Match.com (Volume 6)

Match.com (Volume 6)

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CaptainSlow

13,179 posts

212 months

Thursday 1st December 2016
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johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Thursday 1st December 2016
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CaptainSlow said:
59, not 39

Blown2CV

28,816 posts

203 months

Friday 2nd December 2016
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johnwilliams77 said:
CaptainSlow said:
59, not 39
not looking for hookups... dresses like a ho in a bra, obviously on a webcam.

All that jazz

7,632 posts

146 months

Tuesday 6th December 2016
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All that jazz said:
Ki3r said:
Second date down and it went well. Sorting a third for the weekend.

What would people suggest? First was a drink that turned into a meal, second was a meal, both have agreed something other than food. I don't want to do the cinema, as can't really talk! Someone suggested bowling, but I'm not a huge fan of it (mainly because I'm st!).

Any ideas would be welcome! Friend did suggest ice skating which I like the idea of (despite being bambi on ice!).
Bowling and ice-skating are both fine if you're both 15 years old.
So how did this go then? hehe

Pebbles167

3,445 posts

152 months

Wednesday 7th December 2016
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My mates ex has been laying it on pretty thick. I reckon Xmas blues.

I'd give it a shot since it wouldn't bother him, but I'm not attracted to her in the slightest.

Looks like it'll be another single Christmas. To be honest I've kind of come to like it, how sad does that sound!

steveo3002

10,525 posts

174 months

Wednesday 7th December 2016
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Blown2CV said:
johnwilliams77 said:
CaptainSlow said:
59, not 39
not looking for hookups... dresses like a ho in a bra, obviously on a webcam.
39 in dog years i think

Gretchen

19,037 posts

216 months

Wednesday 7th December 2016
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Pebbles167 said:
My mates ex has been laying it on pretty thick. I reckon Xmas blues.

I'd give it a shot since it wouldn't bother him, but I'm not attracted to her in the slightest.

Looks like it'll be another single Christmas. To be honest I've kind of come to like it, how sad does that sound!
It will bother him. I know two guys who are going through this at the moment. Leave her well alone.


Blown2CV

28,816 posts

203 months

Wednesday 7th December 2016
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Pebbles167 said:
My mates ex has been laying it on pretty thick. I reckon Xmas blues.

I'd give it a shot since it wouldn't bother him, but I'm not attracted to her in the slightest.

Looks like it'll be another single Christmas. To be honest I've kind of come to like it, how sad does that sound!
she's only doing it in order TO bother him

Ki3r

7,818 posts

159 months

Wednesday 7th December 2016
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All that jazz said:
So how did this go then? hehe
Didn't go ice skating in the end, both of us are ste at it, and she wasn't feeling too well so decided to grab something to eat.

Last night we ended up going bowling though (her choice). It was pretty good. I of course let her win...was a good laugh.




Ki3r

7,818 posts

159 months

Wednesday 7th December 2016
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Next week. All you can eat ice cream...what's not to like?

Cold

15,247 posts

90 months

Wednesday 7th December 2016
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Ki3r said:
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Next week. All you can eat ice cream...what's not to like?
Cholesterol.

Blown2CV

28,816 posts

203 months

Wednesday 7th December 2016
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Ki3r said:
All that jazz said:
So how did this go then? hehe
Didn't go ice skating in the end, both of us are ste at it, and she wasn't feeling too well so decided to grab something to eat.

Last night we ended up going bowling though (her choice). It was pretty good. I of course let her win...was a good laugh.
she wasn't feeling well so you went out for a meal?

Gretchen

19,037 posts

216 months

Thursday 8th December 2016
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Cold said:
Ki3r said:
anonymous said:
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Next week. All you can eat ice cream...what's not to like?
Cholesterol.
I'd have gone with diabetes hehe

All that jazz

7,632 posts

146 months

Thursday 8th December 2016
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I was going to ask if he was taking her to the swings and slides next weekend hehe.

Sounds like they're enjoying themselves though which is all that matters. yes

Gretchen

19,037 posts

216 months

Thursday 8th December 2016
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anonymous said:
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Harsh!



But probably fair.

can't remember

1,078 posts

128 months

Thursday 8th December 2016
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anonymous said:
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Typo or Freudian slip?

All that jazz

7,632 posts

146 months

Thursday 8th December 2016
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can't remember said:
anonymous said:
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Typo or Freudian slip?
It's tonker. He will be balls deep in some Tinder 18yr old and trying to type at the same time. You have to make allowances for him.

vtecyo

2,122 posts

129 months

Friday 9th December 2016
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How many dates do you have to go on with one woman before it's probably a bad idea to be dating others at the same time?

vtecyo

2,122 posts

129 months

Friday 9th December 2016
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olly22n said:
vtecyo said:
How many dates do you have to go on with one woman before it's probably a bad idea to be dating others at the same time?
Define a date?

It depends if you want to be exclusive, and whether you are giving her the impression you are.
I have no idea. I've just come out (well.. 2 months ago) of a long term living together relationship. Met up with a couple of girls so far casually. Got date no. 4 with a decent girl tomorrow and a few others that are keen to meet up and do something (slaying Tinder as you can imagine). It's all fairly new to me really so not really got a clue what I'm doing!

So far just been drinks / dinner but tomorrow is activity based so more of an actual date.

Matt UK

17,698 posts

200 months

Friday 9th December 2016
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My mate who has been on this scene for a couple of years now shared the view that if you are seeing a few, you are merely dating / getting out and about meeting new people.
If you start having sex with one of them regularly whilst seeing others, you'll be perceived as a 'player' - which you may or may not want to be.
His personal rule is once you've had sex 3 times in a short space of time, he doesn't date others.
But I guess it's all personal. Another mate shags anything that moves and has the mindset that until he's married he's not being unfaithful to anyone.
And we've all got the mate who gets a mere fluttering of eyelashes and a phone number, and decides to fall hopelessly in love thinking it's the start of beautiful long term relationship hehe
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