Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
ApOrbital said:
She looks 40 and is fitter than most 30 year olds.
Take a look at her hands and see if you can keep telling yourself that. The hands never lie!SpunkyGlory said:
I'm 25 and pulled a 50 year old a couple of weeks ago.
Followed by a 19 year old the following Friday and a 47 year old on the Saturday.
Age is just a number.
Lad.Followed by a 19 year old the following Friday and a 47 year old on the Saturday.
Age is just a number.
Condi said:
hornetrider said:
Used and taken advantage of? For putting up a f
king picture?
It's no wonder you lot are fking singletons. Jesus! 
Singletons having lots of sex without any of the baggage which comes with a relationship, thank you. king picture?It's no wonder you lot are f
king singletons. Jesus! Im lazy, not stupid.
Obviously doing something wrong.
Considering deleting PoF and Tinder, getting nowhere.
timlongs said:
Had my first ever tinder date on Sat night. Went really well and was a good laugh. Text each other a bit on Sunday lunchtime and now heard nothing since and she has now disappeared off my tinder...
Bit confusing but I guess I've been binned off!
Still no replies from her. Come on then PH love experts. Do i send her a quick message or let it slide? For what its worth she gave off some v.positive signals during and immediately after the date!Bit confusing but I guess I've been binned off!
Edited by timlongs on Monday 19th October 21:03
timlongs said:
Still no replies from her. Come on then PH love experts. Do i send her a quick message or let it slide? For what its worth she gave off some v.positive signals during and immediately after the date!
If she was giving off such positive signals and you were both out on a Saturday night how come she didn't end up back at yours? Give it three or four days and drop her a message.
Most suggest deleting a number if you don't get a response after that but I might send a few more over a month or two - keeping the tone playful and acting all butt hurt in a funny way "My god, I've not slept all I can think about is you" etc..
Chances are she's busy, has lots of other options. Situation could be different in a few weeks.
People are fickle at the best of times and with Tinder it's so easy to order up a date (especially if you're an attractive women) that you can end up with a high flake rate.
I fully don't expect to see any of the girls I sleep with again. Might be a bit gutted if I thought we had chemistry but you really need to adopt the frame of enjoying the moment and not having any expectations.
Doing my best to avoid the dating game for a bit; want to read good books, wake up on a Sunday morning and not cry when I see the receipts for cocktail bars and rounds of shots I've bought, go the the gym, not be hungover all the time and all the rest.
Condi said:
CountZero23 said:
I fully don't expect to see any of the girls I sleep with again.
Very odd attitude. I would be disappointed if they didnt want to see me again! The fact they keep coming back is very encouraging to the ego and means Im never short of someone to do. Everything is a bonus that way.
Ah well, back to the drawing board. She lives fairly local so will no doubt bump into her in the pub one night!
Pleased to get the first tinder date under the belt though, always felt a bit nervous/unconfident about them. But now come to realise both people are in the same boat and theres not really any much to worry about. Unless they look nothing like their pictures!
Edit: Although I do find being ignored weird, would be at least polite to say she ain't interested. (Probably quite obvious I'm new to the tinder dating scene!)
Pleased to get the first tinder date under the belt though, always felt a bit nervous/unconfident about them. But now come to realise both people are in the same boat and theres not really any much to worry about. Unless they look nothing like their pictures!
Edit: Although I do find being ignored weird, would be at least polite to say she ain't interested. (Probably quite obvious I'm new to the tinder dating scene!)
Edited by timschlongs on Tuesday 20th October 23:00
Edited by timschlongs on Tuesday 20th October 23:01
I'm more and more often finding people I actually know on Tinder..
I've sent a few of them a 'Super Like' just for a laugh
Actually, one last night was my sister's best friend's older sister (my age). Only spoke to her a few times over the years, stunner though. Not expecting anything as it could be awkward but I'll see if she bites (oo-er).
I've sent a few of them a 'Super Like' just for a laugh
Actually, one last night was my sister's best friend's older sister (my age). Only spoke to her a few times over the years, stunner though. Not expecting anything as it could be awkward but I'll see if she bites (oo-er).
smithyithy said:
I'm more and more often finding people I actually know on Tinder..
I've sent a few of them a 'Super Like' just for a laugh
Actually, one last night was my sister's best friend's older sister (my age). Only spoke to her a few times over the years, stunner though. Not expecting anything as it could be awkward but I'll see if she bites (oo-er).
I can do one better. My sister actually came up, while she was sat next to me. I've sent a few of them a 'Super Like' just for a laugh
Actually, one last night was my sister's best friend's older sister (my age). Only spoke to her a few times over the years, stunner though. Not expecting anything as it could be awkward but I'll see if she bites (oo-er).
smithyithy said:
CountZero23 said:
I can do one better. My sister actually came up, while she was sat next to me.
You should've swiped Like, then sat there staring at her while she checked her phone notification Do you live in Norfolk?
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