Rehoming a dog - seemingly impossible

Rehoming a dog - seemingly impossible

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VeeReihenmotor6

2,175 posts

175 months

Thursday 11th April
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Fermit said:
MrBig said:
What is this crate thing that goes on now? When I was younger we had a dog, as did most of my friends, none of us ever saw or heard of crates. Our dogs slept in dog beds?!?
Some dogs prefer crates to sleep, and some dogs need them to train them to be 'clean' across the night.
We didn't use the crate for ours, she sleeps in a bed. But friends use crates for the same reasons - sleep training and "safe place"

croyde

22,933 posts

230 months

Thursday 11th April
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It does amaze me how many people own dogs, especially here in SW London.

Majority of the owners are of working age so how can they be around for the dog all the time.

I fancy having a dog but I work and am out from early to late, do shifts etc.

In the 90s I had a colleague who brought her dog to work and left the poor thing in her parked car, a Ford Fiesta XR2.

There was nothing soft left in the cabin as it had all been chewed to bits by the poor pooch.

Someone I know has a partner that runs a Doggy Daycare and picks the dogs up in the morning and drops them in the evening.

I think they charge £40 a day per dog. One customer uses them to look after her 8 dogs, 5 days a week yikes

Rh14n

942 posts

108 months

Thursday 11th April
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Petrus1983 said:
Rebew said:
One of the problems is that rescue centres seem so unwilling to rehome dogs once they have taken them in.

We have an 8 year old Beagle and would love to take in a rescue Beagle because we could give another dog a great home however we also have two boys (6 and 4) and it seems that rescue centres are unwilling to rehome a dog to a family with younger children, even though our boys have grown up around dogs.

Our situation is bad enough but I was speaking to a family friend yesterday who has owned German Shepherds for 20 years. They are wealthy and have no children or other dogs at the moment but all of the rescues that they contacted were unwilling to rehome with them for the pettiest of reasons.

It seems that once a dog has gone into a rescue centre it is very hard for them to find their way out again.
I wasn't allowed to adopt a dog because I don't have a garden - I explained my circumstances and it was still a firm no.
I echo this. Our old Springer Spaniel died 3 weeks ago and following a holiday next month we would like to adopt another dog. Unfortunately, our garden is not totally secure (and would be difficult to make so). Despite the road being very quiet, used mainly by pedestrians and we are just a 3 minute walk to great riverside walks, rescues will not consider us despite us being a retired couple, no visiting children, take our dogs everywhere we can when we're not home. I noticed that Spaniel Aid have recently relaxed their 'secure garden' requirements for Fosterers recently so I submitted an application last week ... awaiting their response.

dhutch

14,388 posts

197 months

Thursday 11th April
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Rh14n said:
I echo this. Our old Springer Spaniel died 3 weeks ago and following a holiday next month we would like to adopt another dog. Unfortunately, our garden is not totally secure (and would be difficult to make so). Despite the road being very quiet, used mainly by pedestrians and we are just a 3 minute walk to great riverside walks, rescues will not consider us despite us being a retired couple, no visiting children, take our dogs everywhere we can when we're not home. I noticed that Spaniel Aid have recently relaxed their 'secure garden' requirements for Fosterers recently so I submitted an application last week ... awaiting their response.
Can you not just bang up some netting or the like?

We added a 2ft extension using chicken wire (could also use green mesh) and roofing batterns.

-Cappo-

19,590 posts

203 months

Thursday 11th April
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Jordie Barretts sock said:
Cappo, if you get stuck, PM me.

I'm sure between us we can do something.
Will do, thanks. I'm waiting on responses re a couple of options currently but nothing firm yet.

-Cappo-

19,590 posts

203 months

Thursday 11th April
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vaud said:
Try local town/village facebook groups?
You need to be REALLY careful if handing over a dog for rehoming to a random person you know nothing about. Sadly there are elements in society who respond to such adverts and collect the dogs, which are then used as bait for "training" fighting dogs. OP is already aware.

dunkind

171 posts

20 months

Thursday 11th April
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A chap I knew wanted rid of his dog so tied it to a lamppost a few streets down from where he lived. No identification on it, his thinking was that some sad sucker would see the dog and take it in. Sure enough within a couple of hours the dog had gone.

Jordie Barretts sock

4,143 posts

19 months

Thursday 11th April
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dunkind said:
A chap I knew wanted rid of his dog so tied it to a lamppost a few streets down from where he lived. No identification on it, his thinking was that some sad sucker would see the dog and take it in. Sure enough within a couple of hours the dog had gone.
If I'd seen that I'd have happily done the same to him.
What makes someone think that is OK?

TikTak

1,560 posts

19 months

Thursday 11th April
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It's always been an issue but it is a little more crazy post pandemic. The whole process is tough, even trying to foster/adopt as we have, so sometimes a little patience is also needed.

There are generally loads of these places thought, big ones like RSPCA, Battersea but there are loads and loads of local groups in most areas, especially if it's a doggy type area.

Also in my experience no decent places will outright refuse a dog if you go there, without at least finding a place you can take it.

Dogs Trust are one of our clients and in all honesty we adopted from there and they are slammed but everyone is lovely and they will help. As they're so big they do have a 'process', but it doesn't take that long. Fill in their rehoming form online and they'll have spoken to you and have options for you within a week or so.

vaud

50,535 posts

155 months

Thursday 11th April
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-Cappo- said:
vaud said:
Try local town/village facebook groups?
You need to be REALLY careful if handing over a dog for rehoming to a random person you know nothing about. Sadly there are elements in society who respond to such adverts and collect the dogs, which are then used as bait for "training" fighting dogs. OP is already aware.
Yes but if it is that or euthanise the dog, it may be a viable risk.

-Cappo-

19,590 posts

203 months

Thursday 11th April
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vaud said:
-Cappo- said:
vaud said:
Try local town/village facebook groups?
You need to be REALLY careful if handing over a dog for rehoming to a random person you know nothing about. Sadly there are elements in society who respond to such adverts and collect the dogs, which are then used as bait for "training" fighting dogs. OP is already aware.
Yes but if it is that or euthanise the dog, it may be a viable risk.
Agreed, but a little bit of DD will go a long way before handing the dog over.

Jordie Barretts sock

4,143 posts

19 months

Friday 12th April
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Any news?


-Cappo-

19,590 posts

203 months

Friday 12th April
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Jordie Barretts sock said:
Any news?
Sadly not yet. I've approached two local rescues and am awaiting response, and a good friend has asked me for more info about the dog which I'll discuss with him but not really sure he can take it.

I know this is unethical in the extreme but I'm starting to wonder whether the only way to save him would be to "abandon" him at a rescue which has a no-kill policy? I can't really quite believe I'm even saying that but that would at least save him? Not really an option for someone to "find" him as a stray and hand over to the dog warden, because he quite likely then would end up on a 7-day list or similar.

@JBS, I'll message you now.

moorx

3,516 posts

114 months

Friday 12th April
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croyde

22,933 posts

230 months

Friday 12th April
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I keep dropping in hoping there's good news for poor ol' Teddy.

Jordie Barretts sock

4,143 posts

19 months

Friday 12th April
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It's looking good for Teddy.

Perhaps a bit of final arrangement, but he's going to be ok I think.

croyde

22,933 posts

230 months

Friday 12th April
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Good ol' PH, and a big Yeah! for Teddy. Fingers crossed.

Jordie Barretts sock

4,143 posts

19 months

Friday 12th April
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He's how big? I saw him first!

No, I'm the oldest, I chose first.

Ok, we share him.

pinchmeimdreamin

9,965 posts

218 months

Friday 12th April
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A virtual pint on the way to you. beerbeer
This is why I love PH

redback911

2,719 posts

266 months

Friday 12th April
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Hey cool, a happy conclusion? We will need more pics obviously. Well done all involved \o/