"You're very nice but..."

"You're very nice but..."

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vrsmxtb

Original Poster:

2,002 posts

157 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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If I'm so lovely / nice then give me a f-ing chance and date me!

Why do women let the nice guys finish last? I swear the next date I have I'm going to be a total ahole and see what difference it makes...

Mini "I can't get a girlfriend" rant over.

banghead


Justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

243 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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Snivelling gimp.

DickHerpes

900 posts

160 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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Stop being such a loser.

davepoth

29,395 posts

200 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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vrsmxtb said:
If I'm so lovely / nice then give me a f-ing chance and date me!

Why do women let the nice guys finish last? I swear the next date I have I'm going to be a total ahole and see what difference it makes...

Mini "I can't get a girlfriend" rant over.

banghead
The answer is to be an utter dick, I understand.

KingNothing

3,169 posts

154 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen.

matt998cc

35 posts

160 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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does this smell like chloroform to you ....


try that ^

LeeMad

1,098 posts

154 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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vrsmxtb said:
I swear the next date I have I'm going to be a total ahole and see what difference it makes...
seriously do it, i learned a long time ago that if youre too nice they just wont like you. you need confidence that borders on arrogance and if youre trying to be nice you'll never pull it off.
ive never been short of women

NightRunner

12,230 posts

195 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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Plotloss

67,280 posts

271 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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LeeMad said:
seriously do it, i learned a long time ago that if youre too nice they just wont like you. you need confidence that borders on arrogance and if youre trying to be nice you'll never pull it off.
ive never been short of women
Apostrophes and capitals on the other hand...

Carthage

4,261 posts

145 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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laugh

Jaykaybi

3,494 posts

222 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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vrsmxtb said:
If I'm so lovely / nice then give me a f-ing chance and date me!

Why do women let the nice guys finish last? I swear the next date I have I'm going to be a total ahole and see what difference it makes...

Mini "I can't get a girlfriend" rant over.

banghead
What's exciting/interesting/challenging about a 'nice guy?'

Crack on.

TheEnd

15,370 posts

189 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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There's some newish psychology theory involving a ladder somehow.
It's related to being friendzoned and emasculated.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnGnl-UElVA

Practice some of that, and no more World of Warcraft.

Justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

243 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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Do you need any haircare or shoe washing advice while we're at it?

Hoofy

76,386 posts

283 months

BJG1

5,966 posts

213 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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vrsmxtb said:
If I'm so lovely / nice then give me a f-ing chance and date me!

Why do women let the nice guys finish last? I swear the next date I have I'm going to be a total ahole and see what difference it makes...

Mini "I can't get a girlfriend" rant over.

banghead
I'm quite nice.

I get laid.

You're probably just boring.

Pork

9,453 posts

235 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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You've not got a Lamborghini too, have you?

BJG1

5,966 posts

213 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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Pork said:
You've not got a Lamborghini too, have you?
No but he's got a suspicious looking mustache...

mat777

10,401 posts

161 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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vrsmxtb said:
If I'm so lovely / nice then give me a f-ing chance and date me!

Why do women let the nice guys finish last? I swear the next date I have I'm going to be a total ahole and see what difference it makes...

Mini "I can't get a girlfriend" rant over.

banghead
yes

I am in exactly the same boat as you. Apparently I'm too nice a guy. What the fk is it with girls that they go for the utter douchebags, then moan that they are being taken for granted??? Then they repeat the whole cycle all over again and NEVER fkING LEARN!!!!!!!!! furious

There's a breathtakingly gorgeous girl here at uni who I so so really utterly fancied 9and she knew it) when I met her in my accomodation last year but I never got close.. I assumed it was because she was way out of my league.

However, after bumping into her in a nightclub this year and seeing her way more drunk than usual night-out levels, she opened up with "I've missed you matt. But I could never sleep with you, you're too nice a guy. But we'll always be friends, right?".

furiousfuriousfuriousfuriousfurious



ellroy

7,037 posts

226 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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BJG1 said:
I'm quite nice.

I get laid.

You're probably just boring.
And ugly, don't forget ugly.

wendyg

2,071 posts

244 months

Thursday 17th May 2012
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Just being nice means nothing. It's good, of course, but irrelevant.
I've been looking at your posting recently.



Wow, that is really boring.
No girl is even slightly interested it the stuff youve been posting.

Be open
Be engaging
Be cheerful
Be interesting
Be interested
Be funny
Be kind
Be generous
Be attentive