Rehoming a dog - seemingly impossible

Rehoming a dog - seemingly impossible

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C5_Steve

3,082 posts

103 months

Wednesday 10th April
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CheesecakeRunner said:
C5_Steve said:
My Mum recently went through the process of adopting a cat, or tried to at least but the big charities were so difficult and demanding to deal with she found it impossible.
That surprises me. I adopted two cats last year from Cats Protection. Saw them on their website Sunday night, sent them an email on Monday, had a phone call with their adoption coordinator on Tuesday, sent them a video walk-around of the house and garden on Tuesday, and collected the cats from their foster home on the Friday. All for a donation of 50 quid a cat, it couldn't have been any easier. They even vaccinated and neutered them.
It was Batterseas specifically with the Cats. We tried them for a dog years earlier and the attitude was one of serious disdain, even for (at the time) a household with three adults all working different days and hours meaning the most a dog would be alone for was about 4 hours on a rare occasion and had access to a large garden basically 24hrs a day.

With the cat, aside from the general attitude it was the non-negotiable requirement to collect any cat offered within 24hrs of being notified. My Mum was semi-retired at the time so the absolute longest it would take would be 48hrs on the odd chance they called her and she was working the next day but this was not acceptable to them.

In fairness her second cat from Celia Hammond was brilliant, he was a stray who started hanging around and then was injured, a neighbour worked at Celia Hammond and took him in. Mum offered to adopt him and had him back once everything had been done and checked.

renmure

4,247 posts

224 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Petrus1983 said:
I wasn't allowed to adopt a dog because I don't have a garden - I explained my circumstances and it was still a firm no.
I wasn’t allowed to adopt a Great Dane after a home visit despite already having 2 Danes and having a 20 year history of owning Danes because there wasn’t a 1.8m fence enclosing my garden. We lived in the countryside, surrounded by fields and woodland and the garden itself was over 5 acres.

lost in espace

6,164 posts

207 months

Wednesday 10th April
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I got my elderly dogs from Foal Farm and they had lost their home for similar reasons, give them an email.

-Cappo-

19,589 posts

203 months

Wednesday 10th April
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OP, I'm going to PM you, give me an hour or two.

Simpo Two

85,464 posts

265 months

Wednesday 10th April
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CheesecakeRunner said:
C5_Steve said:
My Mum recently went through the process of adopting a cat, or tried to at least but the big charities were so difficult and demanding to deal with she found it impossible.
That surprises me. I adopted two cats last year from Cats Protection. Saw them on their website Sunday night, sent them an email on Monday, had a phone call with their adoption coordinator on Tuesday, sent them a video walk-around of the house and garden on Tuesday, and collected the cats from their foster home on the Friday. All for a donation of 50 quid a cat, it couldn't have been any easier. They even vaccinated and neutered them.
The bigger the charity the more corporate red tape, I suspect. I got my cat from a local place... it's run by the stereotypical 'mad old cat lady' but she was st hot at matching cats with people. If she didn't think someone was right for a cat she'd put them off by saying it had a skin disease or wasn't for rehoming.

Petrus1983

8,740 posts

162 months

Wednesday 10th April
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renmure said:
Petrus1983 said:
I wasn't allowed to adopt a dog because I don't have a garden - I explained my circumstances and it was still a firm no.
I wasn’t allowed to adopt a Great Dane after a home visit despite already having 2 Danes and having a 20 year history of owning Danes because there wasn’t a 1.8m fence enclosing my garden. We lived in the countryside, surrounded by fields and woodland and the garden itself was over 5 acres.
Very similar - not having my own garden was the big no no.



Having 5 miles of beach on my doorstep wouldn't sway them. Now I just get to watch everyone else with their dogs!

Gareth1974

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3,418 posts

139 months

Wednesday 10th April
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-Cappo- said:
OP, I'm going to PM you, give me an hour or two.
Thank you

-Cappo-

19,589 posts

203 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Gareth1974 said:
-Cappo- said:
OP, I'm going to PM you, give me an hour or two.
Thank you
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Gareth1974

Original Poster:

3,418 posts

139 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Gareth1974 said:
-Cappo- said:
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Rough101

1,735 posts

75 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Defcon5 said:
I do agree, however i feel the hoops one must jump through to rehome a dog from a UK place are strangely high.

A colleague tried for a year to rehome one. Didn’t get anywhere, despite already having a dog. Seemingly if you have a job and thus aren’t at home 24/7, the dog is better off in the rehoming centre.
Exactly this.

It’s why there is a roaring trade in adopting foreign dogs, (which I suspect are bred or stolen in some cases), so folk can say ‘I rehomed’.

HTP99

22,561 posts

140 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Rough101 said:
Defcon5 said:
I do agree, however i feel the hoops one must jump through to rehome a dog from a UK place are strangely high.

A colleague tried for a year to rehome one. Didn’t get anywhere, despite already having a dog. Seemingly if you have a job and thus aren’t at home 24/7, the dog is better off in the rehoming centre.
Exactly this.

It’s why there is a roaring trade in adopting foreign dogs, (which I suspect are bred or stolen in some cases), so folk can say ‘I rehomed’.
My mum struggled massively to re-home a rescue, she tried all the well known places, they just kept putting up barriers and had weird reasons for refusing her, she didn't want to go down the foreign dog route as she knew there were plenty of UK dogs which needed re-homing, she eventually found a small local dog re-homing charity who helped her get a UK dog.

She was retired FFS, the dog she has, has had a fantastic life with her, she only recently sold her small motorhome which they travelled often in together, he acompanies her everywhere.

SistersofPercy

3,355 posts

166 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Try Pebbles Legacy based in Stoke on Trent. Small charity, never PTS.

https://pebbleslegacy.co.uk

smn159

12,672 posts

217 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Rough101 said:
Exactly this.

It’s why there is a roaring trade in adopting foreign dogs, (which I suspect are bred or stolen in some cases), so folk can say ‘I rehomed’.
Probably more likely from dodgy UK breeders. Foreign dogs that we looked at seemed to have been previously abandoned and were from (very) mixed stock rather than recognisable breeds.

MajorMantra

1,299 posts

112 months

Wednesday 10th April
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OP, please don't kill a perfectly healthy dog. There must be a home out there.

I've been racking my brains trying to think of anyone I know...

moorx

3,516 posts

114 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Rough101 said:
Defcon5 said:
I do agree, however i feel the hoops one must jump through to rehome a dog from a UK place are strangely high.

A colleague tried for a year to rehome one. Didn’t get anywhere, despite already having a dog. Seemingly if you have a job and thus aren’t at home 24/7, the dog is better off in the rehoming centre.
Exactly this.

It’s why there is a roaring trade in adopting foreign dogs, (which I suspect are bred or stolen in some cases), so folk can say ‘I rehomed’.
Unfortunately, some dogs brought from abroad also end up in UK rescue centres, because the groups bringing them in don't all provide the back-up that most UK rescue centres do. For all of the dogs I have adopted, it has been a requirement that the dog be returned to the rescue if they cannot be kept.

During the course of more than 30 years, I have managed to adopt 14 dogs from 6 different rescues (in England and Wales) - all while working full-time.
About half of those have been adopted jointly with my partner (who works from home) but the others were adopted when I was single and out at work during the day. I made arrangements for the dogs to be let out and walked while I was at work and provided proof of this. I also chose dogs (ages/breeds) that could cope with this lifestyle. I appreciate not everyone has the same experience, and I'm sure some good homes are turned down, but it annoys me when people say they 'had to go out and buy a puppy because they couldn't get a dog from rescue'. No one has to buy a puppy. Perhaps if breeders were a bit more fussy, there would be fewer dogs in rescue.

I hope a home or rescue space can be found OP.


CheesecakeRunner

3,808 posts

91 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Gareth1974 said:
-Cappo- said:
Gareth1974 said:
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Thank you
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Do tell if this means he gets homed! I’m not remotely a dog person, but he’s a great looking dog.

MrBig

2,697 posts

129 months

Wednesday 10th April
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What a lovely dog. I'd love to help out but I have 2 young children, one of which is definitely smaller than the dog, so my wife would never go for it frown

Gareth1974

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3,418 posts

139 months

Wednesday 10th April
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CheesecakeRunner said:
Do tell if this means he gets homed! I’m not remotely a dog person, but he’s a great looking dog.
Cappo is kindly trying to help, but as yet nothing is sorted. Any offers of help are appreciated. I’ve tried all of the recommended shelters with no success so far.

-Cappo-

19,589 posts

203 months

Wednesday 10th April
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Gareth1974 said:
CheesecakeRunner said:
Do tell if this means he gets homed! I’m not remotely a dog person, but he’s a great looking dog.
Cappo is kindly trying to help, but as yet nothing is sorted. Any offers of help are appreciated. I’ve tried all of the recommended shelters with no success so far.
Working on it!

Gareth1974

Original Poster:

3,418 posts

139 months

Wednesday 10th April
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-Cappo- said:
Gareth1974 said:
CheesecakeRunner said:
Do tell if this means he gets homed! I’m not remotely a dog person, but he’s a great looking dog.
Cappo is kindly trying to help, but as yet nothing is sorted. Any offers of help are appreciated. I’ve tried all of the recommended shelters with no success so far.
Working on it!
Thank you so much