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Karyn

6,053 posts

168 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Pig Skill said:
This thread took a wrong turn here...
nono


This thread was wrong from the start, in that you never intended to "debate" the issue, and you're bandying crack-pot ideas about to the wrong audience.

The majority of the posters on this forum are good, responsible pet owners, who take time and effort to understand their pets (impossible, according to you) and what their needs are, and then spend time, money and effort ensuring that the needs are met.

Your ridiculous suggestion of muzzling all dogs is dumbing down to the lowest common denominator. Tarring everyone with the "stupid" brush, when it's the minority who are stupid*, and the majority who are well aware of how their dog will interact/react with/to the stimulus and environment around them (thereby negating a need for a muzzle, in most instances**).



* too stupid to understand what good, responsibly pet ownership involves; too stupid to cater to their dogs needs; too stupid to teach acceptable behaviour; too stupid to pose less of a risk to others and their pets.

** as an aside, I think you'll find responsible dog owners are aware of when a muzzle will benefit their dog, and act accordingly.

But, as you said, you're right, and that's that. yes

Tumbler

1,432 posts

166 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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susanq said:
We had a golden cocker (show type), Rory. He was a lovely natured little thing, very affectionate. However, we had 2 occasions in 9 years when he displayed rage. Always directed at my husband, and quite scarey. If we had children, we would certainly have considered letting him go.
I'm hoping that the steps we've taken to ensure the whole family is involved with his training and socialising will help, it's nice to be aware of this though, not something covered in the literature I've read, no has my vet mentioned it.

RB Will

9,663 posts

240 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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FailHere said:
Using your argument all parents should keep their children on leads, after all you can't really control/trust them can you.
Oh yes please!
I expect that in 99% of cases where a dog has a pop at a child it will be the child at fault. They do tend to be a bit thick and ignore the warning signs.
For example. I was in the local garden centre with my dog (Belgian shepherd). She is the sort of dog who likes to get to know new people slowly and calmly. Mother and I guess 5-8 year old boy walk up behind us, boy gets excited and wants to touch the dog so without asking just comes up to her and tries to touch her.
Dog not being a fan of this backs up pretty quickly but didn't have far to go as we were in a corner at the time.
I tell the boy to leave her alone but he wont listen and reaches out again. Dog is now baring teeth, kid still trying to get to her so she gives him a bark.
I bump the kid out of the way and put myself between him and dog and ask his mum to get him. She just calls him and says to come away which he ignores and is still trying to reach round my leg to get to the dog.
I started shouting at the mother which seemed to embarrass her enough to come and pull the child away, no telling off even any education that he should not be trying to stroke a scared dog. Dog was on lead the whole time.

GTO Scott

3,816 posts

224 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Crikey. This thread makes my 'Christening' thread look normal.

OP - if we apply your logic to muzzling all dogs, then we must also apply it to all other situations. I did start writing out a long list of everything that could be banned, but then I realised that it would be everything that exists, so we might as well just nuke the whole planet and return it to the bacterial stage of evolution.

Or we could apply a bit of common sense and realise that not every dog is a savage animal ready to tear the head off a toddler, and try to educate people better about a dog's needs.

TwigtheWonderkid

43,327 posts

150 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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RB Will said:
I expect that in 99% of cases where a dog has a pop at a child it will be the child at fault.
How about the countless times when the dog doesn't have a pop as such, but just runs up to the child or jumps up at them, for no reason.

My kids were taught not to go near dogs they didn't know but over the park dogs off the lead were forever running up to them and on a couple of occasions, jumping up and knocking them over. Only for the halfwit owner to wander over a minute later says "she only wants to play/she loves kids/ she wouldn't hurt a fly."

My experience is that loads of dog owenrs, who would class themselves as good responsible owners, have very little control over their dogs when they are off the lead and don't seem to think it's a problem.


RB Will

9,663 posts

240 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
How about the countless times when the dog doesn't have a pop as such, but just runs up to the child or jumps up at them, for no reason.
Not excusing this behaviour but you may see no reason and your experience may well differ to mine but generally the child will be moving around making excitable noises and the dogs find this very interesting and want to go and play and are then rewarded by everyone going mad making more noise and movement and it all becomes a big game.
Try just being silent and still and turning your back on the dog and they usually bugger off and find something more interesting.
If the dog comes running to you if you are just stood there it probably thinks you are someone it knows and plays with.
Agreed it is annoying when this happens.

Adenauer

18,569 posts

236 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Paddy_N_Murphy said:
wiliferus said:


Shortly after taking this pic I was eaten alive. In fact I'm posting this from the grave rolleyes
Love it when Dogs give you that look as per the chap on the right....
Yeah, it's the 'take your eye off me for a second and I'm having your left leg for lunch' look biggrin

RB Will

9,663 posts

240 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Gaz. said:
Sorry but if your dog is that intolerant/scared then you shouldn't be taking her to a garden centre. It was crap parenting on her part but you didn't do yourself any favours either.
I don't understand your point? Basically you can boil that down to I should not take my dog out of the back garden as this sort of thing could happen anywhere.
A garden centre is hardly a place that makes you think of children running riot is it. Obviously I would not stick her in the middle of a busy playground and expect everything to be fine.
Just this last weekend she spent an hour on a busy train station platform and then strolled around a town quite happily and sat on the sea front with no bother, even had a couple of people stroking her and giving her treats. But then again nobody made her jump then backed her into a corner while trying to grab her.

Pig Skill

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1,368 posts

203 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Karyn said:
Pig Skill said:
This thread took a wrong turn here...
nono


This thread was wrong from the start, in that you never intended to "debate" the issue, and you're bandying crack-pot ideas about to the wrong audience.

The majority of the posters on this forum are good, responsible pet owners, who take time and effort to understand their pets (impossible, according to you) and what their needs are, and then spend time, money and effort ensuring that the needs are met.

Your ridiculous suggestion of muzzling all dogs is dumbing down to the lowest common denominator. Tarring everyone with the "stupid" brush, when it's the minority who are stupid*, and the majority who are well aware of how their dog will interact/react with/to the stimulus and environment around them (thereby negating a need for a muzzle, in most instances**).



* too stupid to understand what good, responsibly pet ownership involves; too stupid to cater to their dogs needs; too stupid to teach acceptable behaviour; too stupid to pose less of a risk to others and their pets.

** as an aside, I think you'll find responsible dog owners are aware of when a muzzle will benefit their dog, and act accordingly.

But, as you said, you're right, and that's that. yes
Look sweetheart, I did intend to debate. Thing is, a fair few stroppy owners immediately starting using offensive critique and generally acting like soft tts so my attitude to that sort of st is to take a 'go screw yourself then' sort of attitude.

My reluctance to 'debate' only became apparent later in the thread and was in response to the softy pissflaps who were offended I dare criticise their flea ridden st machines.

So ner ner nerrrr

boobles

15,241 posts

215 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Don't feed the troll people.

It's not half term already is it for children?

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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RB Will said:
Gaz. said:
Sorry but if your dog is that intolerant/scared then you shouldn't be taking her to a garden centre. It was crap parenting on her part but you didn't do yourself any favours either.
I don't understand your point? Basically you can boil that down to I should not take my dog out of the back garden as this sort of thing could happen anywhere.
A garden centre is hardly a place that makes you think of children running riot is it. Obviously I would not stick her in the middle of a busy playground and expect everything to be fine.
Just this last weekend she spent an hour on a busy train station platform and then strolled around a town quite happily and sat on the sea front with no bother, even had a couple of people stroking her and giving her treats. But then again nobody made her jump then backed her into a corner while trying to grab her.
I understand your point but tbh I would not be happy at all if my dog reacted to a child approaching by curling his lips etc. I know the dog is trying to warn first but a child will not read that, not excusing parent for allowing her child to do it but it will happen and if I thought my dog was like that I would not take hime to a place where all ages attend (and yes I would expect there to be children running around a garden centre) and a risk of my dog being forced into an irreversible situation

Fozziebear

1,840 posts

140 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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RB Will said:
Gaz. said:
Sorry but if your dog is that intolerant/scared then you shouldn't be taking her to a garden centre. It was crap parenting on her part but you didn't do yourself any favours either.
I don't understand your point? Basically you can boil that down to I should not take my dog out of the back garden as this sort of thing could happen anywhere.
A garden centre is hardly a place that makes you think of children running riot is it. Obviously I would not stick her in the middle of a busy playground and expect everything to be fine.
Just this last weekend she spent an hour on a busy train station platform and then strolled around a town quite happily and sat on the sea front with no bother, even had a couple of people stroking her and giving her treats. But then again nobody made her jump then backed her into a corner while trying to grab her.
^ if someone made me jump, backed me into a corner and tried to grab me I'd do more the bite them, best I avoid garden centres and get a muzzle?

Upatdawn

2,184 posts

148 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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"obviously I would not stick her in the middle of a busy playground and expect everything to be fine."

well 2 of ours would kiss the kids till the sun went down, our other would have them herded into one group and into the pen, a nip on the bum for any who argued


Upatdawn

2,184 posts

148 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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I think this thread was started by someone with a deep seated fear of dogs, its the OP who needs help, whoever is nearest them could offer a day spent with dogs to allay their fears


Karyn

6,053 posts

168 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Pig Skill said:
Look sweetheart, I did intend to debate. Thing is, a fair few stroppy owners immediately starting using offensive critique and generally acting like soft tts so my attitude to that sort of st is to take a 'go screw yourself then' sort of attitude.

My reluctance to 'debate' only became apparent later in the thread and was in response to the softy pissflaps who were offended I dare criticise their flea ridden st machines.

So ner ner nerrrr
hehe


An eloquently put diatribe, full of logical debate and sound reasoning hehe

Hats off!



I do sound pious sometimes angel, but I strongly believe, man! Guilty of "softy pissflaps" as charged. laugh

Jasandjules

69,868 posts

229 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Upatdawn said:
I think this thread was started by someone with a deep seated fear of dogs, its the OP who needs help, whoever is nearest them could offer a day spent with dogs to allay their fears

I did this a few years ago with someone who was scared of "large dogs". By the end of the day he was feeding the dogs by hand.

Pig Skill

Original Poster:

1,368 posts

203 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Here's the thing - we have a dog! He is a rescue dog called Jasper.

We have been to hell and back turning him from a jumpy, tetchy dog who used to try and choke himself when on lead into a placid little fellow with a lot more trust.

Would I let him off lead in a park or other public outing? Not a chance. Does he wear a muzzle? Of course he does.



This little fellow can turn in the blink of an eye and has bitten dogs far bigger than he. No warning, something inside just switches.

How many other owners can be sure their dog won't?

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Broken record but me I can. My dog has been very badly bitten by another, he never bit back. Recently a boxer attacked him he got bitten on the ear again he never bit. Obviously he tried to defend himself by hiding by me and I did see him snap at the air but not the dog. Tbh I have to wonder exactly what torture he'd endure/suffer before he did retaliate.

Good on you for helping an obviously damaged dog and it's because he's been damaged that you've taken the steps you've have. This is good pet ownership. However for every traumatised dog there are plenty that aren't and do not need to be treated as such and have equally as good pet owners and I believe I am one of them!

Karyn

6,053 posts

168 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Pig Skill said:
Here's the thing - we have a dog!
You CAD! I wasted perfectly good pious-ness on you!

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Gorg-eous! Can I have him?!

Pig Skill said:
This little fellow can turn in the blink of an eye and has bitten dogs far bigger than he. No warning, something inside just switches.

How many other owners can be sure their dog won't?
I'd wager lots of owners. I'm confident that I understand my dogs' behaviour, and others to some extent. Lots of them can "be sure", also, because they remove their dog from situations that might escalate.

wiliferus

4,060 posts

198 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Pig Skill said:
Plus, they are noisy barking bds that st everywhere. fking dogs. shoot
A worrying attitude from a dog owner?