Would you pay to see your child's nativity play?

Would you pay to see your child's nativity play?

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Butter Face

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30,298 posts

160 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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Let's prefix this with I wouldn't want my child involved in a nativity play to start with, but let's continue.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-hereford-worc...

Outrage that a school is asking parents to pay £1 (yes a massive £1) each to see their children perform in a nativity play.

I understand that some people are not as well as off as others, but really, £1 and people moan about it? Verbal abuse at teachers just shows what kind of idiots these parents must be!

Obviously they are happy for their child to attend the school so paying £1 to support it is nothing surely?

What's the PH verdict?

sparkythecat

7,902 posts

255 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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It's a Catholic School and the Nativity play is a religious celebration.
They should just do what they always do on religious occasions, and pass round the collection plate

gruffalo

7,521 posts

226 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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If the money raised was to be put back into the schools coffers then I am fine with it.

Let's face it the play would have a cost to stage so the school needs to recoup their investment.

Not religious at all but my kids used to love being part of it all, it is a tradition I would not want to see disappear.


Countdown

39,864 posts

196 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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Yes.

Nik da Greek

2,503 posts

150 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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My knee-jerk response would be to say that based on the school plays I've seen, I'd pay not to watch any more. RSC it aint rolleyes I'm still trying to get over the expectation to appear overjoyed when The Boy landed the much sought-after role of Third Camel. As if he was about to unleash a Hamlet to rival Olivier...


However, yes. I would pay. Schools are so fked on every level that any amount I can contribute to improve the lot of the kids I will. And no, it shouldn't be that way, but it is. The education system is no less borked than the NHS or any other institution in the land, but I see it as making the best of a bad situation. Ranting over £1? Really, surely no-one's that close to the breadline?

BoRED S2upid

19,698 posts

240 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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Initially I thought no way why should I pay to see it but then I saw the £1!!! Really? a quid and people are complaining what kind of school is this?

gizlaroc

17,251 posts

224 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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sparkythecat said:
It's a Catholic School and the Nativity play is a religious celebration.
They should just do what they always do on religious occasions, and pass round the collection plate and interfere withe the children while telling them it is Gods little secret.
Edited that for you. wink

bitchstewie

51,204 posts

210 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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People will spend £2-3 every day for a cup of coffee but ask them to spend a quid once a year to watch their kid in the school play and they get abusive.

Strange world we live in isn't it.

motco

15,951 posts

246 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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I might have paid to avoid the school concert! Those bloody violins...

xjay1337

15,966 posts

118 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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I'd pay to avoid the bloody things.

FredClogs

14,041 posts

161 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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£1 yes, £2 no, the quality of the acting, set design and the over all production quality is quite frankly a bit amateurish.

Not to mention the costumes and makeup, we were railroaded into spending about £20 on costumes this year, a sheep, a shepard and a narrators (!?) outfit, they'll be no crackers on our x-mas table this year...

Smiler.

11,752 posts

230 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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A ridiculous decision which I suspect will cause a myrrhmur in the ranks.

Tonsko

6,299 posts

215 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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Breaking news.

Frank incensed.

ClaphamGT3

11,300 posts

243 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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Last two posts pure gold.

gooner1

10,223 posts

179 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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Yes, not sure my 40,34,28 and 25 year old offspring would appreciate it though.

dandarez

13,282 posts

283 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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There is a 'very' simple solution, do what our primary school does (and others do too).

After the play a couple teachers or helpers stand by the exit with buckets for school donations. Most drop a handful of change in, a small number nothing, but others will put in notes. We probably end up with far more than the school in question. But then it is a superb school. Bottom line is it doesn't attract attention of the media for the wrong reasons.

Still can't see why parents would get so uptight over a quid.

Ahh.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/11/28/school-...

Butter Face

Original Poster:

30,298 posts

160 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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Ahhhhhh.

jjlynn27

7,935 posts

109 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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We were asked to donate £5 to attend and watch our son. So £10 for 2. Once a year. Even if you are on MW and/or benefits, I can't see an issue. Some people simply shouldn't have kids.

bitchstewie

51,204 posts

210 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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Sorry but I still think you'd have to be a bit short-sighted to see it as anything but an investment in your own child's education.

If the other kids don't speak English as well presumably that means some amount of time will be spent helping them that may not benefit the other kids and that may not be needed if they had the books.

Sounds a bit idealistic I know, but all that over a quid?

Bullett

10,886 posts

184 months

Monday 28th November 2016
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They have a collection for Charity at ours. Donations fine, paying for admission not so good.
The donations probably exceed what would be raised by a compulsory admission charge anyway.
It's a bit sad they need to do this to fund books though.