"You're very nice but..."
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can be a tough issue this one. often its easy to find yourself in that frustrating situation where a girl you dont like in the slightest is mad for you, and the girl you like doesnt seem to care for you. saw this in another thread seems pretty apt:
what makes it this way from my experience is that the girl you dont like much you will talk to only when necessary and may come across as a bit aloof. this makes you even more attractive. because you like the other girl you put effort into talking to her etc and lose any sense of being aloof.
op you had some of the best advice given to you in this thread- shut the fk up. just stop talking to her 90% of the time. it helps, trust me.
what makes it this way from my experience is that the girl you dont like much you will talk to only when necessary and may come across as a bit aloof. this makes you even more attractive. because you like the other girl you put effort into talking to her etc and lose any sense of being aloof.
op you had some of the best advice given to you in this thread- shut the fk up. just stop talking to her 90% of the time. it helps, trust me.
Pretending to be interesting and having a character isn't a good enough substitute for actually being interesting! Somebody should make a chicktranslate like google translate, seriously, "nice" means "not offensive", no point complaining about it, go and become actually interesting, you know, in real life and all that
PH, making mediocrity a goal...
PH, making mediocrity a goal...
aucklander said:
what makes it this way from my experience is that the girl you dont like much you will talk to only when necessary and may come across as a bit aloof. this makes you even more attractive. because you like the other girl you put effort into talking to her etc and lose any sense of being aloof.
Which is also the same reason that once you have a gf, you suddenly appear to get more female attention Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff