What happened to our dog?

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boobles

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15,241 posts

215 months

Friday 28th November 2014
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ali_kat said:
And you his, and you'll meet his soul again, as Jas&Jules says
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riosyd

611 posts

201 months

Friday 28th November 2014
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I'm so sorry to hear about your beautiful golden retriever, it really is heartbreaking cry

Had to say my final goodbye to Dino last year, my first ever dog (also a golden retriever), I cried bucket loads.

I had 2 other retrievers at that time, which did make the loss a little easier, but Dino and I had a special bond that was hard for some to understand.

I've mentioned this on another thread before - his ashes are on the windowsill (in a container attached to a large photoframe and his name tag is in the corner of the glass). I do still miss him, he was such a character who has left his massive pawprints in my heart and a lot of great memories (I'm such a softie wink ).

I hope things get easier soon









boobles

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15,241 posts

215 months

Sunday 30th November 2014
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riosyd said:
I'm so sorry to hear about your beautiful golden retriever, it really is heartbreaking cry

Had to say my final goodbye to Dino last year, my first ever dog (also a golden retriever), I cried bucket loads.

I had 2 other retrievers at that time, which did make the loss a little easier, but Dino and I had a special bond that was hard for some to understand.

I've mentioned this on another thread before - his ashes are on the windowsill (in a container attached to a large photoframe and his name tag is in the corner of the glass). I do still miss him, he was such a character who has left his massive pawprints in my heart and a lot of great memories (I'm such a softie wink ).

I hope things get easier soon
Thank you for the kind words. The weekend hasn't been very good as I keep having to drive past the vets where I am sure he is still held. I just want to run in there & take him home.

It will get easier that I am sure but for now, this is extremely hard for me to get over the fact that I will never see him again.

boobles

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15,241 posts

215 months

Tuesday 9th December 2014
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His ashes were returned to us yesterday so atleast the little man is home again.....

Phil Dicky

7,162 posts

263 months

Tuesday 9th December 2014
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boobles said:
His ashes were returned to us yesterday so atleast the little man is home again.....
Still got the urn my old dog Lydia's ashes came home in. Took me 3 years to get another dog, but got Bodie now a 9 month old Sprocker to fill the void. smile. So chin up time is a great healer as they say.

Craphouserat

1,496 posts

201 months

Tuesday 9th December 2014
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boobles said:
His ashes were returned to us yesterday so atleast the little man is home again.....
I felt better when i got Ozzie back....still haven't scattered them...7 weeks after getting them back...can't bring myself too. I get upset just thinking about it.

Jebbus I sound like a wee lassie saying that !

Glad that having them home has brought some measure of comfort.


boobles

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15,241 posts

215 months

Wednesday 10th December 2014
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Craphouserat said:
boobles said:
His ashes were returned to us yesterday so atleast the little man is home again.....
I felt better when i got Ozzie back....still haven't scattered them...7 weeks after getting them back...can't bring myself too. I get upset just thinking about it.

Jebbus I sound like a wee lassie saying that !

Glad that having them home has brought some measure of comfort.
Don't think we will ever scatter them to be honest.....

Dennis99

308 posts

163 months

Wednesday 10th December 2014
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boobles said:
Don't think we will ever scatter them to be honest.....
Still got both mine, the first from 1996. When I go the boxes of ashes will all come in with me.

SPR2

3,182 posts

196 months

Wednesday 10th December 2014
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Dennis99 said:
Still got both mine, the first from 1996. When I go the boxes of ashes will all come in with me.
Still got mine from 2008 and they will go with me too.

boobles

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15,241 posts

215 months

Monday 26th January 2015
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2 month anniversary today. RIP little man we still miss you.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Monday 26th January 2015
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boobles said:
2 month anniversary today. RIP little man we still miss you.
You will, believe me, I still think about Jimmy; 18 months now and it is exactly this week 2yrs ago that he was having MRI scans etc but it does get better.

boobles

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215 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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One year today - RIP little man. Gone but never forgotten.xxxx


bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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Aww (love the photo), I hope your memories aren't quite so painful these days, it is almost a relief when you can remember them at times without the tears taking over.

Edited by bexVN on Thursday 26th November 19:17

boobles

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15,241 posts

215 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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Not a day has gone by that I didn't spare him a thought, or miss him. I still have a couple of his teddies on top of my wardrobe in the spare room that I touch every single day without fail.

tonyb1968

1,156 posts

146 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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Having a read brought a tear to my eye, it is never good to lose your 4 legged companion and friend frown 1 year seems like no time at all, for me its 1 month tomorrow, still find it difficult to look at my pups pics, brings sad feelings at her loss frown and I still have her collar in my coat pocket from taking it off before she was buried frown
Just try to remember the great times you had together as those are the memories you want to keep smile

boobles

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15,241 posts

215 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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tonyb1968 said:
Having a read brought a tear to my eye, it is never good to lose your 4 legged companion and friend frown 1 year seems like no time at all, for me its 1 month tomorrow, still find it difficult to look at my pups pics, brings sad feelings at her loss frown and I still have her collar in my coat pocket from taking it off before she was buried frown
Just try to remember the great times you had together as those are the memories you want to keep smile
I still have his collar hung of a picture in my bedroom. My tears have been replaced with happy memories although I would give absolutely everything I own to have him back.... I miss him more than anything.

ali_kat

31,988 posts

221 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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Have you not thought about rescuing another yet? You have so much love to give a pup, he'd want you to open your heart again, it's not replacing him

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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I came face to face with a whippet that was the spitting image of Jimmy (when he was older and had a white face) It was such a shock, my heart lurched and I gave a gasp. Had to explain why I was in such a state to a colleague!! Once he stood up he looked different body wise, which really helped but I couldn't look him straight on easily (lovely boy he was aswell)

I can honestly say it is rare that Jimmy doesn't cross my mind at least once a day,2,5yrs on :/

Thevet

1,789 posts

233 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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I put Hoover to sleep 15 years ago and I still talk to her in the garden where she was buried. Hoover the heaver, means nothing to the PH ensemble but a special friend. Recently, Foggy (aka CarlFogarty) was laid to rest next to her. Tears

Smiler.

11,752 posts

230 months

Thursday 26th November 2015
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Wish I could unsee that post.

We have a terrier who suffers terribly from fits. Up until yesterday, he'd gone nearly 2 months without a major episode. It's been pretty bad since last December.

Didn't quite reach cluster level but trashed any thoughts we had about progress.

Dreading "that" day frown