Cheating wife - what to do?

Cheating wife - what to do?

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R500POP

8,785 posts

211 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Dusty964 said:
You cant have much respect for her anyway if you refer to her as being a bh.
I think that probably anger coming out given the circumstances.

Zwoelf

25,867 posts

207 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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GroundEffect said:
So I'm the only one that thought "Hot, he should have joined in and made it a manage-et-trois"? paperbag
"Threesome" in that context.

A "ménage à trois" (household of three) is when all three parties live together or nowadays just maintain a tripartite relationship, however the domestic arrangements. That would take a lot more work and compromise to pull off to everyone's satisfaction I expect.

GroundEffect

13,850 posts

157 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Zwoelf said:
GroundEffect said:
So I'm the only one that thought "Hot, he should have joined in and made it a manage-et-trois"? paperbag
"Threesome" in that context.

A "ménage à trois" (household of three) is when all three parties live together or nowadays just maintain a tripartite relationship, however the domestic arrangements. That would take a lot more work and compromise to pull off to everyone's satisfaction I expect.
My mistake for not knowing the intricacies of these things biggrin

Still sounds hot, though.

Oakey

27,595 posts

217 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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drivin_me_nuts said:
Quite so. In fact, it can also show that you went the extra mile to resolve your issues.
His 'issues' being that he suspected her of cheating and he was right?

Zwoelf

25,867 posts

207 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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GroundEffect said:
My mistake for not knowing the intricacies of these things biggrin
You'd think if anybody would... hehe

GroundEffect said:
Still sounds hot, though.
Only for you as you get to be the ham in the sandwich.

RevYob

3,560 posts

175 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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As much as you may love her, you'll never be able to trust her again.

Bin her.

Kateg28

1,353 posts

164 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Us women, we generally need more emotional involvement to get our pants off. To us, it is not a physical act, it is an emotional one. In my opinion that makes it worse.

Walk away, don't stay and be unhappy for the child's sake. As long as your child knows they are loved then they will be fine (my son points out quite regularly that he gets two christmas's two birthday celebrations and two holidays etc).




By the way, I did have an affair for 5 years but I was the other woman. He left home after 3 years for me, but eventually it ended for us (for many unrelated reasons) and then I heard he went back home and according to all reports they are happy. Not sure how she can possibly accept it all but that is her problem. I have nothing at all to do with him now.

R500POP

8,785 posts

211 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Kateg28 said:
Us women, we generally need more emotional involvement to get our pants off. To us, it is not a physical act, it is an emotional one. In my opinion that makes it worse.

Walk away, don't stay and be unhappy for the child's sake. As long as your child knows they are loved then they will be fine (my son points out quite regularly that he gets two christmas's two birthday celebrations and two holidays etc).




By the way, I did have an affair for 5 years but I was the other woman. He left home after 3 years for me, but eventually it ended for us (for many unrelated reasons) and then I heard he went back home and according to all reports they are happy. Not sure how she can possibly accept it all but that is her problem. I have nothing at all to do with him now.
Bloody homewrecker..................



Just kidding.

GroundEffect

13,850 posts

157 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Zwoelf said:
GroundEffect said:
My mistake for not knowing the intricacies of these things biggrin
You'd think if anybody would... hehe

GroundEffect said:
Still sounds hot, though.
Only for you as you get to be the ham in the sandwich.
Hey! Just because I'm an equal-opportunity-type person doesn't mean I'm all about threesomes and any about of Xsome you can think of blah

stargazer30

1,601 posts

167 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Op your married with a child so your ****ed. Its all your fault regardless of whos fault it really is. She gets the house and you pay for her to live in it and sleep with who she pleases.

I'd say finish it and do your best to see your little-un as much as possible. Bet hey its your life, your call.

On the plus side no bloke with half a brain who is after anything more then nookie will settle with a woman whos ripped her x-husband off. Goes around, comes around.

Kateg28

1,353 posts

164 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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R500POP said:
Bloody homewrecker..................



Just kidding.
And not a very good one either apparently...
I gave myself a very stern talking to and would never do it again, especially as that is what happened to me.
Doh!

Zwoelf

25,867 posts

207 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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GroundEffect said:
Hey! Just because I'm an equal-opportunity-type person doesn't mean I'm all about threesomes and any about of Xsome you can think of blah
Lies.

swiftpete

1,894 posts

194 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Sorry to hear this. If her way of trying to work things out after an argument is to let another man ejaculate inside her vagina, I don't think you should be with her any more. I suspect she's been getting shafted, sucking him off and cuddling up for a while.
Move on homeboy, get another one that's not broken.

sleep envy

62,260 posts

250 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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swiftpete said:
Sorry to hear this. If her way of trying to work things out after an argument is to let another man ejaculate inside her vagina, I don't think you should be with her any more. I suspect she's been getting shafted, sucking him off and cuddling up for a while.
Move on homeboy, get another one that's not broken.
just checked your profile to see if by any chance you worked for relate

Buster73

5,077 posts

154 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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st in her knicker drawer.

justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

243 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Buster73 said:
st in her knicker drawer.
I think he wanted germane ideas, not Germanic.

Steffan

10,362 posts

229 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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sleep envy said:
swiftpete said:
Sorry to hear this. If her way of trying to work things out after an argument is to let another man ejaculate inside her vagina, I don't think you should be with her any more. I suspect she's been getting shafted, sucking him off and cuddling up for a while.
Move on homeboy, get another one that's not broken.
just checked your profile to see if by any chance you worked for relate
beer

Excellent work. Keep it up!

KrazyIvan

4,341 posts

176 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Anyone else starting to think that some of theses "My ho's been sucking off other Bro's" threads are starting to get a little too common for them All to be real. This is fast becoming the Lounge equivalent to "What Car should I buy"

I mean if you take PH, as a guide then pretty much every women out there is struggling to keep here knickers where M&S intended, and they are all money grabbing snakes.

No offence to the OP, if it is as you say it is, I hope you get it all sorted out and wish nothing but the best for you, and herpes for her.

Mr Pies

8,860 posts

188 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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You have my sympathy op, she's a slag. Get rid now, move on with your life. You deserve someone far better than that.

Steffan

10,362 posts

229 months

Wednesday 28th September 2011
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A bit stark perhaps.

But this is the probable reality. Do not sell yourself short.

Loose knickers tend to remain very flexible. You have been warned. Up to you.

Find a woman who really wants YOU.

Then spend your time explaining why you cannot be around all the time. Much better.

Much better particularly given the STD rates currently and horrendous complications of some of the infections.

This is serious stuff you do not need this in your life. Or wife.