Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
I have a contributions;
I made a very flippant remark to one girl about not bother inviting me down to hers unless shes single as I cant be bothered to drive both ways in one evening (shes been with someone for about 2 years). She replied that I should be so presumptive, and I obviously hadnt heard the news, shes now single. Made me sound like a knob... cue some apologising.
My f
k buddy found someone else to play with. 
Cant be pissed about this one, as the rules always were if either of us ever found a 'partner' we would stop what we were doing, but its a pain in the arse, as not only was she the most open minded girl in the bedroom, but was actually decent company when not in bed. Someone has got himself a very nice girl.
My ex-bosses 21 year old daughter wants to come see me (2 hour drive) and is being very friendly - far too friendly for someone who apparently has a bf. I could well have got the wrong end of the stick here... but think that will end in tears or disappointment for one of us.
An old flame got back in touch, and we did out usual thing. Dont talk for months, fight like animals, tell each other we both still have feelings for each other, point out each others flaws, and then stop talking again. Not very healthy for each other.
And finally another girl from my past has asked if I wanted to go to Asia to see her (she moved out 6 months ago) next year. Its a long way to go!
So in short, Ive been called a cocky tt twice in 1 week, was also told I should have been an abortion, lost my fk buddy, and had a massive fight with some girl I have a lot of feelings for.
On the flip side, holiday to Asia with the promise of a good shag sounds appealing.
I made a very flippant remark to one girl about not bother inviting me down to hers unless shes single as I cant be bothered to drive both ways in one evening (shes been with someone for about 2 years). She replied that I should be so presumptive, and I obviously hadnt heard the news, shes now single. Made me sound like a knob... cue some apologising.
My f
k buddy found someone else to play with. Cant be pissed about this one, as the rules always were if either of us ever found a 'partner' we would stop what we were doing, but its a pain in the arse, as not only was she the most open minded girl in the bedroom, but was actually decent company when not in bed. Someone has got himself a very nice girl. My ex-bosses 21 year old daughter wants to come see me (2 hour drive) and is being very friendly - far too friendly for someone who apparently has a bf. I could well have got the wrong end of the stick here... but think that will end in tears or disappointment for one of us.
An old flame got back in touch, and we did out usual thing. Dont talk for months, fight like animals, tell each other we both still have feelings for each other, point out each others flaws, and then stop talking again. Not very healthy for each other.
And finally another girl from my past has asked if I wanted to go to Asia to see her (she moved out 6 months ago) next year. Its a long way to go!
So in short, Ive been called a cocky t
t twice in 1 week, was also told I should have been an abortion, lost my fk buddy, and had a massive fight with some girl I have a lot of feelings for. On the flip side, holiday to Asia with the promise of a good shag sounds appealing.
I have three dates lined up, one a bit crazy for end of 1st week in Jan, one who sounds completely off her head or a wind up (51yo bisexual nymphomaniac (though if it is a wind up, someone has gone to a lot of effort and I cant see why)) for middle of next week and another who was due to meet on 30th. Chatted a lot to 30th lady, moved to whatsapp, added as friend on fb and now trying to meet tonight. I thought my fb account would put most women off quite frankly but seems not as she now seems very keen which is nice. She sounds great and looks pretty and 10 years younger than me too....
Mate thinks if I meet the 51yo I will be found dead the next morning in a canal. Its very odd as weve been messaging for a couple of weeks and for a date she is too good to be true (I'm 44 so 51 isn't that big a stretch and she looks in good nick so to speak) Maybe she will gas me and steal my wallet.... Wont share phone number yet which probably a dodgy sign..... Would actually like to meet her before I meet the really nice one as if the nice one is really nice, I'd feel bad about meeting up with either of the crazyish sounding ones.
Looks like 2016 could be a good one. Or the year in which I die.
Mate thinks if I meet the 51yo I will be found dead the next morning in a canal. Its very odd as weve been messaging for a couple of weeks and for a date she is too good to be true (I'm 44 so 51 isn't that big a stretch and she looks in good nick so to speak) Maybe she will gas me and steal my wallet.... Wont share phone number yet which probably a dodgy sign..... Would actually like to meet her before I meet the really nice one as if the nice one is really nice, I'd feel bad about meeting up with either of the crazyish sounding ones.
Looks like 2016 could be a good one. Or the year in which I die.
Ari said:
Go on, I'll bite
How do 'cold approaches' work?
You go up to vulnerable looking young girls and show them your Ferrari key fob?
Absolutely not! That's called 'provider game'.How do 'cold approaches' work?
You go up to vulnerable looking young girls and show them your Ferrari key fob?
Day game is about getting younger, tighter, fitter girls than you'd normally be able to get via other sources. The reason? Girls like to be swept off their feet and they can't make that happen themselves. You have to be the man and make it happen for them. Forget all of that online b
ks, if you have the time, be the man and get outside and chat to real women! They are everywhere. I number closed a hot girl in front of her sister on Wednesday in London. That was on my second approach of the day! I've just followed it up with a message to her tonight and I'm going to try and get her out. There's no guarantee she'll get back to me but that's fine because you know what? I'm going back out in London tomorrow to chat to more girls and get more leads. Looking forward to it!
CC07 PEU said:
Absolutely not! That's called 'provider game'.
Day game is about getting younger, tighter, fitter girls than you'd normally be able to get via other sources. The reason? Girls like to be swept off their feet and they can't make that happen themselves. You have to be the man and make it happen for them. Forget all of that online bks, if you have the time, be the man and get outside and chat to real women! They are everywhere.
I number closed a hot girl in front of her sister on Wednesday in London. That was on my second approach of the day! I've just followed it up with a message to her tonight and I'm going to try and get her out. There's no guarantee she'll get back to me but that's fine because you know what? I'm going back out in London tomorrow to chat to more girls and get more leads. Looking forward to it!
Just out of curiosity, how old are you?Day game is about getting younger, tighter, fitter girls than you'd normally be able to get via other sources. The reason? Girls like to be swept off their feet and they can't make that happen themselves. You have to be the man and make it happen for them. Forget all of that online b
ks, if you have the time, be the man and get outside and chat to real women! They are everywhere. I number closed a hot girl in front of her sister on Wednesday in London. That was on my second approach of the day! I've just followed it up with a message to her tonight and I'm going to try and get her out. There's no guarantee she'll get back to me but that's fine because you know what? I'm going back out in London tomorrow to chat to more girls and get more leads. Looking forward to it!
OzzyR1 said:
CC07 PEU said:
Absolutely not! That's called 'provider game'.
Day game is about getting younger, tighter, fitter girls than you'd normally be able to get via other sources. The reason? Girls like to be swept off their feet and they can't make that happen themselves. You have to be the man and make it happen for them. Forget all of that online bks, if you have the time, be the man and get outside and chat to real women! They are everywhere.
I number closed a hot girl in front of her sister on Wednesday in London. That was on my second approach of the day! I've just followed it up with a message to her tonight and I'm going to try and get her out. There's no guarantee she'll get back to me but that's fine because you know what? I'm going back out in London tomorrow to chat to more girls and get more leads. Looking forward to it!
Just out of curiosity, how old are you?Day game is about getting younger, tighter, fitter girls than you'd normally be able to get via other sources. The reason? Girls like to be swept off their feet and they can't make that happen themselves. You have to be the man and make it happen for them. Forget all of that online b
ks, if you have the time, be the man and get outside and chat to real women! They are everywhere. I number closed a hot girl in front of her sister on Wednesday in London. That was on my second approach of the day! I've just followed it up with a message to her tonight and I'm going to try and get her out. There's no guarantee she'll get back to me but that's fine because you know what? I'm going back out in London tomorrow to chat to more girls and get more leads. Looking forward to it!
CC07 PEU said:
Absolutely not! That's called 'provider game'.
Day game is about getting younger, tighter, fitter girls than you'd normally be able to get via other sources. The reason? Girls like to be swept off their feet and they can't make that happen themselves. You have to be the man and make it happen for them. Forget all of that online bks, if you have the time, be the man and get outside and chat to real women! They are everywhere.
I number closed a hot girl in front of her sister on Wednesday in London. That was on my second approach of the day! I've just followed it up with a message to her tonight and I'm going to try and get her out. There's no guarantee she'll get back to me but that's fine because you know what? I'm going back out in London tomorrow to chat to more girls and get more leads. Looking forward to it!
WoooooooooowwwwwDay game is about getting younger, tighter, fitter girls than you'd normally be able to get via other sources. The reason? Girls like to be swept off their feet and they can't make that happen themselves. You have to be the man and make it happen for them. Forget all of that online b
ks, if you have the time, be the man and get outside and chat to real women! They are everywhere. I number closed a hot girl in front of her sister on Wednesday in London. That was on my second approach of the day! I've just followed it up with a message to her tonight and I'm going to try and get her out. There's no guarantee she'll get back to me but that's fine because you know what? I'm going back out in London tomorrow to chat to more girls and get more leads. Looking forward to it!
There is so much to rip into in there... where to start?!
'Younger, tighter, fitter girls' 'other sources' Firstly, who the f
k describes where they find women as 'sources' and secondly if you are hitting on younger girls than you can find in a bar or club then there is some kind of registrar you should be on. Secondly, I agree, forget about the online b
ks. But go meet women as normal people do - in bars, though hobbies, through mutual friends, from talking to people in every day life. Thats not weird, thats 'being a man' (aka well adjusted human being). Making some screw ball decision to go out on the street, stand around and target women deliberately to go out with or sleep with is very very odd. I dont care if it works, its odd. Finally, if you did the number of a girl, you then waited 4 days before talking to her? That doesnt show much interest considering you stood on a street somewhere, made up some reason to talk to her, presumably flirted in some way or another, then got her number. Then after that you waited 4 days before bothering to send a quick 'hi'.
f
k me, there have been some odd posts in this thread, but that one just about eclipses them all. 
CC07 PEU said:
Ari said:
Go on, I'll bite
How do 'cold approaches' work?
You go up to vulnerable looking young girls and show them your Ferrari key fob?
Absolutely not! That's called 'provider game'.How do 'cold approaches' work?
You go up to vulnerable looking young girls and show them your Ferrari key fob?
Day game is about getting younger, tighter, fitter girls than you'd normally be able to get via other sources. The reason? Girls like to be swept off their feet and they can't make that happen themselves. You have to be the man and make it happen for them. Forget all of that online b
ks, if you have the time, be the man and get outside and chat to real women! They are everywhere. I number closed a hot girl in front of her sister on Wednesday in London. That was on my second approach of the day! I've just followed it up with a message to her tonight and I'm going to try and get her out. There's no guarantee she'll get back to me but that's fine because you know what? I'm going back out in London tomorrow to chat to more girls and get more leads. Looking forward to it!
A month after meeting her I've now met the entire extended family.
Generally enjoying the time we spend with each other during the day but she's only a two day a week shag, what am I suppose to do for the other 5 days? (keep in mind we slept at each others almost every night).
Secondly last night in bed she said if I cheat on her she'll smash my car up and cut my dick off, those exact words.
Do I dump her now or enjoy the ride for a little while longer?
Generally enjoying the time we spend with each other during the day but she's only a two day a week shag, what am I suppose to do for the other 5 days? (keep in mind we slept at each others almost every night).
Secondly last night in bed she said if I cheat on her she'll smash my car up and cut my dick off, those exact words.
Do I dump her now or enjoy the ride for a little while longer?
Edited by SkinnyPete on Sunday 27th December 16:09
SkinnyPete said:
A month after meeting her I've now met the entire extended family.
Generally enjoying the time we spend with each other during the day but she's only a two day a week shag, what am I suppose to do for the other 5 days? (keep in mind we slept at each others almost every night).
Secondly last night in bed she said if I cheat on her she'll smash my car up and cut my dick off, those exact words.
Do I dump her now or enjoy the ride for a little while longer?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_Z4KrmZ1OcGenerally enjoying the time we spend with each other during the day but she's only a two day a week shag, what am I suppose to do for the other 5 days? (keep in mind we slept at each others almost every night).
Secondly last night in bed she said if I cheat on her she'll smash my car up and cut my dick off, those exact words.
Do I dump her now or enjoy the ride for a little while longer?
Edited by SkinnyPete on Sunday 27th December 16:09
SkinnyPete said:
A month after meeting her I've now met the entire extended family.
Generally enjoying the time we spend with each other during the day but she's only a two day a week shag, what am I suppose to do for the other 5 days? (keep in mind we slept at each others almost every night).
Secondly last night in bed she said if I cheat on her she'll smash my car up and cut my dick off, those exact words.
Do I dump her now or enjoy the ride for a little while longer?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=86URGgqONvAGenerally enjoying the time we spend with each other during the day but she's only a two day a week shag, what am I suppose to do for the other 5 days? (keep in mind we slept at each others almost every night).
Secondly last night in bed she said if I cheat on her she'll smash my car up and cut my dick off, those exact words.
Do I dump her now or enjoy the ride for a little while longer?
Edited by SkinnyPete on Sunday 27th December 16:09
SkinnyPete said:
A month after meeting her I've now met the entire extended family.
Generally enjoying the time we spend with each other during the day but she's only a two day a week shag, what am I suppose to do for the other 5 days? (keep in mind we slept at each others almost every night).
Secondly last night in bed she said if I cheat on her she'll smash my car up and cut my dick off, those exact words.
Do I dump her now or enjoy the ride for a little while longer?
She sounds like, erm.. fun? I'd expect more than 2 shags a week in the first month or 2 though!!Generally enjoying the time we spend with each other during the day but she's only a two day a week shag, what am I suppose to do for the other 5 days? (keep in mind we slept at each others almost every night).
Secondly last night in bed she said if I cheat on her she'll smash my car up and cut my dick off, those exact words.
Do I dump her now or enjoy the ride for a little while longer?
Edited by SkinnyPete on Sunday 27th December 16:09
How long do you seasoned veterans of the online dating world normally wait until suggesting to meet? Have been chatting to 2 girls for a couple of days now, one seems ok, might be decent but hard to tell from the photo's/profile. The other seems MUCH more up my street but her profile gives off a "looking for friends but if anything more happens, then that's good" vibe - which I don't mind - it's a good way to go IMO.
It's been ages since I've met up with anyone from these sites so not sure what the norm is now
Edited by Tall_Paul on Monday 28th December 23:46
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