Babies in the office....

Babies in the office....

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beanbag

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7,346 posts

241 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Am I the only one that thinks this is wrong? We regularly get employees that have gone on maternity leave bringing their babies into the office and bleating on about them.

I work in an open-plan office and take calls regularly and when you get a group of women (never see a guy), banging on about nappy varieties or tips on teething, it gets seriously annoying. Luckily in this occasion, the child didn't cry, but it's not uncommon they do.

I was chastised today as I told a group of women I was in a call and if they could take their social elsewhere. I was given looks that would kill and asked if "I liked children or was just a grumpy sod". rolleyes

I love kids, but it's a fking office and not a social area! Anyone else have to put up with this nonsense?

Johnnytheboy

24,498 posts

186 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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One of the advantages of working in an organisation almost entirely staffed by women beyond child-rearing age.

On the minus side there's no one for me to ogle.

R6VED

1,370 posts

140 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Lighten up dickwad :-)

vixen1700

22,885 posts

270 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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They bring them in, the women coo and I just carry on with my work/browsing the internet.

Can't think of any memorable babies. confused

gjc10212

271 posts

206 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Do you have a sore ass?

Hooli

32,278 posts

200 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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It's bks & should be banned. babies are all the same, they just vary a bit in size & colour.
I'd understand if it was puppies, they are cute & fun etc.

vixen1700

22,885 posts

270 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Hooli said:

I'd understand if it was puppies, they are cute & fun etc.
Yeah, I'd be interested in people bringing their cats/kittens into the office. cool

We really don't get enough of that. frown

Antony Moxey

8,057 posts

219 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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beanbag said:
I was given looks that would kill and asked if "I liked children or was just a grumpy sod". rolleyes
Seems a fair question reading the OP.

Tyre Tread

10,534 posts

216 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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I'm with the OP on this.

If I brought my new car into the office to show the lads and started chatting about it and revving the engine I'd get a bking but somehow a squawking child is acceptable.

They should take them to somehere outside the office where those who want to see the joint of meat can view it in their own time. It would sort out those who are genuinely interested in the st machine and those who just wanted a skive for 5 (read as 50) minutes.

Edited by Tyre Tread on Thursday 31st July 13:15

sleep envy

62,260 posts

249 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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beanbag said:
Am I the only one that thinks this is wrong? We regularly get employees that have gone on maternity leave bringing their babies into the office and bleating on about them.

I work in an open-plan office and take calls regularly and when you get a group of women (never see a guy), banging on about nappy varieties or tips on teething, it gets seriously annoying. Luckily in this occasion, the child didn't cry, but it's not uncommon they do.

I was chastised today as I told a group of women I was in a call and if they could take their social elsewhere. I was given looks that would kill and asked if "I liked children or was just a grumpy sod". rolleyes

I love kids, but it's a fking office and not a social area! Anyone else have to put up with this nonsense?
coochy coo

TwigtheWonderkid

43,342 posts

150 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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We have a staff member bringing in her new baby soon. Can't wait. Babies are cool, just like regular people but smaller.

When women bring in their babies to our office, everyone wants to get involved, men and women.

I agree they need to move away from anyone on the phone, but that aside, more babies in offices I say.

BoRED S2upid

19,691 posts

240 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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beanbag said:
I work in an open-plan office and take calls regularly and when you get a group of women (never see a guy), banging on about nappy varieties or tips on teething,
Aldi are very good as an every day nappie but we do use Pampers night time nappies to get him through the night and the answer to teething is calpol and lots of it plus give them something to chew, it can be anything they really do chew anything. Little BS" was chewing the Ipad charging wire the other evening.

There you go you can join in the conversations now wink

P-Jay

10,564 posts

191 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Cheer up OP, worse things happen at sea - how many do you see really - 2 a year?

Anyway, Wife and I had a baby 6 weeks ago, my work mates (well the female ones) haven't stopped asking me when I'm going to bring her in.

Tyre Tread

10,534 posts

216 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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P-Jay said:
Cheer up OP, worse things happen at sea - how many do you see really - 2 a year?

Anyway, Wife and I had a baby 6 weeks ago, my work mates (well the female ones) haven't stopped asking me when I'm going to bring her in.
The wife or the baby?

Hub

6,432 posts

198 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Blimey, cheer up!

Ditto - colleagues badgered me to take my daughter in when born!

Puggit

48,435 posts

248 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Taking babies in to the office is a rite of passage - BUT, they should be kept to social areas and not taken in to the office proper.

beanbag

Original Poster:

7,346 posts

241 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Like I said...I love kids, babies and all. Looking forward to having my own one day....but when I'm trying to talk to a partner on the phone or even just trying to concentrate on getting a complex report done, I don't want them around me.

We get on average about one baby appearance per day so it's just happens too often IMHO.

I don't think I'd complain if it were once in a while but I'm just getting bored of it.

0000

13,812 posts

191 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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If this is as bad as your office gets I'd keep quiet.

I don't really get it, but it doesn't bother me too much as long as they don't expect me to do any cooing.

BHC

17,540 posts

179 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Yeah, babies are rubbish at office work which is a shame because they could be a cheap source of work.

anonymous-user

54 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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What bugs me is women bringing their kids to work - and then keeping them there all day - because it's school holidays and they can't get (or don't want to pay for) childcare.

Yet they've all got flexible working, which means mornings and afternoons off whenever they like during termtime. So why they don't take the day off to look after the kid, and make up the hours in the evenings is beyond me. I've had friends lose their jobs during "restructures", where a vacant post has to be held open for a woman on maternity, but then school hols come around and the mums expect to bring the kids in, set them up playing gmes on a computer or surfing the internet or whatever.