Match.com (Volume 6)

Match.com (Volume 6)

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xjay1337

15,966 posts

117 months

Monday 16th January 2017
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Pebbles167 said:
Ok, so I've been dating a girl 2 weeks, who I've been friends with a couple of years. At first it was fun, but she keeps bringing up the classic "what are we?" topic.

To be honest I've become bored with things, both socially and in the bedroom (my increasingly lackluster performance was brought up) and I'm thinking to myself that this early on, we should both be much more excited than we are.

She says we need to try harder, but I'm gonna call it quits i think. Not great, but hey ho, on we go.
you did the right thing imo.
Move on , no harm done hopefully.

Gretchen

18,998 posts

215 months

Monday 16th January 2017
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Trabi601 said:
Before Mrs. Trabi and I managed to work out a reconciliation, I was seeing a girl a few years younger than me, with a family. Probably a bit towards the 'council' end of my acceptable scale, but we got on well, had a lot of laughs, went to a couple of gigs etc.

Anyway, 2 days after we'd last been out on the lash, she messaged me to say she thought that she couldn't commit to a proper relationship due to her family commitments - I had kind of been thinking the same, as we did often find it difficult to get a night together, as I was a little wary of getting involved in family stuff until I was 100% sure there was a future. Anyway, I replied that I was thinking the same, said I'd enjoyed the few months we'd had and wished her all the best...

Less than a week later she got back in touch.

I didn't ignore, but re-iterated that I'd enjoyed our time together, but it just wasn't going to work.

Deleted her from everywhere. Blocked her on social media. Moved on.

(2 months later, I'd sorted stuff with Mrs. Trabi - relatively thankful I didn't need to hit the 'fked up middle aged mothers' sites again!)
Wow!

I don't know your story but your Mrs took you back after you enjoyed a bit of rough before wiping her out it appears?

And guys wonder why there are so many damaged women...?!








All that jazz

7,632 posts

145 months

Monday 16th January 2017
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Gretchen said:
Wow!

I don't know your story but your Mrs took you back after you enjoyed a bit of rough before wiping her out it appears?

And guys wonder why there are so many damaged women...?!
I would take his story with a pinch of salt. Given his post history on here the chances of him having a woman are extremely unlikely.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

102 months

Monday 16th January 2017
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vtecyo said:
I've booked this:

https://www.redpointbristol.co.uk/taster-session/

It'll either go down a storm or I'll never see her again. Hopefully the former obviously!
How did it go?

Trabi601

4,865 posts

94 months

Monday 16th January 2017
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Gretchen said:
Wow!

I don't know your story but your Mrs took you back after you enjoyed a bit of rough before wiping her out it appears?

And guys wonder why there are so many damaged women...?!
You've made a massive assumption about who took who back and got it wrong.

Trabi601

4,865 posts

94 months

Monday 16th January 2017
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All that jazz said:
I would take his story with a pinch of salt. Given his post history on here the chances of him having a woman are extremely unlikely.
rolleyes

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

102 months

Monday 16th January 2017
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All that jazz said:
I would take his story with a pinch of salt. Given his post history on here the chances of him having a woman are extremely unlikely.
Don't be so cruel - everyone has a match!

davhill

5,263 posts

183 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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Here's an invitation to start a gold plated, 5 star, mink-lined PH shredding.

Having emerged as one of the post-divorce walking wounded, I'm looking around on match.com and piece of fish. I'm booked in to have my head examined shortly.

I've had about 500 views on match and faved a few. However, there's a choice blonde on pof - I faved her too.

She's ten years younger than me, a little 'dipsy' and a footie fan - I know seven times the square root of fk all about football.

I've quick messaged her three times, just short info messages. Result = foxtrot so far.

You worldly bods probably know and I'm wondering what's the scheme/stratagem? I've no wish to sell my soul to pof/match and she 'hasn't got 'meet me' and asks specifically for quick messages.

Shred away then, chaps. Just a warning though. I've thought of coke and Hookers, psychotherapy and castration.

CaptainSlow

13,179 posts

211 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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I don't think she's going to message you back, message one more time and she'll probably block you.

All that jazz

7,632 posts

145 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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davhill said:
Here's an invitation to start a gold plated, 5 star, mink-lined PH shredding.

Having emerged as one of the post-divorce walking wounded, I'm looking around on match.com and piece of fish. I'm booked in to have my head examined shortly.

I've had about 500 views on match and faved a few. However, there's a choice blonde on pof - I faved her too.

She's ten years younger than me, a little 'dipsy' and a footie fan - I know seven times the square root of fk all about football.

I've quick messaged her three times, just short info messages. Result = foxtrot so far.

You worldly bods probably know and I'm wondering what's the scheme/stratagem? I've no wish to sell my soul to pof/match and she 'hasn't got 'meet me' and asks specifically for quick messages.

Shred away then, chaps. Just a warning though. I've thought of coke and Hookers, psychotherapy and castration.
You're 1 out of 1000 other blokes that are also messaging her. No, wait.. Correction: 1 out of 10000 blokes, as she's put that she likes footie. Unless you look like Clooney, forget it, she isn't interested.

Also iirc that 'favourite' button thing doesn't show you who it is unless you pay - you just get a bunch of notifications that "someone" likes you.

And LOL @ "piece of fish" in your opening lines above. laugh

cheddar

4,637 posts

173 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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Well this escalated quickly

Messaging a lady who was on holiday in Australia (I'm in NZ), very open, warm and friendly, we swap phone numbers for when she returns etc
I get a message from her at 2am 'Yay, glad to be back'! I reply 'Welcome home' then she calls me, we chat for 10 minutes and she says 'shall I come and see you, now', I say 'Ok, do it' so a woman who I've spoken to for 10 minutes in my life gets in her car in the middle of the night and drives 40 miles to the absolute middle of nowhere to meet a random guy who might or might not be carrying a large axe.

I get up, shower, light the fire and a few candles, pour some wine, set the scene etc
She arrives at 3.30am, I meet her outside, we kiss, she comes in we chat for an hour then proceed to try and break my bed, she was very liberated in 'You won't st right for a week' kind of way

She goes home later that day but is coming back for dinner, she texts me 'I've got a nice toy and lube, shall I bring it', I say sure, she arrives, we drink, eat and chat, the toy is on my mind so we go to bed early, she's holding it seductively and gently stroking it, looking me in the eye then says 'How much of it would YOU like' !
I'll spare you the gory details but let's just say I wish I hadn't drunk so much .........

Trabi601

4,865 posts

94 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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Pics or it didn't happen wink

xjay1337

15,966 posts

117 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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Hahahahah, fk sake.

rofl

Mastodon2

13,818 posts

164 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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cheddar said:
Well this escalated quickly

Messaging a lady who was on holiday in Australia (I'm in NZ), very open, warm and friendly, we swap phone numbers for when she returns etc
I get a message from her at 2am 'Yay, glad to be back'! I reply 'Welcome home' then she calls me, we chat for 10 minutes and she says 'shall I come and see you, now', I say 'Ok, do it' so a woman who I've spoken to for 10 minutes in my life gets in her car in the middle of the night and drives 40 miles to the absolute middle of nowhere to meet a random guy who might or might not be carrying a large axe.

I get up, shower, light the fire and a few candles, pour some wine, set the scene etc
She arrives at 3.30am, I meet her outside, we kiss, she comes in we chat for an hour then proceed to try and break my bed, she was very liberated in 'You won't st right for a week' kind of way

She goes home later that day but is coming back for dinner, she texts me 'I've got a nice toy and lube, shall I bring it', I say sure, she arrives, we drink, eat and chat, the toy is on my mind so we go to bed early, she's holding it seductively and gently stroking it, looking me in the eye then says 'How much of it would YOU like' !
I'll spare you the gory details but let's just say I wish I hadn't drunk so much .........
Quoted to preserve this gem.

CaptainSlow

13,179 posts

211 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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All that jazz said:
Also iirc that 'favourite' button thing doesn't show you who it is unless you pay - you just get a bunch of notifications that "someone" likes you.
Unless it's changed recently that's incorrect.

Cupramax

10,469 posts

251 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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cheddar said:
Well this escalated quickly

Messaging a lady who was on holiday in Australia (I'm in NZ), very open, warm and friendly, we swap phone numbers for when she returns etc
I get a message from her at 2am 'Yay, glad to be back'! I reply 'Welcome home' then she calls me, we chat for 10 minutes and she says 'shall I come and see you, now', I say 'Ok, do it' so a woman who I've spoken to for 10 minutes in my life gets in her car in the middle of the night and drives 40 miles to the absolute middle of nowhere to meet a random guy who might or might not be carrying a large axe.

I get up, shower, light the fire and a few candles, pour some wine, set the scene etc
She arrives at 3.30am, I meet her outside, we kiss, she comes in we chat for an hour then proceed to try and break my bed, she was very liberated in 'You won't st right for a week' kind of way

She goes home later that day but is coming back for dinner, she texts me 'I've got a nice toy and lube, shall I bring it', I say sure, she arrives, we drink, eat and chat, the toy is on my mind so we go to bed early, she's holding it seductively and gently stroking it, looking me in the eye then says 'How much of it would YOU like' !
I'll spare you the gory details but let's just say I wish I hadn't drunk so much .........
hehe you should work for Jackanory.

All that jazz

7,632 posts

145 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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CaptainSlow said:
All that jazz said:
Also iirc that 'favourite' button thing doesn't show you who it is unless you pay - you just get a bunch of notifications that "someone" likes you.
Unless it's changed recently that's incorrect.
"Recently" being at least since Autumn last year when I was on it as I experienced it first hand. There was discussion in this thread about it at the time if you search back some pages. Some people said it was a thing, others said it wasn't and there was some work-around on mobile devices to see who it was but you certainly can't see who it is on the desktop site.

cheddar

4,637 posts

173 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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I'd love to tell you that she's my dream woman but the following morning I'm making breakfast when she walked into the kitchen and just stood there looking straight at me, I said hi, she whispered back 'I love you'

I'd only known her for 27 hours by then, I told her I felt a little uncomfortable (in more ways than one!) and that the 'I love you' thing was maybe a bit soon, she became embarrassed and flustered, packed her bags and left.

She's text a few times since asking to come back but, for some reason, I'm finding it quite easy to resist smile

CaptainSlow

13,179 posts

211 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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All that jazz said:
CaptainSlow said:
All that jazz said:
Also iirc that 'favourite' button thing doesn't show you who it is unless you pay - you just get a bunch of notifications that "someone" likes you.
Unless it's changed recently that's incorrect.
"Recently" being at least since Autumn last year when I was on it as I experienced it first hand. There was discussion in this thread about it at the time if you search back some pages. Some people said it was a thing, others said it wasn't and there was some work-around on mobile devices to see who it was but you certainly can't see who it is on the desktop site.
OK fair enough, my experience is two year old.

All that jazz

7,632 posts

145 months

Wednesday 18th January 2017
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cheddar said:
I'd love to tell you that she's my dream woman but the following morning I'm making breakfast when she walked into the kitchen and just stood there looking straight at me, I said hi, she whispered back 'I love you'

I'd only known her for 27 hours by then, I told her I felt a little uncomfortable (in more ways than one!) and that the 'I love you' thing was maybe a bit soon, she became embarrassed and flustered, packed her bags and left.

She's text a few times since asking to come back but, for some reason, I'm finding it quite easy to resist smile
Umm, why? confused Are you mad or did all this only happen in your head?
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