Match.com (Volume 5)
Discussion
Council Baby said:
NobleGuy said:
Not wanting to leave another dangling carrot after the dangly booby conversation, I'd love to tell everyone what I bet with my OH if Utd. don't win the Premier League. I may have been drunk when I gambled 
But I can't
She's going to do you with a strap on if you lose.But I can't
No lube.
Council Baby said:
Holy f
k... Those on OKC - look up the user 'meztini'.
Anyone game
Anyone can search...k... Those on OKC - look up the user 'meztini'.Anyone game
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Meztini?cf=profile_...
Go for it
fk that, the rules may state that nuts = filth, but that could be dirtier than a Japanese businessman with a coporaphilia fetish and I still wouldn't.MC - I figured almost every user would have their settings so only registered people could see their profiles. Clearly I give people too much credit.
On another note. I got a message last night that creased me up so agreed to meet her on Wednesday. I suspect she's nuts but sounds like a load of fun. What could possibly go wrong?
I'll let you know
I got an absolutely nuts message last night, profile = fit so it's got to be worth a bash It's been a while since I ventured into this thread, early Volume 4 I think. Decided to give it a rest and enjoy the single life. Dipped in and out of a few sites though, then about 4 weeks ago I exchange numbers with this girl, we've been mailing for a few months, not constantly and could be weeks between replies.
Since we swapped numbers we have talked just about every day and met up once a week, spent a lovely day together on Saturday. Going to Thorpe Park with her and a bunch of her mates next week
There is a point to this waffling though, I have a question for your collective minds. How do you ask someone 'out' these days? As in the next step, calling it a relationship and such. Not wanting to scare her but what's the best way to gently touch on the subject? I dont want it to sound like 'playground' talk when I was a teen
I much prefer POF FWIW
Since we swapped numbers we have talked just about every day and met up once a week, spent a lovely day together on Saturday. Going to Thorpe Park with her and a bunch of her mates next week
There is a point to this waffling though, I have a question for your collective minds. How do you ask someone 'out' these days? As in the next step, calling it a relationship and such. Not wanting to scare her but what's the best way to gently touch on the subject? I dont want it to sound like 'playground' talk when I was a teen
freecar said:
Jabbah said:
Whats the best free dating site? My Match.com subscription is coming to an end so thought I'd try out the free offerings. Had a look at Oasis but I must say the general level there is pretty ropey. PoF any better?
OKCupid is better than POF.ybt1982 said:
It's been a while since I ventured into this thread, early Volume 4 I think. Decided to give it a rest and enjoy the single life. Dipped in and out of a few sites though, then about 4 weeks ago I exchange numbers with this girl, we've been mailing for a few months, not constantly and could be weeks between replies.
Since we swapped numbers we have talked just about every day and met up once a week, spent a lovely day together on Saturday. Going to Thorpe Park with her and a bunch of her mates next week
There is a point to this waffling though, I have a question for your collective minds. How do you ask someone 'out' these days? As in the next step, calling it a relationship and such. Not wanting to scare her but what's the best way to gently touch on the subject? I dont want it to sound like 'playground' talk when I was a teen
Wait for her to ask. I still maintain my 100% record for never asking a girl out. Since we swapped numbers we have talked just about every day and met up once a week, spent a lovely day together on Saturday. Going to Thorpe Park with her and a bunch of her mates next week
There is a point to this waffling though, I have a question for your collective minds. How do you ask someone 'out' these days? As in the next step, calling it a relationship and such. Not wanting to scare her but what's the best way to gently touch on the subject? I dont want it to sound like 'playground' talk when I was a teen
By that, I don't mean ignore her or anything stupid. Let her know you're interested in going out, but make her ask. You need to set standards in the forthcoming relationship.
Listen to the beaver, he knows clunge...
The Beaver King said:
ybt1982 said:
It's been a while since I ventured into this thread, early Volume 4 I think. Decided to give it a rest and enjoy the single life. Dipped in and out of a few sites though, then about 4 weeks ago I exchange numbers with this girl, we've been mailing for a few months, not constantly and could be weeks between replies.
Since we swapped numbers we have talked just about every day and met up once a week, spent a lovely day together on Saturday. Going to Thorpe Park with her and a bunch of her mates next week
There is a point to this waffling though, I have a question for your collective minds. How do you ask someone 'out' these days? As in the next step, calling it a relationship and such. Not wanting to scare her but what's the best way to gently touch on the subject? I dont want it to sound like 'playground' talk when I was a teen
Wait for her to ask. I still maintain my 100% record for never asking a girl out. Since we swapped numbers we have talked just about every day and met up once a week, spent a lovely day together on Saturday. Going to Thorpe Park with her and a bunch of her mates next week
There is a point to this waffling though, I have a question for your collective minds. How do you ask someone 'out' these days? As in the next step, calling it a relationship and such. Not wanting to scare her but what's the best way to gently touch on the subject? I dont want it to sound like 'playground' talk when I was a teen
By that, I don't mean ignore her or anything stupid. Let her know you're interested in going out, but make her ask. You need to set standards in the forthcoming relationship.
Listen to the beaver, he knows clunge...
The Beaver King said:
Wait for her to ask. I still maintain my 100% record for never asking a girl out.
By that, I don't mean ignore her or anything stupid. Let her know you're interested in going out, but make her ask. You need to set standards in the forthcoming relationship.
Listen to the beaver, he knows clunge...
Great bit of advice, thanks for that By that, I don't mean ignore her or anything stupid. Let her know you're interested in going out, but make her ask. You need to set standards in the forthcoming relationship.
Listen to the beaver, he knows clunge...
Although, I'll probably just do this..... 
Adenauer said:
'Shall we go out together, you know, as an item and have rumpy pumpy and all that malarky? Or do you just see me as a friend, in which case, can I have your sister's number?'
Simple
Anyway, back to The Beaver King. It's not soemthing I wanted to do asap, I wanted to play it cool and slightly nudge the conversation in that direction, see what she thinks....Simple
ybt1982 said:
Anyway, back to The Beaver King. It's not soemthing I wanted to do asap, I wanted to play it cool and slightly nudge the conversation in that direction, see what she thinks....
Being uncharacteristically serious for two seconds; go out for a few drinks and drop a few casual remarks in her direction. Her reaction should give you an indication if she feels the same way. For example:'This is fun, I really enjoy spending time with you'
(Anything smiley with eye contact and/or physical touch is good)
I'd just ask her mate. Take her out for a meal or a few drinks at a nice bar, a bit of lighthearted conversation and then just explain how much you actually care for her and would like things to become more serious between you. She'd probably feel just as awkward were the roles reversed, which may explain why she hasn't mentioned it yet.
That or she's not interested. In which case you'll look like a right helmet when she shoots you down....
I was seeing my Gf for about 3 months before we started 'officially' dating. That only came about because she'd had a few too many glasses of vino and we were having a 'moment'.
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