Jimmy Whippet is really poorly :(

Jimmy Whippet is really poorly :(

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Turn7

23,630 posts

222 months

Friday 26th April 2013
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My heart goes out to you Bex, as you know , we went through the mill with our Millie,so I know how hard it is .

You have done the best you can for him.

K77 CTR

1,611 posts

183 months

Friday 26th April 2013
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Sorry to hear this Bex, we all come to you for advice, this time we can't give you any advice but know that we are all here thinking of you and Jimmyx

Kiltie

7,504 posts

247 months

Saturday 27th April 2013
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Damn.

I feel so sorry for you and I feel so sorry for the wee dog too.

You're both very much in the thoughts of everyone here.

Eric

rovermorris999

5,203 posts

190 months

Saturday 27th April 2013
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I meant to say 'better a week early than a day late' but you get the idea. I blame the strange caraway-flavoured Norwegian spirit.
Yes it hurts more when it takes years from them. Even Norman was fairly elderly and Bert was 13, it was the suddenness that was painful with him giving no time to get used to the idea. I still expect to see him around even though it's been nearly a year and we have two whippet pups plus the three big hounds to keep me busy. His bed is still called 'Bert's bed' although now used by all and sundry and his favourite treats are still 'Bertie biscuits'.
I always have the dreadful deed done at home so their last moments are spent in a familiar environment surrounded by those who care for them rather than a potentially stressful journey to a strange place to them. I have plenty of space so I have set aside an area where I bury my dogs myself, three there now. I'm contemplating joining them when the time comes. Daft I suppose but I like the idea compared to a graveyard I don't know. I must be getting sentimental in my old age.

Good luck and I hope it goes as well as it can.

Karyn

6,053 posts

169 months

Saturday 27th April 2013
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Oh, Bex, I'm so heartbroken for you frown(

Jimmy couldn't have had a better, kinder, more loving owner. I'm so sorry that you're all going through this; it sounds so, so hard.

Thinking of you all, as ever. xxx

Coco H

4,237 posts

238 months

Saturday 27th April 2013
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I am very sorry. We lost both our labs at 11 due to cancer. I just remember we knew when the time was right. Our boy who had shown less and less interest in the world, then stopped being interested in food. We took him for a last walk around the house, he perked up and really looked at everything as if he knew it was the last time. That night we said our goodbyes and Dad took him to the vet. It was many years ago as I was a student and I'll never forget my dad had clearly been crying on the way home. It's the only time anyone has known him to cry.
You have done your absolute best for Jimmy and that is all anyone can ever do for their pet.

anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 27th April 2013
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I too am so sorry to hear this Bex.

All we can do, from the moment we decide to add a dog to our family, is give that dog as much love as they give to us.

It's not the length of time that matters, it's the quality. 9 years with with a wonderful loving family is a lifetime worth living for a dog. They think not about time or death, only about fun and life.

When the day comes, as it does for all us dog lovers, try to smile at the memories of a wonderful life you gave to each other as much as shed a tear for the passing of a friend.

Thinking of you all
Gary

bexVN

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14,682 posts

212 months

Saturday 27th April 2013
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Thank you everyone for your kind and generous words. I appreciate the time everyone has taken and having people who know what it's like to go through this pain. Your words have made me cry and smile almost at the sane time x


BlackVanDyke

9,932 posts

212 months

Wednesday 1st May 2013
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How are things, Bex? I think you know I had a 'palliative care' fostered cat a few years back - it's so so hard, you have all my good thoughts.

bexVN

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14,682 posts

212 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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Today was the day we had been dreading. Today we said goodbye forever to our most gorgeous boy, after 9 incredible years with our most awesome Jimbo (BIL's words smile) he has left to join the Rainbow bridge.

I am utterly heartbroken, the tears won't stop but we had a lovely weekend with him and this morning was as peaceful and dignified as we could hope, out in our beautiful garden at work, no stress for him and his final journey to the crematorium with us where we were met by a wonderful guy who we knew straight away that we could entrust our boy to.

Jimbo will be back with us soon and one day will be able to remember him with joy, not sadness.

Thank you to all of you for incredible support and kind words over the months. They mean so much, wish I could thank you in person! Off to cry some more frown

Granville

983 posts

172 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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So sorry to hear Jimbo has left you.

Reading your posts I know how much he meant to you and what a fantastic mummy he had in you and how much he will be sorely missed.

It's 6 years since I lost my dear friend and not many days pass when I don't think of her. They do leave an incredibly big hole in your heart when they pass away.

Sending you massive hugs

anonymous-user

55 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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I feel your pain Bex and will say a little prayer for you both.

RIP Jimbo cry

ali_kat

31,992 posts

222 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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Huge hugs Becky

You know that you did the best thing you could for your best friend, you've been there for him every day of his good life & given him the ultimate gift.

Jimmy & Fitz are reunited and happy together, they will always be with you

I wish I had more words that could take the pain away

Ax

Dibble

12,938 posts

241 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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I've an idea of how you're feeling. I'd like to say I hope Fudge is running around with Jimmy, but I suspect he's found a patch of sun and is lying on his back, snoring. I suspect Kleenex will have made some money out of us both this weekend. My thoughts are with you and anyone else who knew Jimmy.

rovermorris999

5,203 posts

190 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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Sorry to hear this news, my thoughts are with you.

Turn7

23,630 posts

222 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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Hugs sent...

Jasandjules

69,939 posts

230 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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So sorry to hear this.

Know that you gave him the best life possible.

Kiltie

7,504 posts

247 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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I'm very very sorry Bex.

I read this earlier but couldn't bring myself to post anything.


mrmaggit

10,146 posts

249 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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I'm very sorry to read this, although it was always going to be just a matter of time.

I hope the field by the bridge is a big one, there's at least a bus load of mine waiting for me.

Big hugs

maggit

K77 CTR

1,611 posts

183 months

Monday 3rd June 2013
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Been thinking about you today, sending you a big hug x