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mgmrw
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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Right,
upon the request of Mr CB and Mr Beaver, we'll make a solid New Years attempt at vacating the Match.Com thread from discussion of:
> Lady mental
> Man mental
> long term relationship joint mental
And bring it on in here.
How's that?
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poprock
1,849 posts
70 months
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There’ll be nowt left of the Match thread if you do that.
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Council Baby
16,088 posts
59 months
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poprock said: There’ll be nowt left of the Match thread if you do that. Or maybe people will actually drift back to the match thread and discuss dating rather than it being full of nut nut stories all day every day and f  k all to do with dating... perhaps...  Matt awaits thread closure and sarcastic comment from salmon cord wearing mod 
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Monkeylegend
3,235 posts
100 months
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Looking forward to being of service.
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mgmrw
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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Council Baby said: Matt awaits thread closure and sarcastic comment from salmon cord wearing mod No worries. No doubt the one we should all hail, shall be along shortly to piss on Beavers strawberries, ruin my self esteem and kick the preverbial out of a small kitten
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Rugbyman
1,553 posts
72 months
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Ive never even heard of 'man mental'
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WorAl
10,877 posts
57 months
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Ding ding, round two.
Right then, the mental you say? I'll tell you'll about that later if you like? And how to deal with it.
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mgmrw
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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Man mental = see Match thread occupants Al: crack on, yours sounded like fun 
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The Beaver King
3,550 posts
64 months
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Ahhhhhhhh, I feel at home already  So, I was thinking, maybe I wouldn't feel quite so agitated about the whole 'ex' thing if I sent a closure letter/email... I'm feeling it may be a bad idea, but I've got some things I'd like to get off my chest and a 'face to face' conversation will inevitably end in a screaming match. Nothing too gushy, just saying things happened, I may have done some stuff, she may have done some stuff, I don't regret our relationship, I've learnt a lot, I hope she meets the right person for her, does well in her job and wish her the best. Actually, reading that back, maybe not the best idea...
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mgmrw
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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The Beaver King said: So, I was thinking, maybe I wouldn't feel quite so agitated about the whole 'ex' thing if I sent a closure letter/email... I suggested closure in the other thread and you shot me down, PILLOCK! How about, write the damn letter. Then re-write it. Once it says all you want to say, you can either put it somewhere safe & use it as catharsis or post it to the little blonde mind-f k, and live with the consequences. If do the latter, BE VERY BLOODY CAREFUL WITH YOUR WORDING.
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SD1992
4,864 posts
27 months
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Man mental?  And what actually happens in the match thread? Have never ventured in there...
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The Beaver King
3,550 posts
64 months
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SD1992 said: And what actually happens in the match thread? Have never ventured in there... Horrible, unspeakable acts of depravity, filth and worse, people showing...... their feelings 
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Council Baby
16,088 posts
59 months
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SD1992 said: Man mental? And what actually happens in the match thread? Have never ventured in there... Ummm... stalking, jealousy, manipulation, controlling etc. The match thread contains all sorts, but very litle about dating recently, some good insults and predictions, some decent dating f k ups, a lot of insecurities and some stories of bonkers exes - mainly women but then this is a male focused forum, you should have a read
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Justayellowbadge
29,382 posts
111 months
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mgmrw said: No doubt the one we should all hail, shall be along shortly to piss on Beavers strawberries, ruin my self esteem and kick the preverbial out of a small kitten You have issues.
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The Beaver King
3,550 posts
64 months
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mgmrw said: The Beaver King said: So, I was thinking, maybe I wouldn't feel quite so agitated about the whole 'ex' thing if I sent a closure letter/email... I suggested closure in the other thread and you shot me down, PILLOCK! How about, write the damn letter. Then re-write it. Once it says all you want to say, you can either put it somewhere safe & use it as catharsis or post it to the little blonde mind-f k, and live with the consequences. If do the latter, BE VERY BLOODY CAREFUL WITH YOUR WORDING. Aye, I know, but now I've had time to think on it, it might not be such a bad idea. As long as I keep it free of bitterness, desperation, affection and blame, I reckon it could help me put this to bed once and for all. At least that way I can avoid the inevitable awkward encounter with her and her new fella. Plus it should stop our joint friends from feeling stuck in the middle. ETA - This is a new thread and the above reads like I want her back. So for anyone who isn't up to speed, I sacked her off...
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poprock
1,849 posts
70 months
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The Beaver King said: Horrible, unspeakable acts of depravity, filth and worse, people showing...... their feelings I thought the Match thread was mostly blokes posting “Listen to what this woman did to me, she’s MENTAL”, followed by other chaps saying “erm, hold on a minute mate, have you looked in the mirror lately? Nutjob.”
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Changedmyname
4,723 posts
50 months
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Strayed into the match thread once and whooshed out again.
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mgmrw
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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Justayellowbadge said: You have issues. I've been here THIS long and you've only just realised? I was told you knew everything. The Beaver King said: Aye, I know, but now I've had time to think on it, it might not be such a bad idea.
As long as I keep it free of bitterness, desperation, affection and blame, I reckon it could help me put this to bed once and for all. At least that way I can avoid the inevitable awkward encounter with her and her new fella. Plus it should stop our joint friends from feeling stuck in the middle. I'd personally, scribble it out. Sleep on it. Re-draft the next day/week. And when you're sure it will gain closure, POST IT. Don't hand deliver, just POST IT!
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Council Baby
16,088 posts
59 months
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Justayellowbadge said: mgmrw said: No doubt the one we should all hail, shall be along shortly to piss on Beavers strawberries, ruin my self esteem and kick the preverbial out of a small kitten You have issues. Man mental personified  He likes being beaten and kicked in the nuts and having his self esteem battered by his mrs as well. Doesn;t even answer back
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mgmrw
Original Poster
20,951 posts
26 months
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Council Baby said: Man mental personified He likes being beaten and kicked in the nuts and having his self esteem battered by his mrs as well. Doesn;t even answer back You didn't stop at Derby did you? You carried on up the M1, didn't you? That rustling noise the other week, was you up a ladder, WASN'T IT?
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