Advice from people separated with children.

Advice from people separated with children.

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Crease

583 posts

168 months

Saturday 14th July 2012
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i pay my little lads maintainance weekly, although we havnt gone through CSA, we have mutually agreed to a fair price.

i dont mind if the money gets spent on the house etc, as at the end of the day, its his house aswell, the bills need to be paid and a roof kept over his head, which i am, in a way contributing to.

saying that, i get really annoyed when she bleats on about having no cash, no money for this, and i see him going without, when shes going out on the piss, buying her new fella xboxes for fathers day from my son etc, but hey ho, what can i do about that, she asked me for extra a few months ago, to which i kindly agreed to, but she wasnt to have it, ive opened another account that gets the extra amount DD'd over from my current.

my reason being, its my boys money, not hers!


keep with what you think, everyones circumstances are different. and dont be afraid to go to CSA etc, they are there to help you, not just the mothers, they work on both sides!

good luck, and i hope you get it sorted.