Dog attacked for fourth time

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bigbob77

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166 months

Monday 18th April 2016
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Just venting...

Our black lab has previously been bitten 3 times by Staffies, once while off the lead and twice on the lead. The horrible thing is the way they didn't act aggressive at all. He was "polite", wagging, submissive and they were acting normal, just sniffing each other - then *BAM* with no warning. After the last time (on lead) he developed a fear of other dogs on a lead, and after 4 years of being the most dog-friendly dog in the world he now acts aggressive when meeting dogs on a lead weeping.

Yesterday was at a local park, playing fetch with a ball launcher. He is still very dog friendly off the lead, but tends to keep his distance unless they come up to him. I spotted a Border Collie running at him from half way across the field with its teeth bared - obviously looking for trouble. It ran straight up to our Lab, who acted calm and happy until the moment the collie sank its teeth into his leg (his "brother" is a Border Collie so maybe he thought that's who was running at him).
The transformation was instant and quite funny - "You wouldn't like me when I'm angry" would be an appropriate catchphrase for him. In a split second the collie was flattened with a set of teeth around its neck. As soon as the collie submitted our Lab calmed down and backed away (very proud of him for that!)

... But now is he going to be scared of dogs off the lead, too?

Hard not to get pissed off with other dog owners sometimes. ranting



Of course it was the usual "oh he's never done that before!" before spending 10 minutes chasing after him and screaming at him to stay so he could get the collie's lead on...

Jasandjules

69,855 posts

229 months

Monday 18th April 2016
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Our dog being repeatedly attacked is why we got a guard dog. She never got attacked after that.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Monday 18th April 2016
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There is a line of thought that thinks black dogs especially if their faces are black they are more susceptible to being attacked because other dogs can't see their eyes properly.

Your poor dog does seem to have been particularly unlucky frown

bigbob77

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593 posts

166 months

Monday 18th April 2016
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I've heard that before, and I could believe it. I'll need to paint his face white before every walk, although that might make him look racist.

Cupramax

10,476 posts

252 months

Tuesday 19th April 2016
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bexVN said:
There is a line of thought that thinks black dogs especially if their faces are black they are more susceptible to being attacked because other dogs can't see their eyes properly.
Interesting, ive never heard that before, my dog, sadly long departed frown, used to have problems with dogs suddenly going for him for no apparent reason, i wonder if that was the cause.

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 25th April 2016
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My dog gets this, it always from smaller yappy barking cats.

He's certainly not black though. My old dog never got this but he'd been done, I wonder if it's a hormone thing and the smaller dogs feel threatened. My dog hasn't been done yet.

Like the OP dogs approach each other, all positive body language, smaller dog suddenly goes for him. Owner looks surprised and says he never normally does it.

paintman

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190 months

Monday 25th April 2016
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el stovey said:
My dog gets this, it always from smaller yappy barking cats.

He's certainly not black though. My old dog never got this but he'd been done, I wonder if it's a hormone thing and the smaller dogs feel threatened. My dog hasn't been done yet.

Like the OP dogs approach each other, all positive body language, smaller dog suddenly goes for him. Owner looks surprised and says he never normally does it.
What?confused

bigbob77

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Monday 25th April 2016
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paintman said:
el stovey said:
My dog gets this, it always from smaller yappy barking cats.
What?confused
Either a typo or el stovey is Ron Swanson biggrin.


Jimmyarm

1,962 posts

178 months

Monday 25th April 2016
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Do you have a 'doggie daycare' type place near you ?

it might be worth asking if you can take him there on a supervised visit for an hour or two and seeing how he gets on.

I know the place we use are happy to do this sort of thing and pick regular dogs that they know are placid for the meeting.

TheLordJohn

5,746 posts

146 months

Wednesday 27th April 2016
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Black dogs are notoriously difficult for other dogs to read their facial expressions, unfortunately.
4 times is frightfully bad luck.

BigLion

1,497 posts

99 months

Wednesday 27th April 2016
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You don't know how to read a dogs body language - attacks don't just happen there are subtle signs before any attack. Also extreme submission and nervousness can encourage an attack - your fear / tension could also lead to your dog becoming nervousness which can create a vicious cycle etc. etc.

Have a read into the body language of dogs and ensure you remain calm in any situation.

I have a German Shepherd and the amount of owners I encounter who don't have a clue and panic when he goes for a sniff of their pooch - literally had people screaming and almost choking their dog on the lead - then they wonder why their dogs are nervous.

I wish all dog owners had to go on training before they could own a dog - quite often the dogs have no problems if they are just left alone without owner interference.

I've owned many dogs, big, small, puppies and rescues - never had a major issue that couldn't be drastically overcome / changed in a couple of weeks.

Have a look into body language, try to avoid the area where you are encountering the staffies to build your confidence etc. and please do continue to let your dog off lead and play with other dogs without tensing up (as hard as it can be) smile


ETA I bet when the collie was running to your lab you were panicking - dogs who attack don't run with teeth bearing - as hard as the message might land with you, your behaviour probably contributed to the attack. Obviously I wasn't there but I have seen this situation so many times.


PS for dogs smell and energy is far more important than sight in deciding on the danger of a situation

Edited by BigLion on Wednesday 27th April 21:30

bigbob77

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166 months

Wednesday 27th April 2016
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BigLion - you could have given the same advice without the exaggerations or silly assumptions.

I appreciate you've seen dog owners reacting badly - I have too, and I'm sure most here have. Most people don't research and discuss their dogs' behaviour on pet forums so you're probably preaching to the wrong audience.

I don't react or pull on the lead or say anything, and I also don't/can't correct him when he does something silly because he's too delicate and even verbal praise can be overwhelming for him sometimes, let alone telling him off.

The last time my Lab was bitten on the lead was a Staffie who had good body language (a bit stiff, but relaxed enough)... I know bad doggy body language and he didn't have it. The owner is another story, she tightened the lead for absolutely no reason when her dog had done nothing wrong and that prompted it to bite and not let go.

My Lab has properly "snapped" at 2 dogs since then. The first time my Lab snapped at another dog (a German Shepherd) I was barely even looking because for 4 years he was the most dog-friendly dog I've ever seen, so I had no reason to think he would do it. The next time was at the vet (vaccinations). In the waiting room someone walked their dog up to mine to let them meet. I could tell my dog was a bit wound up (he stiffened up) but I left the lead loose and didn't say anything so I wouldn't influence him - that wasn't enough, he snapped anyway although the other dog didn't do anything wrong.
I will continue trying to help him get over it, but I'm not going to take the risk with any dogs unless the owner knows there's a risk of mine snapping. I can't let him frighten another dog the way he was so we now cross the road when another dog's coming. Yeah it sends the wrong message but I'm not risking it.

When the Collie was running towards him I didn't do/say anything, not that he would know - he was away looking for the tennis ball. He's bigger and tougher than a Collie (he beats his Collie brother up all the time when they're playing) so I left them to it. As I predicted he had no trouble flooring the Collie although I didn't expect him to be so quick to let go when the Collie submitted - very proud of him for that!

He's very delicate (mentally... physically he's made of steel) and every time he has a bad experience he refuses to get over it. He has been back to the park since the Collie incident and he was OK with the few dogs he met, although his body language was definitely stiffer than usual.
We have tried "dog trainers" (absolute crap... worse than crap) and an expensive qualified behaviourist (better but pretty much gave up when even "baby steps" got an aggressive reaction from the Lab). The best explanation we got was that it's extreme submissive behaviour. We are working very hard to try and build his confidence.

I've written about him before on this forum - he was the most socialised puppy I've ever had or seen. We took him through absolutely every scenario we could think of and he was perfect. Traffic/livestock/cats/water/dogs/children/loud noises... He was out all day every day being socialised and he was bullet-proof! He even successfully helped to socialise a couple of dogs in the extended family who were very dog aggressive, because his body language was so perfect and he didn't react when they snapped. He was an absolutely perfect puppy until about 1 year old when it all started going downhill for no reason we could see. He got scared of hard floors (we had to put rug "islands" all over the house for him), then he got fearful/aggressive while eating, then loud noises scared him, then walking around corners scared him, then zips scared him, then running water scared him... It kept getting worse for 3 years until about a year ago when he sorta leveled out. He is still really bad, but probably not getting worse. We've seen slight improvements in some things but it's ridiculous - if you pick up a carrier bag or turn on the tap he curls up with his tail between his legs and starts licking his lips and looking for an escape route... But then at the park he'll have the time of his life running and sliding face-first down steep rocky hills and jump into water that's colder than absolute zero. You wouldn't believe seeing him like that how much of a pampered princess he is at home.

I remember watching a really stupid episode of the Dog Whisperer where Cesar Milan tried to "dominate" a Lab who was extremely fearful/aggressive around food, because in Cesar's world every problem can be fixed in the exact same way. Predictably he got badly bitten and it wasn't a happy ending for the dog - the owners gave it up without trying any more appropriate remedies. The dog in that always reminded me of our Lab. Lovely temperament and very friendly/gentle, wouldn't hurt a fly - until he gets scared.

Anyway... sorry for the very long post! My point was that not every case can be fixed in 2 weeks and sometimes dogs do have mental health issues, which I'm guessing our Lab does.

Edited by bigbob77 on Wednesday 27th April 23:06

BigLion

1,497 posts

99 months

Wednesday 27th April 2016
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On my ipad so hard to type out a long response.

Have you had him neutered - hopefully he is intact ?

Have you tried medication - SSRIs equivalents?

If you are local I'm happy to spend some time with you and your lab at a local park.

Re that dog whisperer episode iirc the lab was removed because there was a small child in he family and resource guarding was becoming an issue and hence CM said too much risk - however CM got to the point where he was able to put his hand in the bowl whilst the dog was eating (he used a false hand at first).

bigbob77

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166 months

Thursday 28th April 2016
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BigLion said:
Have you had him neutered - hopefully he is intact ?
You don't break a dog's personality by neutering. That's equally silly to the vets who say it'll calm them down.

Have you tried medication - SSRIs equivalents?
Not yet, if he takes another turn for the worse then it's an option

If you are local I'm happy to spend some time with you and your lab at a local park.
Thanks but no thanks.

Re that dog whisperer episode iirc the lab was removed because there was a small child in he family and resource guarding was becoming an issue and hence CM said too much risk - however CM got to the point where he was able to put his hand in the bowl whilst the dog was eating (he used a false hand at first).
I still remember the dog's body language at the end of the episode with the fake hand. It looked scared and deflated. The poor thing needed something different. Not just "durrrr, doggy be bad, doggy thinks it's better than me, durrr doggy needs dominated". All he had to do was say "I made a mistake, the dog was scared and I approached it really aggressively, it was 100% my fault I got bitten and I'm going to come up with a better plan now."
The first time our Lab got aggressive over food I made the mistake of telling him off, not even that harshly but he couldn't cope with being told off at all - he ran to his bed shaking with his hackles up and growling. I accepted my mistake, now we've developed a routine he's happy with but if he ever does get wound up while eating I sit on the floor facing away from him - the least threatening position I can think of... He comes running over with his tail going 100mph and jumps into my lap for a cuddle.
I'm a software developer, not a dog whisperer, so I would expect someone like Cesar Milan to be more creative than that.
Edited to add: Just had a look through your post history. You have an uncanny way of finding fault with basically everything and everyone! Like in every single thread laugh

Edited by bigbob77 on Thursday 28th April 01:04

BigLion

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99 months

Thursday 28th April 2016
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^ I don't have many posts and do critique

Disagree re your interpretation of the CM episode and whilst I don't condone all his techniques there are no doubt he has many success of "red zone" dogs (inc pitbulls) and most often than not the dogs only play up when the owners come back on the scene.

Personally I think you are doing things wrong - for example putting rugs down because your dog is scared of wooden floors - avoidance is only ever a short term respite. However we can agree to disagree smile


What I would say is don't blame other dog owners - your dog is off leash and their dog is off leash - they are not to know the history of your dog but tehy do know their dogs are "fine". You do know the history of you dog and hence the responsibility re duty of care to your pet falls on your shoulders. You have had your dog attacked 4 to 5 times - that is abnormal and points to an issue your side and not to the other dogs. So best to keep your dog on a leash and let other owners dogs enjoy their freedom as they appear not to be the ones wiith the issues. One must always remember the world does not revollve around us.

If I had your dogs for 2 weeks, he would be super confident and playful by the time I finished working with him - I would never ever create a situation where he is allowed to avoid despite how stressful he may become during a short window of time - anxiety passes with exposure, avoidance means you leave your dog distressed for life.

Sorry I know I'm blunt, but don't have time to soften the words - its my modus operandi.

Edited by BigLion on Thursday 28th April 09:13

bigbob77

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Thursday 28th April 2016
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BigLion said:
I would never ever create a situation where he is allowed to avoid despite how stressful he may become during a short window of time - anxiety passes with exposure, avoidance means you leave your dog distressed for life.
You know those TV programmes where psychologists expose phobic people to their triggers - there's a lot more that goes on in the background, you only get to see the exciting bit at the end. But hey your armchair psychology helps you treat any dog within 2 weeks and that's great smile, I'll stick with the slower and gentler approach personally.

You should extend your services to people, BTW... "I fix any anxiety within 2 weeks or your money back" - you'll make a fortune and I'll be your first customer laugh

BigLion

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99 months

Thursday 28th April 2016
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bigbob77 said:
BigLion said:
I would never ever create a situation where he is allowed to avoid despite how stressful he may become during a short window of time - anxiety passes with exposure, avoidance means you leave your dog distressed for life.
You know those TV programmes where psychologists expose phobic people to their triggers - there's a lot more that goes on in the background, you only get to see the exciting bit at the end. But hey your armchair psychology helps you treat any dog within 2 weeks and that's great smile, I'll stick with the slower and gentler approach personally.

You should extend your services to people, BTW... "I fix any anxiety within 2 weeks or your money back" - you'll make a fortune and I'll be your first customer laugh
You would probably be surprised at my depth of understanding re things like CBT etc. - the first mistake you have made is assuming that humans nned to "fix" anxiety - with CBT / various OCD strategies quite often the approach is to not avoid anxiety but to learn to live with it in a given situation. (works differently with us humans as we can rationalise after it has been explained to us).

Anyhow all the best - your slow progress over 3 years and worsening situation suggests that you probably are not doing things right, but hey ho - keep the pooch on a lead !!!

moorx

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114 months

Thursday 28th April 2016
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I'm glad that you seem to have CM sussed wink

I'm definitely not suitably qualified to advise, but I do know of a very good dog forum where I am happy to ask for recommendations of behaviourists (if that is something you want to explore again)? I would need to know what area you're in if so.

Alternatively, if you would like to post yourself, I can give you the details.

bigbob77

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593 posts

166 months

Thursday 28th April 2016
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moorx said:
I'm glad that you seem to have CM sussed wink

I'm definitely not suitably qualified to advise, but I do know of a very good dog forum where I am happy to ask for recommendations of behaviourists (if that is something you want to explore again)? I would need to know what area you're in if so.

Alternatively, if you would like to post yourself, I can give you the details.
Thanks for that, yes I would be interested in the details smile

He stopped getting worse about a year ago. He's still a PITA but slowly getting better so I'm sticking to our current routine. If things take a turn for the worse again I'll definitely explore new behaviourists, especially since I've found out our pet insurance will cover the cost!

BigLion - You're getting confused. I didn't say anything about keeping him on the lead? The opposite - he's a lot better behaved off the lead and both him and his "brother" are very obedient so no issues there.

bexVN

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211 months

Thursday 28th April 2016
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Anyone who thinks Cesar Milan is a good trainer/behaviour needs to learn sharpishly why he absolutely is NOT a good example of one. Getting a dog to do what you want via fear does not deserve adoration, completely the opposite.

OP I hope you find some solutions, makes for a less enjoyable walk in the end otherwise.