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Tuvra
Original Poster
3,616 posts
95 months
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I sometimes find myself looking at women and thinking about their bedroom Etiquette, I then come to a conclusion which defines my opinion whether or not I really desire said woman. I been thinking since reading the Petra Ecclestone thread, I look at her and think yeah shes pretty, bit generic looking, bit stuck up looking, probably crap in bed, probably really boring in bed. Conclusion: Meh, not fussed. On the other hand, I see women who are not really that attractive to look at, however they have this unexplainable "look" of dirtiness? I can only assume its my brain making subconcious calcultaions and coming to the conclusion that they are dirty. Other things like sexual inuendos, clothing, flirting, stories etc also add to the "aura" of women which in turn makes them desirable. My GF knows a few women that I like and she cant for the life of her see what I see in them, she finds it "offensive" when I look at or desire certain women etc? Shes not bitter as she can see the attraction with certain women, like last night when she asked me if I thought Holly Willoughby was attractive she didn't bat an eye lid when I said "Yeah definitely got better with age". Am I the only one that dislikes people I should desire, and desires people who beauty wise don't appear that desirable? Some of mine are really bad, so whats your worst/best shouldn't but do / should but don't combo's? I dare not say my "shouldn't but do" just yet, however my "should but don't" is Rihanna 
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goldblum
7,000 posts
37 months
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Tuvra said: (My girlfriend)..she finds it "offensive" when I look at or desire certain women etc? Shes not bitter as she can see the attraction with certain women,
Just as well the silly thing isn't bitter eh? I mean,Christ,a jealous woman?
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rumple
2,609 posts
21 months
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I know what you mean, some women just look muck, looks hasn't a great deal to do with it, if I knew what it was I'd bottle it
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TheHeretic
69,407 posts
125 months
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Secretary/nerdy types. Nom, nom.
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DanDC5
7,024 posts
37 months
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rumple said: I know what you mean, some women just look muck, looks hasn't a great deal to do with it, if I knew what it was I'd bottle it This. It's unexplainable but some women do just look utter filth. Usually for a reason.
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vixen1700
6,588 posts
140 months
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Yeah, there are women you can see who you can just imagine on the cover of Dirty Amateurs from Bolton Vol. III DVDs. 
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M001
490 posts
98 months
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My neighbour. She has a bit of a sour face and doesn't crack a smile much. She always looks like she is pissed off with something but i reckon she is absolute filth!
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evenflow
7,596 posts
152 months
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Yes, I've often thought this. Probably too often to be honest.
Cheryl Cole is a case in point. Stunningly pretty by any definition. Sexy? Nope, in my eyes not an iota of sex appeal. Just looks like she'd lie there completely still and moaning - and not in a good way.
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Eric Mc
67,846 posts
135 months
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The French have a good expression for it. I don't know what it is though.
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NinjaPower
2,348 posts
50 months
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Yep... This is always the way isn't it? I look see random women on a daily basis and think 'absolutely' yet I look a generic attractive celebrity and just think 'Meh'... It's all very personal taste isn't it? I saw a girl in a club a few months ago who was a petite rock-chick type girl with loads of tattoos, a mass of white blonde dreadlock hair, piercings all over, and dressed like a Goth in biker boots, a tartan mini skirt and a black mesh vest. I was absolutely rooted to the spot when I saw her... I could barely speak I was drooling that much. Pointed her out to my mates and they just laughed and told me I was 'really f  ked up for finding THAT attractive'..,
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smileymikey
613 posts
96 months
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TheHeretic said: Secretary/nerdy types. Nom, nom. Yep gets my vote, would rather have a good go all bad, than have a bad girl go bad if you know what I mean
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car crazy
1,796 posts
33 months
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Would Katie Price count as my shouldn't fancy but do 
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g3org3y
7,058 posts
61 months
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rumple said: I know what you mean, some women just look muck, looks hasn't a great deal to do with it, if I knew what it was I'd bottle it Actually found the opposite. The ones that seems somewhat overtly sexual end up being fairly average in bed. The ones that have a 'good girl' image end up being the naughty ones as I suspect they have the opportunity to 'let loose'. The current gf looked like a primary school teacher (proper little good girl/nice image) so I didn't have much hope for her the first night we ended up going back together. Her opening line of 'you can put it anywhere you want' changed my opinion rather sharpish. Complete filth and continues to be so almost three years down the line. Suffice to say, I was impressed.
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DanDC5
7,024 posts
37 months
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NinjaPower said: I saw a girl in a club a few months ago who was a petite rock-chick type girl with loads of tattoos, a mass of white blonde dreadlock hair, piercings all over, and dressed like a Goth in biker boots, a tartan mini skirt and a black mesh vest. I was absolutely rooted to the spot when I saw her... I could barely speak I was drooling that much. Pointed her out to my mates and they just laughed and told me I was 'really f  ked up for finding THAT attractive'.., Sounds pretty good to me to be honest.
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NDA
10,257 posts
95 months
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As an aside.... do girls who go wild on the dancefloor go wild in bed?
I think they do, but my studies are incomplete.
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ali4390
1,313 posts
35 months
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g3org3y said: The ones that have a 'good girl' image end up being the naughty ones as I suspect they have the opportunity to 'let loose'. This.
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Big Rod
3,783 posts
86 months
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I used to date a girl who was a little plump, quite pretty and had a very 'prim and proper' demeanour like butter wouldn't melt in her mouth.
She was absolutely insatiable in private. I'm fairly sure she'd do anything to anything given the opportunity.
She regularly rung me out good and proper and I spent a good few months of my late twenties fairly dehydrated.
<sigh>
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chunkymonkey71
6,086 posts
68 months
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Eric Mc said: The French have a good expression for it. I don't know what it is though. I see what you did there! 
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TheHeretic
69,407 posts
125 months
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chunkymonkey71 said: Eric Mc said: The French have a good expression for it. I don't know what it is though. I see what you did there!  
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DanDC5
7,024 posts
37 months
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NDA said: As an aside.... do girls who go wild on the dancefloor go wild in bed?
I think they do, but my studies are incomplete. This is a grey area, quite often the wild dancers are merely attention seekers who you'll either get nowhere with or spend far too long trying to get somewhere with only to be disappointed. If they are of a particularly good looking variety avoid them like the plague. Like the vast majority of really hot girls they like attention but will put no effort into bedroom antics because they don't need to.
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