Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
Rich_W said:
guys who've seen the truth
The only truth here I guess is that you've been fked over, maybe more than once, so you're of the opinion that they're all like that.You know what's weird? You see threads on here in the Jobs section, and out when speaking to people, thinking about changing jobs, first thing they say is 'dont chuck your notice in til you've got something to go to'
Relationships section: 'These snakes with tits, they're monkeys too, always have hold of a new branch before letting go of the last one'
And you think about it, there's separatino between jobs and relationships, but mindsets can be a funny thing. It's odd to castigate someone who's fked you over for doing exactly what they're conditioned to do.
It's something that I think Impasse put as a comment to me a few pages ago that's made me think about what he said, and I dont think it's a good healthy mindset to have.
DanielSan said:
anonymous said:
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I'd say there's a moral time scale at very least when it comes to seeing someone when one of your mates has first, obviously that time scale depends on the severity of their previous relationship.. Especially if you've got lots of mates.
DanielSan said:
Not saying don't rule it out completely that woukd be stupid but anyone with an ounce of decency would at least leave it a decent amount of time until you have a crack.
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I wish I'd had a crack at one a while ago, purely because I was accused of doing it anyway. .
A week should be enough, right? .
I wish I'd had a crack at one a while ago, purely because I was accused of doing it anyway. .
Edited by NRS on Monday 2nd February 16:11
NRS said:
DanielSan said:
Not saying don't rule it out completely that woukd be stupid but anyone with an ounce of decency would at least leave it a decent amount of time until you have a crack.
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I wish I'd had a crack at one a while ago, purely because I was accused of doing it anyway. .
A week should be enough, right? .
I wish I'd had a crack at one a while ago, purely because I was accused of doing it anyway. .
Edited by NRS on Monday 2nd February 16:11
NRS said:
DanielSan said:
Not saying don't rule it out completely that woukd be stupid but anyone with an ounce of decency would at least leave it a decent amount of time until you have a crack.
.
I wish I'd had a crack at one a while ago, purely because I was accused of doing it anyway. .
A week should be enough, right? .
I wish I'd had a crack at one a while ago, purely because I was accused of doing it anyway. .
Edited by NRS on Monday 2nd February 16:11
anonymous said:
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Well, I've never ejaculated my way through a chorus line, nor have I shagged the ex of a mate. Sexual attraction is not something that has to be acted upon. It's a turn off.And no, it's not about marrying a virgin or anything like that at all, it's simply the fact that the idea of having a relationship of any description with the ex of someone I've know or know has never entered my mind. Ever. My brain just switches off the idea of a relationship with that person.
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