Has anyone used a private detective?

[ShawCrossShark]

ShyTallKnight said:

Thanks for the update ABD glad to see things are looking up for you.

It's my first Xmas on my own this year - not looking forward to it

Three years ago I was in the same position after she did a bunk on December 12th

I moved in with my new partner earlier this year while she got dumped by the bloke she ran off with and is now living in a mates' spare bedroom

Keep your chin up, keep busy doing things you want to do and remember that it WILL get better given time

ABD, great to hear your update. Just give yourself whatever time and space you feel you need and don't give in to trust issues and negativity - everybody's different

[SpeckledJim]

God bless us! Everyone!

[anonymous-user]

Good to read that update ABD. All the best!

[slippery]

Well done ABD.

[Chim]

Good stuff sir, life has a habit of turning things around

[GloverMart]

Glad to hear things are improving for you, ABD.

Might need a change of user name at this rate...

[Disco You]

blindswelledrat said:

Lovely end to the thread.
You don't normally get 'after' updates so it nice to read that you are so much happier.
I think I speak for all of PH that I am also delighted that she wants to give it another go and you aren't interested.

Hear hear.

[Rude-boy]

blindswelledrat said:

Lovely end to the thread.
You don't normally get 'after' updates so it nice to read that you are so much happier.
I think I speak for all of PH that I am also delighted that she wants to give it another go and you aren't interested.

Could not have put it better myself!

All the very best to you ABD!

[motco]

'A Little Bit Down' should now be 'Very Up'

[br d]

A great update ABD, little bit of warmth just before Christmas!

Don't end the thread though, there are plenty of us here who would like the occasional check on your forward progress.

[Jasandjules]

Onwards and upwards.

[ali_kat]

Merry Christmas

[A bit down]

Thanks again for all the good wishes, it does feel good to be getting back to normal.

I'm in touch with a couple of the other posters who are in similar positions and they seem to be getting through things too which is good news.

I've really appreciated the contributions on the thread, even the combative ones as they gave me pause for thought. I'll drop in every now and again with updates - I may even change my screen name for next time.

Cheers

ABD

[ReaderScars]

ShyTallKnight said:

It's my first Xmas on my own this year - not looking forward to it

Maybe you could try to arrange or join in some Christmas hoons? Off, up and down some winding B-roads into the depths of the countryside - destination nice pub lunch and back in time for some 'quality' TV, a few sherries and then bed. Could be worse - you could be getting dragged round the shops every other day...

[perdu]

A bit down said:

Thanks again for all the good wishes, it does feel good to be getting back to normal.

I'm in touch with a couple of the other posters who are in similar positions and they seem to be getting through things too which is good news.

I've really appreciated the contributions on the thread, even the combative ones as they gave me pause for thought. I'll drop in every now and again with updates - I may even change my screen name for next time.

Cheers

ABD

I'd just change it to ABDzup if it was me ABD.

I'm really glad you are on your upslope, it was bloody awful for you before.

See folks, there really is a Santa, only ABD's had his visit early.




Enjoy Christmas, it's good to be the king.

[ShyTallKnight]

ReaderScars said:

ShyTallKnight said:

It's my first Xmas on my own this year - not looking forward to it

Maybe you could try to arrange or join in some Christmas hoons? Off, up and down some winding B-roads into the depths of the countryside - destination nice pub lunch and back in time for some 'quality' TV, a few sherries and then bed. Could be worse - you could be getting dragged round the shops every other day...

Yep keeping busy is the key me thinks.... Re: hoons I did manage some down time on a recent business trip to California so took the opportunity of a rd trip along the pacific coast highway in a 'rental'. Wrong thread I know but just goes to show life must go on

[stewies_minion]

Good to see an update ABD.

I remember reading with interest when it all kicked off. Then I found myself in a very similar situation in September.

It's ste but not the end of the world. First Xmas without my kids coming up. But I'll get them Boxing Day so not a complete disaster.

Glad to hear it's looking up for you ABD.

[perdu]

ShyTallKnight said:

Yep keeping busy is the key me thinks.... Re: hoons I did manage some down time on a recent business trip to California so took the opportunity of a rd trip along the pacific coast highway in a 'rental'. Wrong thread I know but just goes to show life must go on

Somehow THAT is very Not The wrong Thread!

top man for that

Keep on and remember the memories of these good things


(Who? Me jealous? Gosh no.)

[jonamv8]

Dont have time to read whole thread but genuinely interested:

1 - did you catch her out? Was she playing away?

2 - if yes how did u catch her?

Glad ur doing well u seem a decent bloke

[mildmannered]

jonamv8 said:

Dont have time to read whole thread but genuinely interested:

1 - did you catch her out? Was she playing away?

2 - if yes how did u catch her?

Glad ur doing well u seem a decent bloke

Make time, it's worth the effort. And you know it's a happy ending!