Things that annoy you beyond reason...? [Vol 3]

Things that annoy you beyond reason...? [Vol 3]

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RobinOakapple

2,802 posts

113 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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JonRB said:
RobinOakapple said:
toohangry said:
I've got absolutely no interest in arguing this point any further with you.
Most people hate being caught out, you're not alone laugh
I don't believe that he has been "caught out" as you put it; it's merely a difference of opinion and interpretation. Also, when debate turns to argument it's perfectly valid for one side to say "well, if this has become an argument then I have no further interest in it".
Well, that being the case, I'll restate my 'opinion', based on my 'interpretation' that he posted a straw man, and leave it at that.

bencollins

3,530 posts

206 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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RobinOakapple said:
JonRB said:
RobinOakapple said:
toohangry said:
I've got absolutely no interest in arguing this point any further with you.
Most people hate being caught out, you're not alone laugh
I don't believe that he has been "caught out" as you put it; it's merely a difference of opinion and interpretation. Also, when debate turns to argument it's perfectly valid for one side to say "well, if this has become an argument then I have no further interest in it".
Well, that being the case, I'll restate my 'opinion', based on my 'interpretation' that he posted a straw man, and leave it at that.
thread title people!

JonRB

74,615 posts

273 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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bencollins said:
thread title people!
That's another interesting one. Some people hold the view that the thread should be "fire and forget" and that no discussion is allowable. Others agree that this would make for a very boring thread and that, whilst it's fine to be annoyed about something without reason, it's also quite fine to discuss the matter. Sometimes the person's annoyance is down to a lack of understanding or lack of information, and a debate on it might reduce (or even solve) their annoyance and make them a happier and less annoyed person. smile

Yay debate!

rohrl

8,743 posts

146 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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JonRB said:
bencollins said:
thread title people!
That's another interesting one. Some people hold the view that the thread should be "fire and forget" and that no discussion is allowable. Others agree that this would make for a very boring thread and that, whilst it's fine to be annoyed about something without reason, it's also quite fine to discuss the matter. Sometimes the person's annoyance is down to a lack of understanding or lack of information, and a debate on it might reduce (or even solve) their annoyance and make them a happier and less annoyed person. smile

Yay debate!
Debate is one thing, telling posters they are totally wrong about whatever they've said annoys them beyond reason and coming across as rude and inflexible is rather different.

I get the feeling that judging ones tone when posting is something that some posters really struggle with. There are some threads in which it's okay to be entirely dismissive of someone else's opinion and indeed to imply that they're an idiot but by the nature of its title this thread isn't in that category.

JonRB

74,615 posts

273 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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rohrl said:
Debate is one thing, telling posters they are totally wrong about whatever they've said annoys them beyond reason and coming across as rude and inflexible is rather different.

I get the feeling that judging ones tone when posting is something that some posters really struggle with. There are some threads in which it's okay to be entirely dismissive of someone else's opinion and indeed to imply that they're an idiot but by the nature of its title this thread isn't in that category.
Oh, absolutely. I completely agree. yes


Russwhitehouse

962 posts

132 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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As someone who is a "frequent business flyer" I have to say I have some sympathy with the "anti" views expressed.The whole process has become a hideous ordeal right from the start. Infuriating online booking/check in cack. Being asked to take your belt/shoes/underpants off multiple times. Being funnelled through endless duty free outlets against your will just to get to the poxy gate. Listening to endless intrusive PA announcements once on the aircraft punting the latest un wanted offers by the airline. The people who seem to have no concept of the fact that other people may have had a long tiring day involving multiple flights who would really appreciate you just putting your bag in the overhead locker and sitting the fk down, having first removed your fking book/ I pod/ laptop etc so that they too can sit down. The list is endless! I hate airports, planes, flying and the whole mind destroying process of modern air travel. It used to be an enjoyable activity where one was served a hot meal and made to feel welcome. Now, for the same money, you are palmed off with a stale fking sandwich or a bag of stty pretzels and all for considerably more than it cost in the good old days when you could have a drink and a laugh at the back of the plane with the cabin crew!

DougMcC

769 posts

164 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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I'm a lorry driver and I normally deliver in the countryside or towns with minimal dual carriageway/ motorway driving. However recently as my route has changed I am doing mainly motorway driving.

One thing that really, really winds me up is drivers who cannot maintain a certain speed.

So for example I am doing 56 mph on cruise, I catch up to a car that is doing 54 or 55 mph. I begin the overtake and what seems to happen is either:

The car driver then wakes up and speeds off leaving me looking like a pillock in lane 2.

The car waits until their bonnet is level with the rear of my lorry before speeding up and undertaking.

The car speeds up to match my exact speed whilst I am alongside them and WILL NOT back down.

For fks sake either go faster than me, or slower than me. It's not fking difficult. fkity fkity fk.

MartG

20,695 posts

205 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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The 'Tear Here' tab on biscuit packaging - it NEVER tears where it says !

Scousefella

2,243 posts

182 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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DougMcC said:
I'm a lorry driver and I normally deliver in the countryside or towns with minimal dual carriageway/ motorway driving. However recently as my route has changed I am doing mainly motorway driving.

One thing that really, really winds me up is drivers who cannot maintain a certain speed.

So for example I am doing 56 mph on cruise, I catch up to a car that is doing 54 or 55 mph. I begin the overtake and what seems to happen is either:

The car driver then wakes up and speeds off leaving me looking like a pillock in lane 2.

The car waits until their bonnet is level with the rear of my lorry before speeding up and undertaking.

The car speeds up to match my exact speed whilst I am alongside them and WILL NOT back down.

For fks sake either go faster than me, or slower than me. It's not fking difficult. fkity fkity fk.
I feel your pain fella.

I drive my HGV in mostly rural areas and what really boils my p*ss is when on a narrow lane the oncoming car driver decides to choose the narrowest point in the lane to stop and offer you the opportunity to pass. rolleyes



All that jazz

7,632 posts

147 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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Things that annoy you beyond reason :

This new trend of posting "U0001f602" in reply to everything, particularly on youtube comments it seems. irked

For the uninitiated, it is apparently ASCII unicode for "tears of joy".

Kiltie

7,504 posts

247 months

Thursday 23rd April 2015
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America.

read5458

503 posts

184 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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People who feel the need to talk loudly about their problems and use fluent swearing in public areas.

Stood in a queue at my local shop. Plenty of parents with kids, including me with my son . Doors open and in walk two teenage chavs, female and a male. Both join the back of the queue.

Girl: Nah man, I swear down, that fcensoredg stupid ccensoredt best watch her fcensoredg mouth before I rip her fcensoredn face off. Stupid bcensoredh.

Lad: Yeah I know. If er fella fcensoredn starts then I'll bang him out too.

Girl: (Random named associate) says shes got a saggy ccensoredt. I'm gonna go round there in a minute an fcensoredn sort the..

Me: Guys, lay off the swearing please, my sons here listening to everything you're saying.

The lad stands up tall, puffs out his chest, arms tense up and hands go into fists, assuming the *I need a scensoredt* posture.

Girl: So?!, fcensoredk off if ya don't like it.

Me: You're in a shop full of kids that'll copy anything they hear. Fluent swearing isn't something I want my son to pick up yet, he's 5.

Lad: Fcensoredk off ya dcensoredkhead.

Shop manager: Stop swearing or else you wont get served.

Girl: Fcensoredk sake... FINE!!

Both then decide to shut up, mumbling expletives and quietly calling me a fat ccensoredt.

The pair were both kind enough to watch me leave the shop without dropping their gaze, just incase I needed help with my bags I guess. rolleyes


Brigand

2,544 posts

170 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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People who over pronounce words, mainly the "shh" sound.

There's a reporter on the BBC news who's bad for it; "FiSHHHHHHH" "ISSSSSSSue" for example, as well as that Bosch advert recently for a hoover, the voice over guy frequently stating "BoSSSHHHHHH" throughout the ad. I'm sure there was an M&S advert over Christmas that had this extreme-pronunciation as well.

iambeowulf

712 posts

173 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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Craghopper's spam email unsubscribe function.

"Unsubscube" >click<
"Would you like to subscribe to the following?"
"Unsubscribe?" >click<
"Are you sure, how about these products?
""Unsubscribe?" >click, click, click!<
"You have successfully unsubscribed"

shoot

And similar to the above post my Australian mate who in a bid to make words have more emphasis just elongates them. "Betteeeer, longeeeer" Etc
He just gets upset if we point out the ridiculousness of this and gets angry when we tell him if he can't project through words what he's trying to put across then try pictuuures!

Hugo a Gogo

23,378 posts

234 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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DougMcC said:
I'm a lorry driver and I normally deliver in the countryside or towns with minimal dual carriageway/ motorway driving. However recently as my route has changed I am doing mainly motorway driving.

One thing that really, really winds me up is drivers who cannot maintain a certain speed.

So for example I am doing 56 mph on cruise, I catch up to a car that is doing 54 or 55 mph. I begin the overtake and what seems to happen is either:

The car driver then wakes up and speeds off leaving me looking like a pillock in lane 2.

The car waits until their bonnet is level with the rear of my lorry before speeding up and undertaking.

The car speeds up to match my exact speed whilst I am alongside them and WILL NOT back down.

For fks sake either go faster than me, or slower than me. It's not fking difficult. fkity fkity fk.
you couldn't just slow down by 1 or 2 mph?

The Mad Monk

10,474 posts

118 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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People who say 'haytch' when spelling a word with the letter 'h' in it.

There is no h in h!

Hugo a Gogo

23,378 posts

234 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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The Mad Monk said:
People who say 'haytch' when spelling a word with the letter 'h' in it.

There is no h in h!
aytc?

RobinOakapple

2,802 posts

113 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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Hugo a Gogo said:
you couldn't just slow down by 1 or 2 mph?
Why should he?

ShiningWit

10,203 posts

129 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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Hugo a Gogo said:
DougMcC said:
I'm a lorry driver and I normally deliver in the countryside or towns with minimal dual carriageway/ motorway driving. However recently as my route has changed I am doing mainly motorway driving.

One thing that really, really winds me up is drivers who cannot maintain a certain speed.

So for example I am doing 56 mph on cruise, I catch up to a car that is doing 54 or 55 mph. I begin the overtake and what seems to happen is either:

The car driver then wakes up and speeds off leaving me looking like a pillock in lane 2.

The car waits until their bonnet is level with the rear of my lorry before speeding up and undertaking.

The car speeds up to match my exact speed whilst I am alongside them and WILL NOT back down.

For fks sake either go faster than me, or slower than me. It's not fking difficult. fkity fkity fk.
you couldn't just slow down by 1 or 2 mph?
I came to the conclusion the other day that the constant battles between truck driver and car drivers and cyclists can often be put down to one word: Momentum.

You just don't want to lose it and when you do (cyclists and truckers especially) it's difficult to get back, so they'll do silly things to keep it.

Hugo a Gogo

23,378 posts

234 months

Friday 24th April 2015
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RobinOakapple said:
Hugo a Gogo said:
you couldn't just slow down by 1 or 2 mph?
Why should he?
that kinda sums up a lot of what's wrong on the roads

"why should I slow down by 1mph, when I can overtake a car over the next ten minutes... everyone else can slow down"
or
"why should I avoid crashing into this CRV and caravan when I have right of way"

etc
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