Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
hora said:
She (this Brit) one felt it was formal/punctual and abit stuffy/overbearing. Maybe Brit girls like spontaneous/etc? (complete guess mind as the test audience was only 1).
Yup, you definitely need to go out there and get a wider sample group 
The best gift you can give them is missing you. Dull text messages like clockwork at 9am won't help.
Generic PH part.
Pics of your sauna pal in her bikini or it didn't happen.
So dating experts, guide me with your wisdom:
Matched 2 days ago, spoke yesterday morning intermittently and through the day then a reasonable amount last night - ending before it all died out.
Back in for the second conversation / number swap / date discussion tonight or leave till tomorrow to keep her keen?
Matched 2 days ago, spoke yesterday morning intermittently and through the day then a reasonable amount last night - ending before it all died out.
Back in for the second conversation / number swap / date discussion tonight or leave till tomorrow to keep her keen?
Calza said:
So dating experts, guide me with your wisdom:
Matched 2 days ago, spoke yesterday morning intermittently and through the day then a reasonable amount last night - ending before it all died out.
Back in for the second conversation / number swap / date discussion tonight or leave till tomorrow to keep her keen?
Given the amount you are chatting I'd say you should have the number already. Matched 2 days ago, spoke yesterday morning intermittently and through the day then a reasonable amount last night - ending before it all died out.
Back in for the second conversation / number swap / date discussion tonight or leave till tomorrow to keep her keen?
Just ask already, she is evidently fairly keen!
Calza said:
So dating experts, guide me with your wisdom:
Matched 2 days ago, spoke yesterday morning intermittently and through the day then a reasonable amount last night - ending before it all died out.
Back in for the second conversation / number swap / date discussion tonight or leave till tomorrow to keep her keen?
Agree with CountZero, should have got the number last night while the momentum was there.Matched 2 days ago, spoke yesterday morning intermittently and through the day then a reasonable amount last night - ending before it all died out.
Back in for the second conversation / number swap / date discussion tonight or leave till tomorrow to keep her keen?
To be honest, just speak to her tonight, 3 days to get a date lined up. Plus, you know she's already keen because she swiped right, tinder is so cruel and so kind in it's vanity. She already wants to do dirty things to you, initial chat isn't getting to know you, it's checking you're not a psycho that's going to start photoshopping her face into family pictures...
So do it tonight because you also need to remember that initially at least, you are one of maybe 2 or 3 matches that they're chatting with. You snooze you loose, you know she finds you attractive, you're chat is clearly good if she talked to you all night too so just do it before someone else beats you to it.
Edited by DottyMR2 on Wednesday 18th March 20:09
hora said:
I was speaking to a girl in the sauna last night (regulars) - shes on Match/POF and she mentioned shes got another new date and hopes this one will finally be normal/sane/not a nutjob. I mentioned funny- the girls are usually described in the same way... 
Edit - a few of them/you? send a text daily saying morning/heres how my day was as though they were talking to their wife/felt the need to send a regular text at set times.
One recorded voicemessages and sent them for whatsapp. No video- just voice and sends them to her.
This is blokes in their 30's.
are you pimping us out? Oh and did she give you a ham shandy?Edit - a few of them/you? send a text daily saying morning/heres how my day was as though they were talking to their wife/felt the need to send a regular text at set times.
One recorded voicemessages and sent them for whatsapp. No video- just voice and sends them to her.
This is blokes in their 30's.
Edited by hora on Wednesday 18th March 10:10
Calza said:
Message understood, I'll get the numbers tonight and date sorted tonight!
When you get her number use it to call her, something brief like calling to confirm the date is all that's needed.I've done a fair few tinder dates and every time they've commented that they loved that I actually called rather than just carried on texting. To me it's just common sense to speak to someone before meeting them but apparently it's a rare thing.
leglessAlex said:
DottyMR2 said:
Joey Deacon posted a good point too, CC needs to look up red pill blue pill manosphere theory. It's bang on!
He really doesn't. CC may be misguided in many ways but at least he isn't a bellend who treats women as if they are generally worthless while referring to himself as an 'alpha' and other guys who he thinks are beneath him as 'betas'. 'The Manosphere' is a seriously depressing concept.
DuncanM said:
leglessAlex said:
DottyMR2 said:
Joey Deacon posted a good point too, CC needs to look up red pill blue pill manosphere theory. It's bang on!
He really doesn't. CC may be misguided in many ways but at least he isn't a bellend who treats women as if they are generally worthless while referring to himself as an 'alpha' and other guys who he thinks are beneath him as 'betas'. 'The Manosphere' is a seriously depressing concept.
Every girl you talk to will tell you not to change because 'some one will want you for you', will she though? Will she f
k. HerrSchnell said:
When you get her number use it to call her, something brief like calling to confirm the date is all that's needed.
I've done a fair few tinder dates and every time they've commented that they loved that I actually called rather than just carried on texting. To me it's just common sense to speak to someone before meeting them but apparently it's a rare thing.
Good advice I should actually take on board too!I've done a fair few tinder dates and every time they've commented that they loved that I actually called rather than just carried on texting. To me it's just common sense to speak to someone before meeting them but apparently it's a rare thing.
Calza said:
Two dates and two numbers. Thanks for the push!
Nice one Calza :thumb:Edited by DottyMR2 on Wednesday 18th March 23:43
DuncanM said:
CC please ignore all the other advice on this thread and listen to Alex.
Everyone has their thing. We've tried to give CC tips on how to improve, after all the current technique clearly isn't work. Some may not agree but that's their opinion and as such CC can also choose himself to either follow sound and proven advice or at least incorporate some of it to see if changing tact helps. After all, insanity is repeating the same technique ans expecting different results.As I said though, everyone has their thing. Some guys choose the full bore nice guy approach. For some it works and they meet the female opposite and it works just fine. For others, they're the ones who come home to find their Mrs has been thrown around the bedroom like an empty tracksuit by a gorilla from the gym for the past 3 months.
People can choose their own way; the approach of some effort into appearance, sensible thought on how women actually think, confidence to take chances and risk being shot down but enjoy the whole process.
They can also choose the never change who you are approach. They just have to realise they'll spend an awful lot of nights furiously masturbating into a sock...
plus, think about it. I'm attempting to stop CC from playing the stupid sexually frustrated games he is already playing, trying to trick women into bed by putting on his profile a bunch of s
t he actually isn't in the hope their clothes will just fall off for him.You can lead a horse to water though
Edited by DottyMR2 on Thursday 19th March 00:24
DottyMR2 said:
DuncanM said:
CC please ignore all the other advice on this thread and listen to Alex.
Everyone has their thing. We've tried to give CC tips on how to improve, after all the current technique clearly isn't work. Some may not agree but that's their opinion and as such CC can also choose himself to either follow sound and proven advice or at least incorporate some of it to see if changing tact helps. After all, insanity is repeating the same technique ans expecting different results.As I said though, everyone has their thing. Some guys choose the full bore nice guy approach. For some it works and they meet the female opposite and it works just fine. For others, they're the ones who come home to find their Mrs has been thrown around the bedroom like an empty tracksuit by a gorilla from the gym for the past 3 months.
People can choose their own way; the approach of some effort into appearance, sensible thought on how women actually think, confidence to take chances and risk being shot down but enjoy the whole process.
They can also choose the never change who you are approach. They just have to realise they'll spend an awful lot of nights furiously masturbating into a sock...
plus, think about it. I'm attempting to stop CC from playing the stupid sexually frustrated games he is already playing, trying to trick women into bed by putting on his profile a bunch of s
t he actually isn't in the hope their clothes will just fall off for him.You can lead a horse to water though
Edited by DottyMR2 on Thursday 19th March 00:24
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