The Cancer Kiss off - being dumped after diagnosis

[twing]

That's so sad, Rest In Peace and thoughts to family and friends.

[Studio117]

[middx]

His last 2 weeks of his life were in a hospice, and he fought like crazy, he had immense mental strength considering how frail his body was. His last words to me were, get ready, as we're going to the spa grand prix! so he emailed me the link to book the tickets, I thought he would somehow make a miraculous recovery. His last wishes were to see his son, and his ex wife let him see his son for 20mins, but he was too weak to converse with him.

[TheChampers]

doogz said:

Very sorry for your loss.

So many people would have given up, given the circumstances he found himself in, but he battled with it all like a trooper.

My sentiments too A fighter his son can be proud was his Dad

[Zod]

middx said:

His last 2 weeks of his life were in a hospice, and he fought like crazy, he had immense mental strength considering how frail his body was. His last words to me were, get ready, as we're going to the spa grand prix! so he emailed me the link to book the tickets, I thought he would somehow make a miraculous recovery. His last wishes were to see his son, and his ex wife let him see his son for 20mins, but he was too weak to converse with him.

So sad. I really hope you will be able to spend time with your nephew and make sure he grows up with positive feelings about his father.

[middx]

Zod said:

So sad. I really hope you will be able to spend time with your nephew and make sure he grows up with positive feelings about his father.

Unfortunately, I have to battle it out with his ex wife now, as she isn't letting my parents or my family see him. I will fight tooth and nail in my brothers memory to get the chance to see my nephew

[anonymous-user]

RIP Sam

[Rude-boy]

Zod said:

So sad. I really hope you will be able to spend time with your nephew and make sure he grows up with positive feelings about his father.

Absolutely.

If nothing else his son should know that his father was, and died, a real, proper man. Not just some random male, but as someone who did his very best for himself and his family and, certainly from what we have seen on here, always tried to 'Do The Right Thing' regardless of the disgusting behaviour of others.

RIP Sam, I really hope that your son can celebrate your life and has inherited the very best of you and your attitudes.

[Esders]

Really sorry to hear this - in fact it brought a tear to my eye. RIP Sam.

[cloggy]

Bloody hay fever, R.I.P. Sam.

[Rachie]

Such sad news and I'm genuinely upset to hear, even though I never met Sam, I felt so moved by his story and heartbroken for him to be treated in such a callous way.

Thoughts with you and your family at this sad time

[DavesFlaps]

This thread was often difficult to read, but Sam showed a massive amount of spirit and determination, which I found really inspiring. I'm so sad it has ended like this.

Rest in Peace.

[TobyLaRohne]

Absolutely gutted to read Sam has passed on.

Condolences to you and your family fella. I honestly have a hard time believing someone would be so cruel to another human being as his mrs.

RIP Sam

[mjb1]

Tragic ending to a heartbreaking thread. Made me well up when I read that he'd passed. RIP Sam.

Make sure you look after your nephew for us. I live in hope that one day he'll see through his mother's poisoning and find out the truth. I just hope it doesn't mess him up mentally.

Remember you are fighting for your nephew to have access to his family, not for you to see him. Might be worth a letter to David Cameron if the mother digs her heels in - I remember a couple of years ago he made a big thing about kids with separated parents still getting to see their grand parents/relatives on the fathers side.

[The GMan]

middx said:

Zod said:

So sad. I really hope you will be able to spend time with your nephew and make sure he grows up with positive feelings about his father.

Unfortunately, I have to battle it out with his ex wife now, as she isn't letting my parents or my family see him. I will fight tooth and nail in my brothers memory to get the chance to see my nephew

Sad news, and good luck.

[dmitsi]

RIP Sam. So sad to endure so much unreasonable crap on top of that evil disease. Best of luck getting access to his boy for your family.

[Cyder]

Sorry to hear that middx, I didn't know Sam but reading his threads made my blood boil at the thought of how someone could be so cruel as to act the way his ex did.

I wish you all the best in your fight against his ex to see your nephew.

[TheLordJohn]

Poor fella, that's bad news.
And Breadvan had the cheek to call my mysogonistic for saying "Snakes with tits".
If only they wouldn't keep proving it!!

[Lady Muck]

Gosh I was hoping for different news when I saw this post reappear. I am so very sorry for your loss and the terrible time you have been put through by "that woman".

I live in hope that you will have a great future building a loving relationship with your nephew.

By the way I love that picture.

[irocfan]

middx said:

Unfortunately, I have to battle it out with his ex wife now, as she isn't letting my parents or my family see him. I will fight tooth and nail in my brothers memory to get the chance to see my nephew

fkin' seriously???? Poor kid has just lost his dad and now he stands to miss out on half his grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins? What sort of... well I guess you know what I'm thinking. Fingers crossed your nephew wins the right for a full family