Getting a new dog...slightly effing frustrating

[Craphouserat]

egor110 said:

Why do you say it's time to go to gumtree/ebay?

It comes across (and i could be way off the mark) that your just after a cheap dog, i wonder if the rescue places are also picking up on this ?

If i was in your shoes and i was having no joy rescuing i'd just get the breed i actually want rather than what's in the rescue center.

Gumtree would be my last place to look, it's where people who have no idea what there doing advertise, go to a breeder who's done the health checks on the breed you choose so you can at least know mum/dad grandparents are healthy.

Apologies for the comment....it was made very much out of frustration and anger that my wife was made to drive there just to be reduced to tears. If we are unsuccessful with getting a rescue then reputable breeders will be my next port of call. Money is absolutely no object - I'm no lottery winner but when it comes to 4 legged friends they get what they want/need whenever they want/need it with me. Rescue is our first option because so many need a home...that's our main driver for trying to get one - not cost. Gumtree/ebay will not be an option for us...was a tad pee'd off when I posted.

[Craphouserat]

Dr_Rick said:

Someone at work here volunteers at this place:

http://www.anydogildorescue.org/

According to her, they won't give you the jip that the Dogs Trust gave you. She commented that they use a little 'code' in the online descriptions and do judge people in a slightly daft way.

Thanks for the link. After a pretty crap weekend we are starting our rescue search again so will give this a look....any more rejections and I won't be posting them on here....you lot will think we must be a pair of rotten buggers !!

Cheers

[Piersman2]

Worth bearing in mind that a large, expensive to run dog home and associated charity organisation would struggle to attract plentiful donations if it gave all it's 'stock' out to decent homes.

Or am I just being cynical again?

[rovermorris999]

Piersman2 said:

Worth bearing in mind that a large, expensive to run dog home and associated charity organisation would struggle to attract plentiful donations if it gave all it's 'stock' out to decent homes.

Or am I just being cynical again?

Yes you are. Nor would I discount online adverts. I got one of my whippets from an ad on Preloved. He was from a good home, both parents could be seen and he is a healthy and happy dog. Conversely I bought my other whippet from a 'reputable' breeder and she had the biggest worm load I've ever seen. And there are some dogs in pitiful situations where you will effectively be rescuing them.

[CAPP0]

We met someone yesterday walking their new (to them) year-old Viszla. They found him through www.pets4homes.co.uk The guy said they did get messed around by one owner (we want to rehome him/oh hang on no, we don't/are you still looking cos we do again now, etc) but the one they did get was apparently a pleasant seamless transaction. So maybe worth a look Barry?

[HTP99]

^^^ Twice in the same day!!

[dern]

Piersman2 said:

Worth bearing in mind that a large, expensive to run dog home and associated charity organisation would struggle to attract plentiful donations if it gave all it's 'stock' out to decent homes.

Or am I just being cynical again?

I'm going to have to jump out of this thread, I'm starting to find it more than a little pissy. I know that some of you have been frustrated by the dogs trust and have vented your frustrations on here but while I understand the frustration I can't agree with the conclusions being reached.

The dogs trust's objective is to find homes for dogs that last for the life of the dog. Their job is to err on the side of caution and they've seen the really st stuff that's happened to dogs when they get the wrong owners. I'm not suggesting any of you are the wrong owners but ultimately the decision is theirs. If they don't want to give a dog to you then frankly it's just too bad, just move on. I understand the frustration of being told one thing and then the other but this thread has gone past that and you should move on a find a dog from else where if that's what you want.

The suggestion that the dogs trust want anything other than what's best for the dogs is utter nonsense and the suggestion that they give dogs to people who can donate is utter drivel.

We've recently adopted a dog from the dogs trust. We both work but they found the right dog for us and he's perfect. They wouldn't consider us for a number of other dogs and we respected that and trusted their judgement based on the knowledge of those dogs. We found them very knowledgeable, very supportive both during and after adopting our lurcher.

I hope that you find a dog that suits you but this thread helps no one.

Regards,

Mark

[rovermorris999]

^^ Well said. I have a lot of time for Dogs Trust. They do a lot of good work working with the greyhound racing industry on dog welfare plus they do a lot of lobbying. A decent organisation in my opinion.

Edited by rovermorris999 on Monday 27th October 17:14

[Jasandjules]

rovermorris999 said:

^^ Well said. I have a lot of time for Dogs Trust. They do a lot of good work working with the greyhound racing industry on dog welfare plus they do a lot of lobbying. A decent organisation in my opinion.

Edited by rovermorris999 on Monday 27th October 17:14

Never put a healthy dog down. But if they cough/sniffle/growl etc..... Or maybe the numerous stories I've been told aren't true.

[rovermorris999]

Jasandjules said:

Never put a healthy dog down. But if they cough/sniffle/growl etc..... Or maybe the numerous stories I've been told aren't true.

They're probably bks. I've a a fair few dealings with them over the years and found them to be for the most part decent people.

[Jasandjules]

rovermorris999 said:

They're probably bks. I've a a fair few dealings with them over the years and found them to be for the most part decent people.

Maybe. One is from someone who went to collect their dog from the place, it had been PTS within a week. A few others are from people whom ought to know what has gone on.

[rovermorris999]

In my experience the staff are dog lovers and really care but I can't speak for individuals at all centres. But to suggest that there is some hidden evil dog-killing agenda is a joke. Read their magazine and get to know some staff. There are plenty of examples where they've spent a fortune and invested many hours in caring and rehabilitating injured animals.

[CAPP0]

I have no experience of the Dogs Trust other than several years ago, when we really are not in a position to have a dog of our own, we "adopted" one of theirs, i.e. you pick out a dog (which I'm sure has already been adopted by several thousand other people) and agree to pay a monthly donation "for it's upkeep". I've no issues with that, my eyes were wide open, I knew exactly what I was doing. However, the dog we adopted must be well into it's 20s by now, and they've never thought to update us on his situation! As I said, I don't mind, I'm doing to help and donate, even though we have, and have had, our own dogs since, but it's quite amusing to think of this 20-year old Rottie still collecting his monthly income!

[bakerstreet]

rscott said:

You could consider a retired racing greyhound. We had no problems adopting 3 despite both working. They're perfect dogs for this situation - they sleep most of the time!

This. We have had herbie for 7 months now and he is left at home whilst we go to work and he is fine. I have been home a lot recently and even then he still just sleeps. it's their favourite past time!

However, we came up against the same barriers and a small kennel was much more understanding.

There are thousands to choose from and at least you will know their history. Yes, they are big, but they are generally very gentle and affectionate.

If you do end up looking at greyhounds,then please dont discount the black ones. Yes,they aren't as pretty as other colours, but they are know to be much calmer and they are always overlooked.

[Craphouserat]

I just came on to update with some positive news....mainly because I've posted a couple of negative posts - regarding attitudes of SOME within Dog Rescue centres.

Before I do this I have to reiterate that I have said from the off that I have the upmost respect for the job these people do - all of them - from the large centres like the Dogs trust to the small local ones. I have also said I know and again appreciate that they have the dog's best interests at heart. They were established because they care - simple.

I only started this because I was basically dismissed out of hand at one centre...I'm wasn't being over sensitive, we were amazed by the attitude that, because we were honest about the small amount of time it would be left alone, we can't have any of their dogs. Maybe this staff member was having a bad day...they were busy...but this was my first and only impression I have had of the Dog's Trust. now regardless of the job you do...regardless of if you're a volunteer - if you meet the public YOU represent your company/charity whatever.

I didn't mean to offend anyone or piss anyone off - I know these people and centres do a great job and they will see some fked up animals/situations.

Now in the interest of balance....the reason for me posting again on this thread.

Got an email from a relatively local Centre - PADS in Perth.

Hi and thanks for your email telling us about your working hours.
I do not think it would be a problem rehoming a dog to yourselves because of them.
In an ideal world no dog would ever be left alone but we have to be realistic about things.
Tilly has now been rehomed but Hugo is still available. He is a very friendly big lump with humans but not great with male dogs. He also might have some other issues that we are not aware of yet.
If you would like more info please give us a ring 01764 684491.

Kind regards,

Louise

I also registered with Lab rescue Scotland and will be speaking with them shortly regarding a rescue dog..they also don't think our working arrangements are a problem.

Hopefully get a new buddy soon.

[Craphouserat]

CAPP0 said:

We met someone yesterday walking their new (to them) year-old Viszla. They found him through www.pets4homes.co.uk The guy said they did get messed around by one owner (we want to rehome him/oh hang on no, we don't/are you still looking cos we do again now, etc) but the one they did get was apparently a pleasant seamless transaction. So maybe worth a look Barry?

Thanks for that Cap.

Hopefully have something shortly - I got a couple of pieces of positive news yesterday. The pair of us a bit more upbeat. The only reason we never just lied about our working hours is we didn't think it would be a problem...and if you lie you could get caught out on a home check - then you defo won't get a dog !

Anyway - thanks again mate - hope you and yours are well.

[Jasandjules]

Good to see a smaller rescue being more realistic.

[moorx]

Really hope it works out for you

[Craphouserat]

Thanks guys....things are moving pretty quick - getting a home visit in an hour !!!


Genuinely nervous

[tedmus]

You'll be fine I'm sure