Cheating wife - what to do?

[IN51GHT]

I'm assuming that the smashing in of back doors has already been mentioned?

[marcosgt]

IN51GHT said:

I'm assuming that the smashing in of back doors has already been mentioned?

I think if anyone follows the recommendations of the poster before you, it'll be their back doors that are getting regular attention...

Good to read things worked out well for the OP, long may it last.

M.

[oobster]

ShyTallKnight said:

Glad it's worked out for you OP and wishing you all the best for the future.

^This. I don't think I could 'work it out' if I was in a similar position but fair play to you, and all the best.

[DannyScene]

I'm not sure I could ever look at someone the same way after such an abuse of trust especially while you were out trying to fix it at counselling she was out getting rattled :s

I've only read the first and last page admitedly so no idea on the filler inbetween

Good luck to you OP, glad you've worked it out if thats what you really want, I wish you many happy years ahead

[ArsE92]

DannyScene said:

I'm not sure I could ever look at someone the same way after such an abuse of trust especially while you were out trying to fix it at counselling she was out getting rattled :s

I've only read the first and last page admitedly so no idea on the filler inbetween

But you thought you'd contribute with your hilarious quip anyway?

[King Herald]

julian64 said:

Cheating is not illegal. Does anyone want to consider why it isn't illegal?

And therein lies the answer to the numerous 'she/he is cheating on me' threads in PH.


Job done, nice one, move along now, nothing more to see on this thread.

[Steffan]

julian64 said:

Cheating is not illegal. Does anyone want to consider why it isn't illegal?


I think if a few of you considered this you wouldn't keep posting such rubbish about stockholm sydrome, or where the fault lies.

Truth is that the least useful thing that can happen in a relationship is to apportion blame. Both parties are capable of walking at any time, and the only thing that keeps a relationship together is that both want to stay together. Each person has to make that decision for themselves. The op has come to understand this.

By apportioning blame it turns into a parent child relationship, and it is that which tends to lead to the cyclical behaviour because anyone being treated like a child for long enough will finally start acting like one.

I really don't understand why anyone posts on here for relationship advice. The quality of advice is at the level of the local schoolyard.

I agree with your assessement . It would appear many contributors find the process itself cathartic. I have no idea why. Best of luck to the OP.