The Cancer Kiss off - being dumped after diagnosis

The Cancer Kiss off - being dumped after diagnosis

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AbarthChris

2,259 posts

215 months

Thursday 10th April 2014
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Wow. I haven't commented on this thread before, as I didnt really have anything else to contribute... but that latest update got me.

Poor fella frown

I can't believe that someone who supposedly used to love and care for him could treat him like this.

Some people really are disgusting. I hope he has a better time of it soon.

Jeez.

conanius

742 posts

198 months

Thursday 10th April 2014
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This is the first time I've seen this thread. God knows how.

I honestly don't know what to say, other than ... wow. Just can't put any other words to explain it.

Your son can grow up to be proud of the man that his dad is. Your strength shown through this is simply incredible.


MrBrightSi

2,912 posts

170 months

Thursday 10th April 2014
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As great as it is to read that you're still fighting the good fight, i really wish you didn't have to pal.

This is proof that men are treated so poorly, we provide, we try and when all else fails we're hung out to dry.

Keep at it, show us what real strength is, youre a true man and we're lucky to have you here on PH.

TroubledSoul

4,594 posts

194 months

Thursday 10th April 2014
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Have you heard anything back MC?

vescaegg

25,528 posts

167 months

Thursday 10th April 2014
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Never posted in here before but have checked in periodically. OP you are a hero.

Some people really are truly evil - you unfortunately have found one. Makes my blood boil.

Burn the house down just to spite her. Id be tempted (only if its detached and no one could get hurt).

kiethton

13,891 posts

180 months

Thursday 10th April 2014
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vescaegg said:
Never posted in here before but have checked in periodically. OP you are a hero.

Some people really are truly evil - you unfortunately have found one. Makes my blood boil.

Burn the house down just to spite her. Id be tempted (only if its detached and no one could get hurt).
No that's just spiteful and will lower the actions and integrity in the face of adversity shown by the OP to date.

What would be far better is to transfer the house into trust (parents as trustees in the event of the worst) to manage the house and all assets in the best way and for the ultimate benefit of your son to be released at an appropriate age.

mjb1

2,556 posts

159 months

Thursday 10th April 2014
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kiethton said:
No that's just spiteful and will lower the actions and integrity in the face of adversity shown by the OP to date.

What would be far better is to transfer the house into trust (parents as trustees in the event of the worst) to manage the house and all assets in the best way and for the ultimate benefit of your son to be released at an appropriate age.
His (ex) wife already owns the house, she was awarded it in the divorce settlement I think?

Mobile Chicane

20,810 posts

212 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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I've had a text from Sam. He's been very poorly but is hanging in there.

Radiotherapy starts next week since the cancer has affected the nerves which travel down to the legs and he can't walk or sit up at the moment. He hasn't lost his sense of humour though!

What a guy. I absolutely take my hat off to him.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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frown. How can I have tears welling when I don't even know him. So glad he's keeping up the fight. Did he say how things were with his son?

irocfan

40,386 posts

190 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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bexVN said:
frown. How can I have tears welling when I don't even know him. So glad he's keeping up the fight. Did he say how things were with his son?
this ^^^ fingers crossed and hats off to the guy

Mobile Chicane

20,810 posts

212 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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The ex is still being an arse.

She seems to think that allowing Sam to see his boy at the local Maccy D's - rather than at a Contact Centre - is being gracious.

Jasandjules

69,868 posts

229 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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I wonder if the local PHers in her area would like to go for a drive one weekend to her street with some placards/flyers setting out what she did.

Mobile Chicane

20,810 posts

212 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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Also to add, Sam sends his apologies for not being able to respond to the many emails of support he's had.

I hope you're well enough to read this mate, and know that whatever form your journey takes, we will walk it with you.

Digger

14,641 posts

191 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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Jasandjules said:
I wonder if the local PHers in her area would like to go for a drive one weekend to her street with some placards/flyers setting out what she did.
Normally I wouldn't agree with such actions, but you know what . . . . .

DSLiverpool

14,733 posts

202 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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Sign on the back of her car maybe?

blearyeyedboy

6,284 posts

179 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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Sam, if you read this at some point, we want you to know you're still being thought of. smile

Honk

1,985 posts

203 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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blearyeyedboy said:
Sam, if you read this at some point, we want you to know you're still being thought of. smile
Indeed! yes

GokTweed

3,799 posts

151 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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Obviously we don't know her side of the story....however....I find those actions impossible to even remotely justify. She needs to be outed. Best wishes to Sam

Granville

983 posts

171 months

Tuesday 22nd April 2014
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Mobile Chicane said:
Also to add, Sam sends his apologies for not being able to respond to the many emails of support he's had.

I hope you're well enough to read this mate, and know that whatever form your journey takes, we will walk it with you.
I couldn't have said it better myself. Best wishes and thoughts with you x

anonymous-user

54 months

Tuesday 22nd April 2014
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blearyeyedboy said:
Sam, if you read this at some point, we want you to know you're still being thought of. smile
Very much so! All the best Sam.