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AyBee
5,212 posts
71 months
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Bit late to the thread - if you know the level of mental before you get into it, does it make life easier or more difficult and would you do it? (p.s. classic case of hot and mental and I'm struggling  ).
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The Beaver King
3,550 posts
64 months
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AyBee said: Bit late to the thread - if you know the level of mental before you get into it, does it make life easier or more difficult and would you do it? (p.s. classic case of hot and mental and I'm struggling ). Knowing beforehand makes it easier to weight up the pros and cons. It also means you aren't likely to get caught by surprise when she attempts to give you a left hook after you admit to disliking her choice of film at the cinema. In all honesty, only you will know if it's worth it. One of the big drawbacks with the mental is that you can't really test drive before committing, as they tend to go a little psycho when you decide that it's not for you. I'd say 'obvious mental' is far more preferable to 'hidden mental'...
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NotDave
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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being fit aint worth it, needs to be filthy and special too
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The Beaver King
3,550 posts
64 months
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NotDave said: being fit aint worth it, needs to be filthy and special too ^^^^^^^ Actually this man here will have the answers. Agreed though, fit and mental does not guarantee amazing, dirty sex. Hence the need for a test drive.
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AyBee
5,212 posts
71 months
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NotDave said: being fit aint worth it, needs to be filthy and special too Things you can't generally find out before trying and committing slightly though...! I have a feel the fact that she's a mates ex (even though it's 5 years) will be what stops me going there this time! Don't want to feel mate mental 
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NotDave
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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Answers?  I fell in love... That f  ked everything
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OlberJ
11,938 posts
102 months
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AyBee said: Bit late to the thread - if you know the level of mental before you get into it, does it make life easier or more difficult and would you do it? (p.s. classic case of hot and mental and I'm struggling ). If you're man enough to control it from day one and the bonus you've been pre-warned it should be a doddle. That's the thing with mental burds, they are 99% looking for a father figure to keep them in line.
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theshrew
1,471 posts
53 months
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NotDave said: Minor mental. It's "the week" and she's gotta cold too..... So this morning when walking downstairs, I was asked if I wanted toast. I replied affirmative. She offers me hers, that's just popped up, I say: "no it's cool you eat that, I'll do my own. That's a bit pale for me" I'm greeted with a string of anger in the form of: "Oh for f ks sakes, never f king happy are you? why don't just f k off to work, f king hell you're getting on my tits today"  I saunter off, stick me shoes etc on. Return and get.......... My lunch air mailed across the kitchen at me. Accompanied by: "JUST f k OFF TO WORK, f k OFF! GO ON, f k YOURSELF" Now, besides me being in stitches with laughter at this pathetic tantrum, I was slightly miffed. Sure enough FFWD 2hours and I get the "sorry" text.  At least yours said sorry - I dont get a sniff of a sorry or anything other than its 100% ok for her to act that way FFS
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Tyre Tread
6,317 posts
85 months
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theshrew said: At least yours said sorry - I dont get a sniff of a sorry or anything other than its 100% ok for her to act that way FFS  Hello doormat!
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NotDave
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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theshrew said: At least yours said sorry - I dont get a sniff of a sorry or anything other than its 100% ok for her to act that way FFS "sorry" is a new thing. REALLY NEW to her. Normally she just convinces herself that she's right, and that you, the bloke (in this case me) are completely wrong, and utter scum.
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NotDave
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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OlberJ said: That's the thing with mental burds, they are 99% looking for a father figure to keep them in line. Missed this. Sort of. They want someone to shout at and scream at. Someone to cry on. Someone who'll love them without question. And at the same time, someone who when the need arises will defile them in ways that'd make a pronstar blush
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sunnygym
316 posts
44 months
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Does " the mental" still apply if the missus is pregnant? Or is that just part and parcel?
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Council Baby
16,089 posts
59 months
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sunnygym said: Does " the mental" still apply if the missus is pregnant? Or is that just part and parcel? Part and parcel, any level of insanity is justified by the hormonal overload!
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Mobile Chicane
14,000 posts
81 months
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sunnygym said: Does " the mental" still apply if the missus is pregnant? Or is that just part and parcel? Pregnant Mental is like Mental on steroids. Any capacity for logic or reason will leave the building, possibly for good.
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OlberJ
11,938 posts
102 months
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Externally they want someone to shout and scream at.
It's your job to create a place where that isn't acceptable. Where they get what they need, not what they want.
Women like that need guidance because they've never had it.
They might act like above with the doormats but in the end they'll just walk all over you and leave you crying on here about.
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Council Baby
16,089 posts
59 months
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Mobile Chicane said: Pregnant Mental is like Mental on steroids. Followed by several years of post natal mental.
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CBR JGWRR
5,074 posts
18 months
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AyBee said: Bit late to the thread - if you know the level of mental before you get into it, does it make life easier or more difficult and would you do it? (p.s. classic case of hot and mental and I'm struggling ). Look at the graphs on page 120 to 122, work out where she is. That will help. 
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Adenauer
8,903 posts
105 months
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Anyone watching Planet Earth Live at the moment? That's what it's like popping into this thread every now and again, watching an entirely different species of being, discussing 'stuff' 
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Salgar
2,530 posts
53 months
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I would really like to contribute to this thread, but I fear once I started I wouldn't be able to stop.
It's fine, it'll probably be over soon anyway.
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Adenauer
8,903 posts
105 months
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Salgar said: I would really like to contribute to this thread, but I fear once I started I wouldn't be able to stop.
It's fine, it'll probably be over soon anyway. You can't say that!!!!
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