Mr Cook said the last time he saw his daughter she was 'eating chocolate ice-cream', and he never imagined police would be contacting him two years later to tell him she had died.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3224038/Heartbreak-Cinderella-schoolgirl-Amber-Peat-s-father-reveals-daughter-begged-social-services-let-live-hanged-garden-row-mother-stepdad.html

s3fella

10,524 posts

188 months

Monday 7th September 2015
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BlackLabel said:
How sad.

mail said:
The grieving father of Cinderella schoolgirl Amber Peat has revealed his heartbreak at discovering his 13-year-old daughter had begged social services to let her live with him in the lead up to her death.

Adrian Cook, 40, said his young daughter had desperately asked the authorities if she could move in with him, with paperwork revealing concerns of 'extreme punishments, constant ridicule and lack of emotional warmth' at the home she shared with her mother Kelly, 34, and stepfather Danny, 31.
mail said:
He was stopped from seeing her for the two years prior to her death after losing parental rights when he split from her mother.

Since the pair were never married and Amber was born before the law changed in 2003 to allow equal rights to both parents, he had no right to see her.

Her mother stopped him from contacting the youngster when she met Danny Peat in 2013, and even moved house and changed her telephone number.

Mr Cook said the last time he saw his daughter she was 'eating chocolate ice-cream', and he never imagined police would be contacting him two years later to tell him she had died.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3224038/Heartbreak-Cinderella-schoolgirl-Amber-Peat-s-father-reveals-daughter-begged-social-services-let-live-hanged-garden-row-mother-stepdad.html
"Lessons will be learned" some people will be "mortified" and go off on the sick, get counselling and end up with a big pay off and golden pension....

anonymous-user

55 months

Monday 7th September 2015
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Most people have no idea how many 'at risk' children are known to social services.

If she's fed, clothed, has somewhere reasonable to sleep and attends school, realistically, she's going to be no-where near the top in terms of risk and prioritisation.

Easy business in hindsight, although I'll balance that out with saying there certainly are times where social services haven't adequately protected children.






sir humphrey appleby

1,625 posts

223 months

Friday 1st February 2019
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Just to bump this.....

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-nottinghamsh...

As having a 13 year old daughter myself and unfortunately being able to identify with a number of similar experiences when I was the same age, this really saddens me.
Teenage girls need as much support as possible, not being treated like this.
I used to sit at school too scared to go home and I never felt so alone in all my life.
What a terrible situation. I wonder what the parents are thinking now.

poo at Paul's

14,153 posts

176 months

Friday 1st February 2019
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sir humphrey appleby said:
Just to bump this.....

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-nottinghamsh...

As having a 13 year old daughter myself and unfortunately being able to identify with a number of similar experiences when I was the same age, this really saddens me.
Teenage girls need as much support as possible, not being treated like this.
I used to sit at school too scared to go home and I never felt so alone in all my life.
What a terrible situation. I wonder what the parents are thinking now.
Been following this case the last few weeks and it does indeed appear to be the case that the parents were aholes.