What do I do?

Poll: What do I do?

Total Members Polled: 262

Swim a Marathon: 15%
Swim a 1/2 Marathon: 4%
Swim for 12 hours: 9%
Shave my hair off: 41%
Swim across the Tay: 31%
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The Beaver King

6,095 posts

196 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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ali_kat said:
'm self employed, however; my curent boss has said "head shave" upon a discussion over coffee this morning wink

The Hospice has all that sort of stuff organised already. This is purely a fundraiser in Mum's memory.

thumbup As I said to Longshot yesterday IF I'm allowed I'll create a thread/bump this one once everything is sorted smile
My hairdresser had her head shaved for charity October 2012. I remember it well, as I had my head shaved at the same time (although mine was for a Halloween costume).

Anyway, she raised a fair amount of money for doing it (circa £2000, if I remember correctly).

It's worth bearing in mind that your hair will take a decent amount of time to grow back. My hairdresser's hair is probably mid-way between a 'Bob' and shoulder length now, but it has taken over a year to get back to that length. Which is mad, when you consider I had to have mine cut again after 3 months (and I don't have mine too short).

IainT

10,040 posts

239 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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ali_kat said:
I don't see the head shave as an easy option - yes it's just clippers & it's gone but to a woman her hair is her crowning glory & I LOVE my hair - it would be exceedingly emotional not to have it anymore - a part of me would be missing.
One of the women in our office shaved her head for charity last year. I'd gladly have paid her to keep it - looked totally scary without it, she wasn't all that pretty at the best of times.

Whatever challenge you set yourself make it realistic and not too dangerous!

ali_kat

Original Poster:

31,993 posts

222 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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I'm aware it will take a while to grow back, which is one of the reasons I've thought of November as a date - I won't look quite so odd wearing hats & scarves!

RDMcG

19,189 posts

208 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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Ali: First of all, very sorry for your loss - please accept my since condolences. I would think hair is the easy to go also, and it will grow back....

Blib

44,206 posts

198 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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ali_kat said:
A good point has just been made - shaving my head = a wig for cancer sufferers thumbup
My then 9 year old nephew grew his hair for two years. Then, had it all cut off during a special school assembly. The hair was donated to a children's wig charity.

FredClogs

14,041 posts

162 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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What does swimming a marathon entail? surely not 24 miles?


Willy Nilly

12,511 posts

168 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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FredClogs said:
What does swimming a marathon entail? surely not 24 miles?
Probably not, because a marathon is 26.2 miles

FredClogs

14,041 posts

162 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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Willy Nilly said:
Probably not, because a marathon is 26.2 miles
whatever, it's still too far to swim

Willy Nilly

12,511 posts

168 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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FredClogs said:
Willy Nilly said:
Probably not, because a marathon is 26.2 miles
whatever, it's still too far to swim
It's too far to run and I'm a distance runner...

ali_kat

Original Poster:

31,993 posts

222 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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FredClogs said:
What does swimming a marathon entail? surely not 24 miles?
26 miles & 385 yards

= 42,000 metres

= 1,680 lengths of a 25m pool

Shaw Tarse

31,543 posts

204 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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It's only hair, who would be precious about shaving it for a good cause?
smile

madbadger

11,565 posts

245 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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ali_kat said:
26 miles & 385 yards

= 42,000 metres

= 1,680 lengths of a 25m pool
Would be easier outdoors. Our local lake has a 500m loop on it and you would be much less restricted than you would be in a pool.

Bit less boring too.

smile

surveyor

17,845 posts

185 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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First, sorry for you loss.

Secondly, while this is going to come across as harsh, my facebook is full of people doing something noble for charity, all asking for money. It's become the norm.

I would encourage you to think outside the box a little, and organise an event that people will enjoy in aid of the Charity. Id be far more giving in that sort of environment.

Ideas off the cuff, a Car Fest, a beach based swimathom (in the summer) with entertainment etc, a giant murder mystery etc.... Anything in particular that your mum liked?

Best of luck in whatever you do decide...

CobolMan

1,417 posts

208 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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Sorry for your loss Ali Kat, I lost my dad a few years ago. Another idea could be what I did at work last year, a Scalextric time trial - it raised over £200 for Cancer Research UK in just over 3 hours which my employers matched. I charged £1 a lap and those fine people at Scalextric donated a set as a prize for the fastest person.

FredClogs

14,041 posts

162 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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ali_kat said:
26 miles & 385 yards

= 42,000 metres

= 1,680 lengths of a 25m pool
fk that, seriously? I'll donate £1 if you can do that

ali_kat

Original Poster:

31,993 posts

222 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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FredClogs said:
ali_kat said:
26 miles & 385 yards

= 42,000 metres

= 1,680 lengths of a 25m pool
fk that, seriously? I'll donate £1 if you can do that
Per length! very generous of you sir thumbup

wink

ali_kat

Original Poster:

31,993 posts

222 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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surveyor said:
I would encourage you to think outside the box a little, and organise an event that people will enjoy in aid of the Charity. Id be far more giving in that sort of environment.

Ideas off the cuff, a Car Fest, a beach based swimathom (in the summer) with entertainment etc, a giant murder mystery etc.... Anything in particular that your mum liked?

Best of luck in whatever you do decide...
My FB is full of people organising Car Meets for Charity laugh

However, as I replied earlier in the thread to someone else - I simply don't have time to organise so,etching frown

Thus this is me wanting to make a sacrifice & fund raise. It costs just over £7k to run the Hospice for a day & that's my goal; it may take me a couple of years, but so be it! I already donate a little time, but with working away from home all week, my Father with Alzheimer's that we are trying to keep in the family home so we help care for him, and my FiL also has Alzheimer's so we try to spend one weekend with them a month - time is scarce for myself & my partner to find time to do the housework, let alone have time to go out for dinner, or the pub, or stuff you take for granted that you do with yours frown

Hence a swim is easier for me - I can train whilst away in a hotel all week.

Having my head shaved is even easier, although much more dramatic & traumatic!

ali_kat

Original Poster:

31,993 posts

222 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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Thank you all for your condolences & advice smile

I am reading everything & taking comments on board, even if I'm not responding to everyone individually

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Fotic

719 posts

130 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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ali_kat said:
26 miles & 385 yards

= 42,000 metres

= 1,680 lengths of a 25m pool
42195m actually. smile

ali_kat

Original Poster:

31,993 posts

222 months

Monday 3rd March 2014
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It wasn't my maths - I stole it from a swimming app!