3 things that make you instantly dislike someone

3 things that make you instantly dislike someone

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272BHP

5,127 posts

237 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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There is something worse than a limp handshake.

It's a limp handshake and vacant expression from someone who is obviously only shaking my hand as I offered it first. They obviously feel that I have nothing to offer them and rate me as not worthy of the firm hearty handshake they give to select others.

One day I will punch someone just for this.

DavesFlaps

679 posts

192 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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themanwithnoname said:
DavesFlaps said:
Reactolite glasses
Errm, can I ask why on this one?
GOG440 said:
Whats up with reactolites?
Don't speak to me, you perverted freaks.




tongue out

thehawk

9,335 posts

208 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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272BHP said:
There is something worse than a limp handshake.
A moist limp handshake is worse. Or a moist limp handshake from someone that has just sneezed or been eating food.


markcoznottz

7,155 posts

225 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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Bullstters- people who try and impress you even though they know nothing about you-is this now the default setting for the british public?.

Teachers-only in the job to talk down to pupils/parents self absorbed strike happy tts.

Lads who say 'SWMBO' or similar , it makes you look a . We don't need reminding that you are In a relationship, half the country is, why would anyone you don't know be remotely interested ?.

Bradgate

2,826 posts

148 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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People who wear Che Guevara T-shirts, but don’t know the first thing about him or his ideology.
Bigotry of any kind, whether it be sexism, racism, homophobia etc
Rudeness or condescension to shop workers, waiters etc.
Dull, boring work-obsessed tossers who can only talk / boast about their job, because they have no other interests.

Sorry, couldn’t get it down to just 3…..

rohrl

8,746 posts

146 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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DavesFlaps said:
themanwithnoname said:
DavesFlaps said:
Reactolite glasses
Errm, can I ask why on this one?
GOG440 said:
Whats up with reactolites?
Don't speak to me, you perverted freaks.




tongue out
Do they really not know what the rest of us think when we see a pair of Reactolite specs?

ClassicMotorNut

2,438 posts

139 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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thehawk said:
2. People who don't shower in the mornings
Why?

tonyvid

9,869 posts

244 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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Pit Pony said:
1) You talk loudly on a mobile as you walk through an open plan office with 180 people, who can all hear that you are a tt.
2) You have a first class engineering degree, 8 years aerospace design experience, but you pay someone to replace your headlamp bulbs in your mk2 mx5, despite the fact that it's a 5 minute job, and it shows you how to do it in the manual that it in your glove box
3) You rag the engine in your car, to the redline from a cold start.
2 and 3 are my neighbour - and he has so many letters after his name he could make his own scrabble set!

dtmpower

3,972 posts

246 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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I am sorry to say that I wear my collar 'popped' and also say "Take Care" often - where do I hand my PH badge in ?


irocfan

40,580 posts

191 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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Pit Pony said:
3) You rag the engine in your car, to the redline from a cold start.
the thing about 3 is surely that's not as much of an issue these days with modern synthetic oils much the same way as you used to have to "run your car in" for the 1st 5k or so. Now if you're talking 'key in, turn, rev the nuts off' then fair enough but few minutes faffing (as normally happens with anything where SWMBO is involved), I'm just curious

FD3Si

857 posts

145 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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1/ Swearing around their kids.
2/ Tinted glasses.
3/ People who refer to their wives/girlfriends/significant others as 'The Wife/Her indoors etc' - just smacks of the sort of attitude I can't identify with.

mike-r

1,539 posts

192 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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ClassicMotorNut said:
thehawk said:
2. People who don't shower in the mornings
Why?
+1. I always shower the night before, keeps bed linen nicer for longer and saves time so I get a lie in.

dave0010

1,381 posts

162 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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Being referred to as "lad" or "boss" when meeting customer ( I'm 28) !

People who are late or unavailable for a set appointment time even thought it had been pre agreed only a few hours before hand.

People who lack basic manors, The simple gesture of offering someone a drink when they doing some work for you.

I often find the last one tells me everything about a customer and will also unfortunately affect how I interact with them. When people offer a drink to someone who is doing a job for them it shows there kind and considerate. I will then in turn do my upmost to complete a professional and friendly service for them. When they don't I simple get the job done and leave.

QueenBee

423 posts

123 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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GTIR said:
sunnygym said:
GTIR said:
Gay black midgets who smoke.
That's 4
Are you a midget?
Are you gay?

QueenBee

423 posts

123 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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GTIR said:
Are you a midget?
Are you black?

prand

5,916 posts

197 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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dave0010 said:
Being referred to as "lad" or "boss" when meeting customer ( I'm 28) !

People who are late or unavailable for a set appointment time even thought it had been pre agreed only a few hours before hand.

People who lack basic manors, The simple gesture of offering someone a drink when they doing some work for you.

I often find the last one tells me everything about a customer and will also unfortunately affect how I interact with them. When people offer a drink to someone who is doing a job for them it shows there kind and considerate. I will then in turn do my upmost to complete a professional and friendly service for them. When they don't I simple get the job done and leave.
I assume you're a tradesman of some sort? Getting the job done and leaving is exactly what I want from you! So thanks for the tip (mental note, stop making tea for the builders and they may actually get the job done in time instead of lounging about eating my biscuits) smile unless you are talking about doing someone a freebie as a favour and a 'drink' means a humdred quid or something?

It's confusing all this tricky etiquette. My wife has it covered though, she has special builders mugs and different tea and biacuits to our usual, and even has different mugs for outdoor trades too!


Edited by prand on Tuesday 8th April 13:18

Moonhawk

10,730 posts

220 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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1. Arrogance.
2. Limp handshake
3. Gut feeling (i.e. something non specific you cant quite put your finger on).

lockhart flawse

2,042 posts

236 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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None of my prejudices extend far enough to actually dislike them but I do judge people to their detriment if:

They have a beard and glasses. Glasses on their own are OK; some beards on their own are OK but beard and glasses mean you have given up.

They have keys attached to their belt

They are wearing three-quarter length trousers (and they often seem to be matched with a pair of those pansy pure white trainers).


Captain Muppet

8,540 posts

266 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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dtmpower said:
I am sorry to say that I wear my collar 'popped' ...
Why? Maybe I'd hate it less if there was a reason.

Additional aero drag like an air-brake for high speed stops?
Fashion?
You were raped by a turned-down collar when you were a small child?
You often kneel down underneath people who are welding or using angle grinders?
Tattoo of crossed engorged penises on the back of your neck?

Do you wear other items of clothing wrong? Tounge of your trainers folded down in to the toes? Pants on the outside of your tracksuit? Hat on backwards? Waistband under the buttocks?

Understanding leads to tolerance. Help me hate less.

QueenBee

423 posts

123 months

Tuesday 8th April 2014
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ClassicMotorNut said:
thehawk said:
2. People who don't shower in the mornings
Why?
Thank you for posting this one!! My ex used to be very sweaty at night but would not shower in the morning and just leave for work!! His work was very physical. He was also a large boy. He stunk like f**k by the time he came home. When I told him that he stunk, he accused me of being nasty. I used to tell him that I was saying this for his own good! The other thing was he never exfoliated. He would not use a flannel to scrub himself? Fact is, skin dies everyday, the palm of the hand and all the shower gel in the world will not get rid of this dead skin - hence the horrific BO vomitWhy do some people not grasp this? Soapy scrubbing is required daily with a flannel or a mit, especially under the arms and around the groin area.

Part of anyone's daily routine surely should be exfoliate and scrub, moisturise and brush teeth at least twice a day - and use mouthwash!,!!!!!!!!! I think this should be a whole new thread lol