Steve Hewlett RIP

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Ridgemont

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6,548 posts

131 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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No real surprise however Steve Hewlett passed away this morning:

www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/39027583

Great journalist and editor of Panorama.

Eric Mc

121,956 posts

265 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Sad to hear. I was following his regular updates on PM and I knew time was running out.

jeevescat

880 posts

211 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Eric Mc said:
Sad to hear. I was following his regular updates on PM and I knew time was running out.
Those radio diaries were excellent.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p04p07t7

rasto

2,188 posts

237 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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So very sad, I found it incredibly moving listening to him describe his journey frown

motco

15,941 posts

246 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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rasto said:
So very sad, I found it incredibly moving listening to him describe his journey frown
So did I. In fact I couldn't continue listening. He was a man of real spirit and courage of that special kind that some people have when faced with their own mortality. Would that I were as strong...

loafer123

15,429 posts

215 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Very sad to hear he has died.

Some of the most moving radio ever broadcast.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

198 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Eric Mc said:
Sad to hear. I was following his regular updates on PM and I knew time was running out.
Me too - you rarely hear such clarity and courage in what can only be a devastating and depressing situation. His strength sharing of personal changes really gave hope and comfort to so many other people suffering from cancer.

He certainly opened my eyes to the day to day realities of what actually happens, the hope, despair impact to family and friends


His one line I'll not forget - he had lost about 30kg at the time and had not seen someone for a very long time (they didn't know his condition), first thing they said to him wow your looking good he replied I'm on the cancer programme.

Another was that he wasn't sad about anything but did wonder if it was the last time he would see the sea etc but really found it difficult in knowing he would never see his children grow up and become whatever they would be nor see his grandchildren. I guess when all is said and done this is all that really matters and for the countless people in a similar position. Life is so short no one knows what is round the corner make the most of it.

Huff

3,144 posts

191 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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motco said:
rasto said:
So very sad, I found it incredibly moving listening to him describe his journey frown
So did I. In fact I couldn't continue listening. He was a man of real spirit and courage of that special kind that some people have when faced with their own mortality. Would that I were as strong...
Yes, that. And such quiet dignity about it all.
And I know - this happens to many, many families each year; but this kind of reportage makes understanding what they qo through - each after their own way, of course - a real thing, an understandable, tangible reality, no longer a 'cancervictims' pigeonhole. And that matters greatly in support of those you know even at a distance - during, and especially, after.

Edited by Huff on Monday 20th February 19:55

gothatway

5,783 posts

170 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Very saddened by this news. It was fascinating to hear the trials and tribulations he suffered but with such fortitude. Came across as a really nice guy. RIP.

eldar

21,713 posts

196 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Huff said:
Yes, that. And such quiet dignity about it all.
And I know - this happens to many, many families each year; but this kind of reportage makes understanding what they qo through - each after their own way, of course - a real thing, an understandable, tangible reality, no longer a 'cancervictims' pigeonhole. And that matters greatly in support of those you know even at a distance - during, and especially, after.

Edited by Huff on Monday 20th February 19:55
Agreed. His sense of humour kept a very practical side to his interviews.

Watchman

6,391 posts

245 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Before the cancer, Steve was one of those voices I instantly recognised. He sounded like someone I once knew. It was the lovely concise nature of the way he spoke, with authority and incisiveness.

Then, over the course of his treatment, you could actually hear his degradation through the quality of his speech which was replayed over 20 mins on PM this evening. He went from such clarity to almost slurring. It was very difficult to listen to.

58 is no age. My friend died 3 weeks ago at 48 from MS. My Dad died at 68 from Diabetes. These diseases need to GTFO.

wc98

10,375 posts

140 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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rip. a fine journalist and even better human being by all accounts .

DoubleSix

11,710 posts

176 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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My Dad went at 58 in much the same fashion.

Was difficult listening to the updates on my commute home but it was an accurate account. The family will only just be realising he has actually gone as it takes some time to understand it's real, it's happened...


Drummond Baize

200 posts

95 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Watchman said:
Then, over the course of his treatment, you could actually hear his degradation through the quality of his speech which was replayed over 20 mins on PM this evening. He went from such clarity to almost slurring. It was very difficult to listen to.
Yes. Listening to his deterioration was heartbreaking. I will admit to welling up a bit when they played some of the clips on PM earlier. Very sad.

Bradgate

2,821 posts

147 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Steve Hewlett's weekly chats with Eddie Mair were compelling and very moving.

If I am ever diagnosed with cancer, I hope I can deal with it with something approaching Steve's dignity, acceptance and lack of self-pity. He was such an impressive individual.

HarryW

15,150 posts

269 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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I like of a lot of people have been following his updates on the PM show. It's been excellent journalism and such an emotional journey. However whilst it shouldn't have been a surprised I was actually quite shocked to hear of his demise on my drive home tonight.
Cancer is something that touches us all, it certainly makes you think of what's important in life.

The best line from Steve and I may be paraphrasing here was; you do things in life because you have to do it as it's expected of you even though you don't want to do it. When you have cancer you just don't do it...

Bradgate

2,821 posts

147 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Steve Hewlett's weekly chats with Eddie Mair were compelling and very moving.

If I am ever diagnosed with cancer, I hope I can deal with it with something approaching Steve's dignity, acceptance and lack of self-pity. He was such an impressive individual.

Eric Mc

121,956 posts

265 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Dignity is one of those attributes of life that is seldom given the respect it should be. Steve Hewlett's last few months on earth were the epitomy of dignity.


rustyuk

4,578 posts

211 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Very sad to hear this. Such a shame especially as kids are involved.

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 20th February 2017
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Welshbeef said:
Me too - you rarely hear such clarity and courage in what can only be a devastating and depressing situation. His strength sharing of personal changes really gave hope and comfort to so many other people suffering from cancer.

He certainly opened my eyes to the day to day realities of what actually happens, the hope, despair impact to family and friends


His one line I'll not forget - he had lost about 30kg at the time and had not seen someone for a very long time (they didn't know his condition), first thing they said to him wow your looking good he replied I'm on the cancer programme.

Another was that he wasn't sad about anything but did wonder if it was the last time he would see the sea etc but really found it difficult in knowing he would never see his children grow up and become whatever they would be nor see his grandchildren. I guess when all is said and done this is all that really matters and for the countless people in a similar position. Life is so short no one knows what is round the corner make the most of it.
To not be there to see your children overcome life's obstacles and pass milestones, to not be able to help them, to not be able to know with certainty that they would go on to have a good life is the ultimate sadness, just awful. You could get over the fear of the end of your own life and the realisation that there may be no more 'you' ever again but when it comes to those you love it's another matter. To be able to discuss those things, he was a strong man.