Match.com (Volume 6)

Match.com (Volume 6)

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Calza

1,979 posts

114 months

Wednesday 29th April 2015
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I believe more of the latter, I got very drunk and made sure she was before telling her laugh

Davey S2

13,075 posts

253 months

Wednesday 29th April 2015
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Calza said:
While we're here, is there any point in me telling her why I actually had the op and that I'm recently in remission?
Yes just not while you're puffing on your post coital ciggie.

GreatGranny

9,097 posts

225 months

Wednesday 29th April 2015
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Then tell her why!

She must be wondering.

If she is interested in you then she will understand.
Also if this week is the last chance to get your end away for a moth or so then now is the time.

So on Friday (is that your next date?), go out for a few drinks (not too many) so you are both relaxed and tell her.
Just start by asking "Do you wonder how I lost one of my bks?" or something similar.
Keep it light hearted, don't make it look like you are looking for sympathy.

She should ask how you are now, are you in remission etc...

You could mention the sex thing, maybe say why you are nervous, first time since the op etc..

Then see what happens from there.

Maybe I'm old fashioned and like stuff like that out in the open.
She will either run a mile or understand and doesn't see it as an issue.

Good luck.

kowalski655

14,599 posts

142 months

Wednesday 29th April 2015
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So many pages about "Adolf" Calza smile
& no one has mentioned

CountZero23

1,288 posts

177 months

Wednesday 29th April 2015
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Got talking to a Polish girl from POF about the new climbing wall in Brighton and now have a date doing bouldering next Friday, this on top of doing a workout class with a girl I've been chatting with down the gym this Friday.

Only ever done dates in bars / pubs - seems like my health kick is spilling over into my love life. I'll be burning off calories no matter how the dates go hehe




Robw73

233 posts

128 months

Friday 1st May 2015
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OK, so here's my weekly update:

Happn - Still nought. I would delete this app, but I find it somewhat amusing and am waiting for somebody I know to appear on it!

Tinder - Down to 2 matches, through choice. Can't be bothered with people who never reply. What's the point in that? Chatting quite happily to a nice blonde girl. Progress is positive. I shall keep you updated.

POF - Still my favourite hunting ground, despite the negative views from some. Chatting with a Polish lass although I'm not sure if anything will come from this, then tonight, BAM, a reply from a Dutch girl (complete with phone number) who I had written off. We exchanged a few messages, but there was seemingly no interest from her. I tread with caution as she is a hottie.......but for now, I will dream of what may be.

Has anyone any dates lined up for this weekend?

CountZero123 - How did the climbing go tonight? Any developments with the sky diving gym girl?
Calzo - What's the latest with you?

Calza

1,979 posts

114 months

Saturday 2nd May 2015
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Not sure how I'd feel about all those exercise / gym type dates!

Did you mean Climbing last night or next Friday?

Rob - I've got my 5th date tomorrow night, really looking forward to it to be honest! Still having a swipe on Tinder out of interest but no-one is catching my interest at all to be honest.

I'll be disappointed if you don't have a date arranged with blondey in the next day or two..

Robw73

233 posts

128 months

Saturday 2nd May 2015
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Calza said:
Not sure how I'd feel about all those exercise / gym type dates!

I'll be disappointed if you don't have a date arranged with blondey in the next day or two..
It's on the cards!
Some damn filthy chat via text last night!


CountZero23

1,288 posts

177 months

Saturday 2nd May 2015
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Climbing is next Friday, been meaning to go to it for ages so got a good excuse now. Hopefully she will wear something suitably skimpy.

So I did the gym class with the gym girl - she's now going a bit cold it would appear. Will back off and see what happens.

Putting on a club night tomorrow, always easier to pull when it's your night and yer DJing hehe

KFC

3,687 posts

129 months

Saturday 2nd May 2015
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Calza said:
Not sure how I'd feel about all those exercise / gym type dates!
I think it could be pretty horrific if there is a huge gap in fitness levels between the 2 people. If they're both super fit or both fat losers then it may work laugh

CountZero23

1,288 posts

177 months

Saturday 2nd May 2015
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KFC said:
Calza said:
Not sure how I'd feel about all those exercise / gym type dates!
I think it could be pretty horrific if there is a huge gap in fitness levels between the 2 people. If they're both super fit or both fat losers then it may work laugh
This might be the only case where I'm hoping the girl isn't as fit as she looks in her pictures.

Blown2CV

28,697 posts

202 months

Saturday 2nd May 2015
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in reality it's a non-issue as a fittie is extremely unlikely to get with a fattie. If you're fat, and you think a fit gym instructor is coming on to you, then basically she just sees you as a pet project. I have however seen many a case where one partner is a lot fatter than the other, but generally the less fat one isn't athletic.

Robw73

233 posts

128 months

Saturday 2nd May 2015
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CountZero23 said:
So I did the gym class with the gym girl - she's now going a bit cold it would appear. Will back off and see what happens.
Rubbish news!
Does this mean the Sky Dive is off too?


MartynVRS

1,145 posts

209 months

Sunday 3rd May 2015
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Joey Deacon said:
Agree with this, just unfriend her. Don't waste any more time on girls that have friend zoned you. Infact, use this experience to work out why she friend zoned you so you don't make the mistake again.

She decided in the first 5 seconds of meeting you whether she was going to sleep with you. You have been added to the long list of beta orbiters/white knights who she can use whenever she is bored or her car breaks down/computer stops working etc.

Never, ever do favours for girls who have friend zoned you, and for gods sake don't become an emotional tampon while she moans on about what a douche her boyfriend is. Being a white knight will never make her realise just what a great guy you are and how you would make a brilliant boyfriend.
Agreed. This is spot on.

Calza

1,979 posts

114 months

Monday 4th May 2015
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Broke my bed frown

Impasse

15,099 posts

240 months

Monday 4th May 2015
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Calza said:
Broke my bed frown
Fatty.

Robw73

233 posts

128 months

Monday 4th May 2015
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Calza said:
Broke my bed frown
I don't require details (!), but in a good bed breaking type of way I'm presuming.

Impasse

15,099 posts

240 months

Monday 4th May 2015
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Fatty pulled a chubster?

Calza

1,979 posts

114 months

Tuesday 5th May 2015
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Robw73 said:
I don't require details (!), but in a good bed breaking type of way I'm presuming.
Yes, the good kind.

I'm off this week .. it'll be a great project for me to do fixing it laugh

But in more serious news date 5 went well.

anonymous-user

53 months

Tuesday 5th May 2015
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Calza said:
Robw73 said:
I don't require details (!), but in a good bed breaking type of way I'm presuming.
Yes, the good kind.

I'm off this week .. it'll be a great project for me to do fixing it laugh

But in more serious news date 5 went well.
Be careful she doesn't bang in a claim for whiplash if a "no win, no fee" hears of this smile
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