The Cancer Kiss off - being dumped after diagnosis
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Like others I suppose reading this latest update is a bit of a shock. I hope and pray that you can find some strength and pull this around. Really good to hear though that you will at the very least be able to see your son. If there is anyway that you could save this thread and have it kept aside for him to read when he is older (perhaps through a friend or relative) it may go a long way to helping him understand his dad and just how much he loved him.
Keep strong and god bless, we are all really rooting fore you
Keep strong and god bless, we are all really rooting fore you
Again, thank you all so much for your kind words and support, you are amazing people.
I did ask the mods to save the previous thread and as it hs been mentioned, I will be documenting everything for my son to see at a age approximate to him. He needs to know the truth. Even through his behaviour now, i can tell he has been influenced to view me in a negative light but deep down I can see he misses me just as much as I miss him and that she won't ever be able to change.
I had such positive encouragement from you guys in so many ways. I started to build a picture of where I wanted to be, in the sense of having a positive outlook for my health. All I really wanted was to get better, have a close relationship with my son and maybe settle down with someone worthy of my love and affection. Had it all pictured in my mind and it drew so much motivation for me that I was working towards that. However, the constant blows I have received from the mental over the past few months shattered what I had envisioned and just depressed me more and more.
I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy (If I had one).
The divorce should be complete in 6 weeks and the financial dispute settled on the 20th dec, I really feel like outing this excuse for a human being to the world, just don't know how. I think maybe not, it may have a small chance of having repercussions for my son but then again I think, she hasn't once considered the effect if all this on him once. She's used him as a tool to get to me. So f**k it! she needs to be outed.
I did ask the mods to save the previous thread and as it hs been mentioned, I will be documenting everything for my son to see at a age approximate to him. He needs to know the truth. Even through his behaviour now, i can tell he has been influenced to view me in a negative light but deep down I can see he misses me just as much as I miss him and that she won't ever be able to change.
I had such positive encouragement from you guys in so many ways. I started to build a picture of where I wanted to be, in the sense of having a positive outlook for my health. All I really wanted was to get better, have a close relationship with my son and maybe settle down with someone worthy of my love and affection. Had it all pictured in my mind and it drew so much motivation for me that I was working towards that. However, the constant blows I have received from the mental over the past few months shattered what I had envisioned and just depressed me more and more.
I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy (If I had one).
The divorce should be complete in 6 weeks and the financial dispute settled on the 20th dec, I really feel like outing this excuse for a human being to the world, just don't know how. I think maybe not, it may have a small chance of having repercussions for my son but then again I think, she hasn't once considered the effect if all this on him once. She's used him as a tool to get to me. So f**k it! she needs to be outed.
I posted on the original thread, and keep looking for updates on this one. It really is a rollercoaster - terribly depressing, but also inspirational that you are staying so strong. With a young son myself, every time I'm reminded of your story I feel haunted and miserable, so I'm really looking forward to the several happy endings you and your son deserve. Best wishes mate.
I, like many, have kept up with this from the very beginning. And now this far down the line you are still consitently fighting two 'illnesses'. One that attacks human life and the other is cancer.
I don't think that saying you have been an inspiration to us all is too strong a statement.
Best of luck.
I don't think that saying you have been an inspiration to us all is too strong a statement.
Best of luck.
I was really hoping this would be a positive thread update 
Once you get the finanical settlement sorted you should start thinking about the unpleasant task of sorting out a will and make it absolutely clear in it that the grasping cow doesn't get a penny. Anything and everything is to be held in trust for your son until he turns 21, obviously various PH legal bods and financial people will be able to tell you the best way to do it.
I know it's not the thing to be thinking about when you're ill, but it will make things easier.
Here on PH the "f
k you cancer you fking fker" is becoming used more and more frequently.
Once you get the finanical settlement sorted you should start thinking about the unpleasant task of sorting out a will and make it absolutely clear in it that the grasping cow doesn't get a penny. Anything and everything is to be held in trust for your son until he turns 21, obviously various PH legal bods and financial people will be able to tell you the best way to do it.
I know it's not the thing to be thinking about when you're ill, but it will make things easier.
Here on PH the "f
k you cancer you fking fker" is becoming used more and more frequently.
In all it's forms.
When you can, let us know how you're keeping. Best wishes.Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff