Match.com (Volume 6)
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Then tell her why!
She must be wondering.
If she is interested in you then she will understand.
Also if this week is the last chance to get your end away for a moth or so then now is the time.
So on Friday (is that your next date?), go out for a few drinks (not too many) so you are both relaxed and tell her.
Just start by asking "Do you wonder how I lost one of my bks?" or something similar.
Keep it light hearted, don't make it look like you are looking for sympathy.
She should ask how you are now, are you in remission etc...
You could mention the sex thing, maybe say why you are nervous, first time since the op etc..
Then see what happens from there.
Maybe I'm old fashioned and like stuff like that out in the open.
She will either run a mile or understand and doesn't see it as an issue.
Good luck.
She must be wondering.
If she is interested in you then she will understand.
Also if this week is the last chance to get your end away for a moth or so then now is the time.
So on Friday (is that your next date?), go out for a few drinks (not too many) so you are both relaxed and tell her.
Just start by asking "Do you wonder how I lost one of my bks?" or something similar.
Keep it light hearted, don't make it look like you are looking for sympathy.
She should ask how you are now, are you in remission etc...
You could mention the sex thing, maybe say why you are nervous, first time since the op etc..
Then see what happens from there.
Maybe I'm old fashioned and like stuff like that out in the open.
She will either run a mile or understand and doesn't see it as an issue.
Good luck.
Got talking to a Polish girl from POF about the new climbing wall in Brighton and now have a date doing bouldering next Friday, this on top of doing a workout class with a girl I've been chatting with down the gym this Friday.
Only ever done dates in bars / pubs - seems like my health kick is spilling over into my love life. I'll be burning off calories no matter how the dates go
Only ever done dates in bars / pubs - seems like my health kick is spilling over into my love life. I'll be burning off calories no matter how the dates go
OK, so here's my weekly update:
Happn - Still nought. I would delete this app, but I find it somewhat amusing and am waiting for somebody I know to appear on it!
Tinder - Down to 2 matches, through choice. Can't be bothered with people who never reply. What's the point in that? Chatting quite happily to a nice blonde girl. Progress is positive. I shall keep you updated.
POF - Still my favourite hunting ground, despite the negative views from some. Chatting with a Polish lass although I'm not sure if anything will come from this, then tonight, BAM, a reply from a Dutch girl (complete with phone number) who I had written off. We exchanged a few messages, but there was seemingly no interest from her. I tread with caution as she is a hottie.......but for now, I will dream of what may be.
Has anyone any dates lined up for this weekend?
CountZero123 - How did the climbing go tonight? Any developments with the sky diving gym girl?
Calzo - What's the latest with you?
Happn - Still nought. I would delete this app, but I find it somewhat amusing and am waiting for somebody I know to appear on it!
Tinder - Down to 2 matches, through choice. Can't be bothered with people who never reply. What's the point in that? Chatting quite happily to a nice blonde girl. Progress is positive. I shall keep you updated.
POF - Still my favourite hunting ground, despite the negative views from some. Chatting with a Polish lass although I'm not sure if anything will come from this, then tonight, BAM, a reply from a Dutch girl (complete with phone number) who I had written off. We exchanged a few messages, but there was seemingly no interest from her. I tread with caution as she is a hottie.......but for now, I will dream of what may be.
Has anyone any dates lined up for this weekend?
CountZero123 - How did the climbing go tonight? Any developments with the sky diving gym girl?
Calzo - What's the latest with you?
Not sure how I'd feel about all those exercise / gym type dates!
Did you mean Climbing last night or next Friday?
Rob - I've got my 5th date tomorrow night, really looking forward to it to be honest! Still having a swipe on Tinder out of interest but no-one is catching my interest at all to be honest.
I'll be disappointed if you don't have a date arranged with blondey in the next day or two..
Did you mean Climbing last night or next Friday?
Rob - I've got my 5th date tomorrow night, really looking forward to it to be honest! Still having a swipe on Tinder out of interest but no-one is catching my interest at all to be honest.
I'll be disappointed if you don't have a date arranged with blondey in the next day or two..
Climbing is next Friday, been meaning to go to it for ages so got a good excuse now. Hopefully she will wear something suitably skimpy.
So I did the gym class with the gym girl - she's now going a bit cold it would appear. Will back off and see what happens.
Putting on a club night tomorrow, always easier to pull when it's your night and yer DJing
So I did the gym class with the gym girl - she's now going a bit cold it would appear. Will back off and see what happens.
Putting on a club night tomorrow, always easier to pull when it's your night and yer DJing
KFC said:
Calza said:
Not sure how I'd feel about all those exercise / gym type dates!
I think it could be pretty horrific if there is a huge gap in fitness levels between the 2 people. If they're both super fit or both fat losers then it may work in reality it's a non-issue as a fittie is extremely unlikely to get with a fattie. If you're fat, and you think a fit gym instructor is coming on to you, then basically she just sees you as a pet project. I have however seen many a case where one partner is a lot fatter than the other, but generally the less fat one isn't athletic.
Joey Deacon said:
Agree with this, just unfriend her. Don't waste any more time on girls that have friend zoned you. Infact, use this experience to work out why she friend zoned you so you don't make the mistake again.
She decided in the first 5 seconds of meeting you whether she was going to sleep with you. You have been added to the long list of beta orbiters/white knights who she can use whenever she is bored or her car breaks down/computer stops working etc.
Never, ever do favours for girls who have friend zoned you, and for gods sake don't become an emotional tampon while she moans on about what a douche her boyfriend is. Being a white knight will never make her realise just what a great guy you are and how you would make a brilliant boyfriend.
Agreed. This is spot on. She decided in the first 5 seconds of meeting you whether she was going to sleep with you. You have been added to the long list of beta orbiters/white knights who she can use whenever she is bored or her car breaks down/computer stops working etc.
Never, ever do favours for girls who have friend zoned you, and for gods sake don't become an emotional tampon while she moans on about what a douche her boyfriend is. Being a white knight will never make her realise just what a great guy you are and how you would make a brilliant boyfriend.
Calza said:
Robw73 said:
I don't require details (!), but in a good bed breaking type of way I'm presuming.
Yes, the good kind.I'm off this week .. it'll be a great project for me to do fixing it
But in more serious news date 5 went well.
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