Match.com (Volume 6)
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SpunkyGlory said:
I've had 3 dates the past 3 nights.
Date 1 - A really sweet girl with a heart of gold, we have a laugh but she's just a bit boring/plain for me. I feel bad saying that because she really is so nice but I'm just not attracted to her.
Date 2 - This one had a bit more of an attitude and we had some good back and forth. Even more pretty in real life than her pictures which is always a bonus, but the same as date 1, she doesn't really seem the wild type I like.
Date 3 - I went on a date with her in February but hasn't seen her since. Still a complete knob.
Truth be told I'm only going on these dates because I'm bored and don't know anyone in a new city. I've done the whole dating thing and it gets pretty boring after a while, and girls that I would have thought were great a year ago are just boring now, which isn't helped because of how wild my ex was. I need to find some of the wild ones again!
Get back to date 1, she will be filth Date 1 - A really sweet girl with a heart of gold, we have a laugh but she's just a bit boring/plain for me. I feel bad saying that because she really is so nice but I'm just not attracted to her.
Date 2 - This one had a bit more of an attitude and we had some good back and forth. Even more pretty in real life than her pictures which is always a bonus, but the same as date 1, she doesn't really seem the wild type I like.
Date 3 - I went on a date with her in February but hasn't seen her since. Still a complete knob.
Truth be told I'm only going on these dates because I'm bored and don't know anyone in a new city. I've done the whole dating thing and it gets pretty boring after a while, and girls that I would have thought were great a year ago are just boring now, which isn't helped because of how wild my ex was. I need to find some of the wild ones again!
SpunkyGlory said:
I get about 8 or 9 matches a day and get responses from probably 60% that I message. It's then all about getting their number and setting up a date as quickly as possible, none of this talking by text for months on end. I've got 2 Tinder dates this week and a couple next week, as well as a date with the hotel receptionist. I appreciate that may make me sound like a knob but I don't know anyone in this city and so dating passes the time till I make new mates 
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And if nothing else, remember to smile. A smile goes a long way!
Aside from all that, I've had some interesting dates recently, some successful and some tragic. I'll go into more detail when I get a chance.
Woah there, I have a date with a hotel reception person tomorrow... Are we seeing the same girl? .And if nothing else, remember to smile. A smile goes a long way!
Aside from all that, I've had some interesting dates recently, some successful and some tragic. I'll go into more detail when I get a chance.
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hajaba123 said:
Get back to date 1, she will be filth
Not this one, she got offended when I used the word pube. Alex106 said:
Woah there, I have a date with a hotel reception person tomorrow... Are we seeing the same girl?
No idea but this girl was the boring date number 1 so you are welcome to her!Had another date on Saturday, takeaway with film followed by filthy sex, but I'm not interested in her either and was happy to leave first thing to get to the gym instead. I'm so bored of the dating game right now, I've been doing it for the past couple of years probably averaging 2 dates a week and after a while they turn into pretty much the same dates with the same sort of conversation.
There have been 3 girls I've actually liked in all that time, 2 of whom I still want but can't have. From the outside people think that my love life is all good, and I date some absolutely beautiful women but it's really not satisfying because I always end up comparing them to the girls I can't have, and I end up hurting people which I hate doing. I might retire myself from the dating game for a while.
Edited by SpunkyGlory on Monday 10th August 08:13
king arthur said:
that's a Man baby ........king arthur said:
or hairy nipples.SpunkyGlory said:
I'm so bored of the dating game right now, I've been doing it for the past couple of years probably averaging 2 dates a week and after a while they turn into pretty much the same dates with the same sort of conversation.
There have been 3 girls I've actually liked in all that time, 2 of whom I still want but can't have. From the outside people think that my love life is all good, and I date some absolutely beautiful women but it's really not satisfying because I always end up comparing them to the girls I can't have, and I end up hurting people which I hate doing. I might retire myself from the dating game for a while.
I can relate to that, it can start to turn into a slog. 2 a week for 2 years though? Thought I was bad There have been 3 girls I've actually liked in all that time, 2 of whom I still want but can't have. From the outside people think that my love life is all good, and I date some absolutely beautiful women but it's really not satisfying because I always end up comparing them to the girls I can't have, and I end up hurting people which I hate doing. I might retire myself from the dating game for a while.
My date on Saturday was by far the best I've had this year. Pretty Kiwi writer with a fantastic body, likes cars and is pure filth. More into Jap boy racer stuff than I'd like but I guess there's no settling down without some settling for.
Met up at the Lockside Lounge in Camden and hit a few other places. Kiwi accent can sound kinda severe and she was tough to read until we ended up in Vinyl Bar (proper dark, dirty little dive) when I clocked her feverishly sorting out her hair and makeup in a mirror after she'd got out the toilet. You know it's on when they start getting nervous.
Ended up back at hers, which was just as well or I'd of been waiting for the first train back to Brighton. Absolute filth and likes a smoke and decent music. Bit nuts but I've tried dating nice girls and get bored very quickly. Sounds right up your street to be fair Spunky
Second date sorted for Sat, hoping she won't flake but either way had an excellent decent dirty weekend in London out of it
Wondering if I should be dating older girls, been mainly going for the young ones though she's the same age as me (34) and so much less bulls
t and more on the same wavelength. CountZero23 said:
I can relate to that, it can start to turn into a slog. 2 a week for 2 years though? Thought I was bad
My date on Saturday was by far the best I've had this year. Pretty Kiwi writer with a fantastic body, likes cars and is pure filth. More into Jap boy racer stuff than I'd like but I guess there's no settling down without some settling for.
Met up at the Lockside Lounge in Camden and hit a few other places. Kiwi accent can sound kinda severe and she was tough to read until we ended up in Vinyl Bar (proper dark, dirty little dive) when I clocked her feverishly sorting out her hair and makeup in a mirror after she'd got out the toilet. You know it's on when they start getting nervous.
Ended up back at hers, which was just as well or I'd of been waiting for the first train back to Brighton. Absolute filth and likes a smoke and decent music. Bit nuts but I've tried dating nice girls and get bored very quickly. Sounds right up your street to be fair Spunky
Second date sorted for Sat, hoping she won't flake but either way had an excellent decent dirty weekend in London out of it
Wondering if I should be dating older girls, been mainly going for the young ones though she's the same age as me (34) and so much less bullst and more on the same wavelength.
I don't mind sharing if you don't?My date on Saturday was by far the best I've had this year. Pretty Kiwi writer with a fantastic body, likes cars and is pure filth. More into Jap boy racer stuff than I'd like but I guess there's no settling down without some settling for.
Met up at the Lockside Lounge in Camden and hit a few other places. Kiwi accent can sound kinda severe and she was tough to read until we ended up in Vinyl Bar (proper dark, dirty little dive) when I clocked her feverishly sorting out her hair and makeup in a mirror after she'd got out the toilet. You know it's on when they start getting nervous.
Ended up back at hers, which was just as well or I'd of been waiting for the first train back to Brighton. Absolute filth and likes a smoke and decent music. Bit nuts but I've tried dating nice girls and get bored very quickly. Sounds right up your street to be fair Spunky
Second date sorted for Sat, hoping she won't flake but either way had an excellent decent dirty weekend in London out of it
Wondering if I should be dating older girls, been mainly going for the young ones though she's the same age as me (34) and so much less bulls
t and more on the same wavelength. vx220 said:
Don't try and make her say "fish and chips"
Hoping she has manners this weekend and doesn't talk with her mouth full. SpunkyGlory said:
I don't mind sharing if you don't?
With a username like that I'm not sure I want her back after you'd finished. She does have a sister though...Foot in mouth again. 
I stay at a hotel for 3 nights a week with work, anyway one of the reception girls matched on Tinder last week, so I just said we know each other well enough so lets skip the crap and do you want to go for a drink. Said yes, much textual flirting and I thinks Im onto a promise here. Asked her to be discrete about it - really don't need the other colleagues who stay at the hotel to know - at least not to start with. She took it all wrong and intimated that was I ashamed to be seen with her etc etc.
Sooooo, date next week now looks much less like a promise and far more wistful thinking. Suspect I can probably talk her into meeting up, but not off to a great start, and chances of getting my leg over are now slim to non.
I stay at a hotel for 3 nights a week with work, anyway one of the reception girls matched on Tinder last week, so I just said we know each other well enough so lets skip the crap and do you want to go for a drink. Said yes, much textual flirting and I thinks Im onto a promise here. Asked her to be discrete about it - really don't need the other colleagues who stay at the hotel to know - at least not to start with. She took it all wrong and intimated that was I ashamed to be seen with her etc etc.
Sooooo, date next week now looks much less like a promise and far more wistful thinking. Suspect I can probably talk her into meeting up, but not off to a great start, and chances of getting my leg over are now slim to non.
Condi said:
Asked her to be discrete about it - really don't need the other colleagues who stay at the hotel to know - at least not to start with.
Why not? Not that lass that's to fat for the school run earning some extra dinner money is it?Studio117 said:
Spent the last 3 hours talking ste to my date after an evening at the comedy store. She went to the bar and came back with 2 jugs of beer. Totally smitten but not ready to bin the Irish nurse who is an animal in the sack.
You managed to get any notes on how ms jugs compares yet?te to my date after an evening at the comedy store. She went to the bar and came back with 2 jugs of beer. Totally smitten but not ready to bin the Irish nurse who is an animal in the sack.All confirmed for a second date with the Kiwi tonight, coming down to my place this time thank f
k. Had to 'try' to keep things down hers due to the double creepy house mate who gets in a tizz when she brings any guys back. This is despite him living there with his his gf... When she first moved in they went out for getting to know you house mate drinks - one of his first questions was if she slept with girls... Ended up peeking through the door before going to the toilet to avoid the f
ker. Felt like being 17 again. Table booked at a nice Thai place in town, hoping things get as filthy as last time. Gay mate gave me a couple of viagra, shaping up to being an interesting evening...
Talking to a few at the moment, it's hard to remember who does what etc.
One little bit older than me, says she wants to meet then when I ask when she is free ignores it. Not holding out much hope on her.
Another one is two years older, but doesn't want to swap numbers yet, so it's still messaging via pof.
And two who are younger, 19/20 (I'm 26 next month). Both want to meet. One is on holiday for two weeks from Tuesday though, so hoping she still wants to after.
One little bit older than me, says she wants to meet then when I ask when she is free ignores it. Not holding out much hope on her.
Another one is two years older, but doesn't want to swap numbers yet, so it's still messaging via pof.
And two who are younger, 19/20 (I'm 26 next month). Both want to meet. One is on holiday for two weeks from Tuesday though, so hoping she still wants to after.
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