Woman given card from "Overweight haters"

Woman given card from "Overweight haters"

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johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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TurboHatchback said:
I think he looks absolutely dreadful but there's no denying he's fit.
Dreadful how? Better than being a fatso!

JagLover

42,405 posts

235 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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sparkythecat said:
Years ago, most high street chain stores used to only stock women's fashions up to size 16.
Ladies any larger than this were forced to do the walk of shame to Evans or Ann Harveys, who catered solely for the fuller figure.
The stigma attached to shopping at such outlets meant that ladies, particularly the younger ones, were more inclined to try and stay in shape.
Those days are long gone as mainstream high street fashion shops have 'adjusted' their dress sizes over the years and each one is now bigger.
There's now no shame or stigma, and a full range of fashionwear is readily accessible, to ladies who used to hide in the voluminous dresses, that were the only things available.
Does their bum look big in these new clothes? - very probably, but they don't have to care any more
This

We have become so concerned about young girls becoming anorexic, mainly thanks to the world of fashion with their bony androgynous models, that we don't dare tell them don't become fat.

This is then made worse by fat women circle diddling each other "you're a real woman hun have another slice of cake".

There needs to be cold light of reality brought to allot of these girls.

julian64

14,317 posts

254 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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JagLover said:
This

We have become so concerned about young girls becoming anorexic, mainly thanks to the world of fashion with their bony androgynous models, that we don't dare tell them don't become fat.

This is then made worse by fat women circle diddling each other "you're a real woman hun have another slice of cake".

There needs to be cold light of reality brought to allot of these girls.
THIS ISN'T A GIRL ISSUE. IT ISN'T EVEN A WOMAN ISSUE.

BrabusMog

20,145 posts

186 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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Circle diddling laugh

100% correct though.

TurboHatchback

4,160 posts

153 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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johnwilliams77 said:
TurboHatchback said:
I think he looks absolutely dreadful but there's no denying he's fit.
Dreadful how? Better than being a fatso!
He is wildly disproportionate, he has legs to rival a bodybuilder yet the upper body of an anorexic 13yr old girl. I know that's what is required to attain the pinnacle of his sport but to me it looks dreadful and I certainly couldn't live with the physical compromises.

irocfan said:
according to a modelling agency this is too 'fat'



http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-34966116


some people need their heads checked
Looks pretty much perfect to me but then I've always gone for that type. If she lost any more she'd not look good though (and probably need medical treatment).

Edited by TurboHatchback on Wednesday 2nd December 09:31

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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TurboHatchback said:
He is wildly disproportionate, he has legs to rival a bodybuilder yet the upper body of an anorexic 13yr old girl. I know that's what is required to attain the pinnacle of his sport but to me it looks dreadful and I certainly couldn't live with the physical compromises.
Thats not what I see but whatever makes you feel good about yourself. Just looks like someone who is slim and in shape to me.

TurboHatchback

4,160 posts

153 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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johnwilliams77 said:
TurboHatchback said:
He is wildly disproportionate, he has legs to rival a bodybuilder yet the upper body of an anorexic 13yr old girl. I know that's what is required to attain the pinnacle of his sport but to me it looks dreadful and I certainly couldn't live with the physical compromises.
Thats not what I see but whatever makes you feel good about yourself. Just looks like someone who is slim and in shape to me.
Well different people aspire to different things, I highly doubt he cares about my opinion and I'm sure he's rather chuffed with himself. I aspire to a rather different physique and yes I do feel good about myself (though it's a work in progress as always).

xjay1337

15,966 posts

118 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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TurboHatchback said:
Looks pretty much perfect to me but then I've always gone for that type. If she lost any more she'd not look good though (and probably need medical treatment).

Edited by TurboHatchback on Wednesday 2nd December 09:31
Any girl you can see her rib cage is both underweight and unattractive.


okgo

38,032 posts

198 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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I can see my ribcage, and I'm not underweight, am I different from a woman in that?

FredClogs

14,041 posts

161 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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okgo said:
I can see my ribcage, and I'm not underweight, am I different from a woman in that?
Well your safe from the chubby chasers, so that's got to be good news.

Personally I like my women like I like my dogs, ribs showing and on all fours...

beanbag

7,346 posts

241 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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It's clear from this thread there are a lot of massive tts about.

People should mind their own business. Scroungers come in all shapes and sizes. It has nothing to do with being fat.

To target somebody because of their size makes you a pretty vile example of a human being IMHO.

DuncanM

6,182 posts

279 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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It's been an interesting thread to read, with the usual extreme views from both sides.

The guy who handed the card to the girl is a scumbag (with a pig fetish?), and certainly has bigger issues to face than the girl in the story.

Fat people don't need telling, they already KNOW they are fat. Hell, even slightly chubby people don't need telling, as they already know too.

Fat shaming and misogyny seem to go hand in hand, this thread is predominantly populated by men who seem to resent women for being fat. Guess what? It's none of your business what another human being does with their body. The girl in the story works for a living and contributes to society, she really shouldn't be a target for any fat shaming at all - even if she is a little larger than perfect in the eyes of male strangers, who think that the world should be populated with perfect women to oggle, despite being far from perfect in their male forms.




xjay1337

15,966 posts

118 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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I was going to bang you... yes! smile

beanbag

7,346 posts

241 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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DuncanM said:
It's been an interesting thread to read, with the usual extreme views from both sides.

The guy who handed the card to the girl is a scumbag (with a pig fetish?), and certainly has bigger issues to face than the girl in the story.

Fat people don't need telling, they already KNOW they are fat. Hell, even slightly chubby people don't need telling, as they already know too.

Fat shaming and misogyny seem to go hand in hand, this thread is predominantly populated by men who seem to resent women for being fat. Guess what? It's none of your business what another human being does with their body. The girl in the story works for a living and contributes to society, she really shouldn't be a target for any fat shaming at all - even if she is a little larger than perfect in the eyes of male strangers, who think that the world should be populated with perfect women to oggle, despite being far from perfect in their male forms.



I'm glad you pitched in. Reading some of the comments really does put peoples views into perspective and says a lot about them.

There's absolutely zero issue with you not finding a larger woman attractive just like there's no issue with somebody finding a skinny woman attractive.

Obviously there are issues if there is an extreme of each but simply targeting somebody who's fat because you think they are "pigs" and "ugly" is just playground bullying and that's completely shameful and has no excuse for it at all. This kind of behaviour just makes you a vile example of a human being. It's no better than being racist, sexist, homophobic, nationalist or being sectarian.

I genuinely despair.

TurboHatchback

4,160 posts

153 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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xjay1337 said:
Any girl you can see her rib cage is both underweight and unattractive.
Really? To me any person (of either gender) with no visible ribs is overweight and unattractive but I guess it takes all sorts. I'm a smidge over 15 stone but have no trouble seeing my ribs.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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DuncanM said:
It's been an interesting thread to read, with the usual extreme views from both sides.

The guy who handed the card to the girl is a scumbag (with a pig fetish?), and certainly has bigger issues to face than the girl in the story.

Fat people don't need telling, they already KNOW they are fat. Hell, even slightly chubby people don't need telling, as they already know too.

Fat shaming and misogyny seem to go hand in hand, this thread is predominantly populated by men who seem to resent women for being fat. Guess what? It's none of your business what another human being does with their body. The girl in the story works for a living and contributes to society, she really shouldn't be a target for any fat shaming at all - even if she is a little larger than perfect in the eyes of male strangers, who think that the world should be populated with perfect women to oggle, despite being far from perfect in their male forms.



Very good mr high ol mighty. So fat people dont put a drain on our health resource?

beanbag

7,346 posts

241 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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johnwilliams77 said:
DuncanM said:
It's been an interesting thread to read, with the usual extreme views from both sides.

The guy who handed the card to the girl is a scumbag (with a pig fetish?), and certainly has bigger issues to face than the girl in the story.

Fat people don't need telling, they already KNOW they are fat. Hell, even slightly chubby people don't need telling, as they already know too.

Fat shaming and misogyny seem to go hand in hand, this thread is predominantly populated by men who seem to resent women for being fat. Guess what? It's none of your business what another human being does with their body. The girl in the story works for a living and contributes to society, she really shouldn't be a target for any fat shaming at all - even if she is a little larger than perfect in the eyes of male strangers, who think that the world should be populated with perfect women to oggle, despite being far from perfect in their male forms.



Very good mr high ol mighty. So fat people dont put a drain on our health resource?
You just come across as completely naive and/or stupid with such a comment.

In extreme cases, yes perhaps. But what about anorexic people? What about lazy scroungers with alcohol problems? STD's? Drug issues? I could go on on.

Use some bloody common sense.

R8VXF

6,788 posts

115 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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TurboHatchback said:
Looks pretty much perfect to me but then I've always gone for that type. If she lost any more she'd not look good though (and probably need medical treatment).
Not enough muscle definition for me, she just looks like a 14 year old boy, which coincidentally is what the fashion designers of today find probably attractive. Most of them certainly are not attracted to women.

Whilst I do think that the delivery method was entirely unacceptable, her BF% IS too high to be fully healthy in my opinion. At size 14, she is likely to be over 40%BF. This is likely to lead to medical conditions later on down the line which is then a burden on the NHS, from diabetes to hips and knees, to heart complications. (For the record, people who go out jogging on hard tarmac also fit into this category of being a drain on the NHS due to fking up their knees).

It is NOT hard to lose weight, and metabolic disorder only accounts for about a 10% affect on BMR iirc, which can easily be overcome. It is just a matter of willpower and eating less than you burn.

DuncanM

6,182 posts

279 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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beanbag said:
johnwilliams77 said:
DuncanM said:
It's been an interesting thread to read, with the usual extreme views from both sides.

The guy who handed the card to the girl is a scumbag (with a pig fetish?), and certainly has bigger issues to face than the girl in the story.

Fat people don't need telling, they already KNOW they are fat. Hell, even slightly chubby people don't need telling, as they already know too.

Fat shaming and misogyny seem to go hand in hand, this thread is predominantly populated by men who seem to resent women for being fat. Guess what? It's none of your business what another human being does with their body. The girl in the story works for a living and contributes to society, she really shouldn't be a target for any fat shaming at all - even if she is a little larger than perfect in the eyes of male strangers, who think that the world should be populated with perfect women to oggle, despite being far from perfect in their male forms.



Very good mr high ol mighty. So fat people dont put a drain on our health resource?
You just come across as completely naive and/or stupid with such a comment.

In extreme cases, yes perhaps. But what about anorexic people? What about lazy scroungers with alcohol problems? STD's? Drug issues? I could go on on.

Use some bloody common sense.
Fat as in the girl in the story? I would say no.

Fat as in the cheese eater posted earlier? I would say yes.

If you want to believe in the 'everyone is fat' scare mongering that is going on at the moment, by all means carry on.

Their is a big difference between fat/chubby that you don't find attractive, and fat/obese that clearly is not okay, and will have a drain on the NHS.



JagLover

42,405 posts

235 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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DuncanM said:
Fat people don't need telling, they already KNOW they are fat. Hell, even slightly chubby people don't need telling, as they already know too.
But that is the whole point. Overweight blokes admit they are fat. With women some will admit it, while others will say they are "real" women and the world needs to deal with it. Fat is Fat whether you are male or female.

DuncanM said:
Fat shaming and misogyny seem to go hand in hand, this thread is predominantly populated by men who seem to resent women for being fat. Guess what? It's none of your business what another human being does with their body. The girl in the story works for a living and contributes to society, she really shouldn't be a target for any fat shaming at all - even if she is a little larger than perfect in the eyes of male strangers, who think that the world should be populated with perfect women to oggle, despite being far from perfect in their male forms.
Just hoping to bring some reality to the mixed up debate these days where we are supposed to celebrate size 14 women as the new normal.

I'm sure they will be heartbroken to discover this, but fat chicks wont be getting any JagLovin. I prefer not to take my life in my hands when it is time for the woman to go on top.