Match.com (Volume 6)
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Just starting out on all this after a marriage breakdown.
I noticed a girls location close to my work, where workers appear to be fairly inter-related. As a joke, i asked her how many she was related to.
None, she said, as she had just moved into the area with her big dogs.
My landlady has big dogs, so i mentioned the breed.
Hers are the same breed and she shows them competitively.
As does my landlady.
So i ask her if she knows my landlady - turns out they are best mates.
Next thing i know shes ringing my landlady for the "snog,marry,avoid" info.
Not heard from her again
Oh- and for those following this thread regularly- the 30something yo was genuine and lasted about 9 weeks - for those calling it custard before getting that profile banned
I noticed a girls location close to my work, where workers appear to be fairly inter-related. As a joke, i asked her how many she was related to.
None, she said, as she had just moved into the area with her big dogs.
My landlady has big dogs, so i mentioned the breed.
Hers are the same breed and she shows them competitively.
As does my landlady.
So i ask her if she knows my landlady - turns out they are best mates.
Next thing i know shes ringing my landlady for the "snog,marry,avoid" info.
Not heard from her again
Oh- and for those following this thread regularly- the 30something yo was genuine and lasted about 9 weeks - for those calling it custard before getting that profile banned
Edited by cootuk on Wednesday 3rd February 20:40
anonymous said:
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No, you can't say they are turning down 'decent looking fellers' as it's not your call to decide what 'rating' women might give men.And in terms of leagues (Devil, I hate football) then the men who get no replies or responses are obviously playing above their talent level.
Finally, you have to forget all that 'alpha/beta/blue pill /red pillMGTOW nonsense - laughable losers.
Women are exactly the same as men, with a few different cells giving different dangly bits. Try treating them as people.
anonymous said:
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Totally agree with this, why do you think when women get to the age of 33/34 they suddenly want to settle down? They have spent their 20's on the Alpha cock carousel, but the problem is none of these Alpha's are stupid enough to want to get married when they know they have an endless line of women who are prepared to sleep with them This leaves the women with a dilemma, do they risk becoming an Alpha widow or do they settle for a Beta (the sort of guy they wouldn't have given the time of day to it their 20s, also known as the ex husband).Women rate 80% of men on dating sites looks as below average, so you have the same women chasing 20% of the men :
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-o...
These 20% of men obviously have their pick of women so it is no wonder they are pumping and dumping all these women on dating sites. These are the women who put on their profile that they are looking for a relationship and don't do one night stands, but trust me they will with any guy considered to be in this top 20%. Also women on dating sites get way more attention than they ever did in real life so it is easy for them to believe that they should only settle for a guy who is in this top 20%.
As had already been said, these single parent mothers with 3 kids, no job and skin like clingfilm filled with porridge honestly believe that a millionaire, Brad Pill lookalike who is a decent guy but with the right amount of bad boy Alpha traits is going to come along and want to marry them.
I would say that any woman who is still on a dating site in her late 30s/early 40s is stuffed and she will most likely never find a man who is willing to marry her. I have seen women on POF who have been on there for 9 years! Seriously in 9 years you could not find a single guy who wanted to be with you long term? These women will just be pump and dump fodder for worse and worse looking men the older she gets.
We seem to have two distinct groups of men on this thread, those that cannot even get a reply on dating websites and those that are getting laid left right and center. You can easily define whether you are in the 80% or 20% group by this fact alone.
Women love sex, just not usually with their husbands. Those women who tell their husbands they are not interested in sex actually mean they are not interested in sex with their husbands. Trust me, they become absolute sluts once they are separated from them!
Joey Deacon said:
Most women are sluts.....
Maybe you are right, but what about the men who sleep with them? They are just the same. Speaking as a non-slut (don't even believe in sex before marriage), I lost several boyfriends to women who were prepared to come up with the goods at short notice. Most of my exes subsequently tried to come back to me once they realised these women were, indeed, sluts, or else had a serious case of the mental they hadn’t noticed in their sexed crazed haze. See also, those threads on here which bemoan the loss of their female partners to slutdom or mentalness, by chaps who really should have been thinking with what was between their ears not their legs in the first place. Perhaps the answer is to have two types of dating sites – those for sluts of both sexes, and those wanting serious relationships of both sexes. Maybe that would clear up some confusion and enable the same types of people to meet each other. Joey Deacon said:
Totally agree with this, why do you think when women get to the age of 33/34 they suddenly want to settle down? They have spent their 20's on the Alpha cock carousel, but the problem is none of these Alpha's are stupid enough to want to get married when they know they have an endless line of women who are prepared to sleep with them This leaves the women with a dilemma, do they risk becoming an Alpha widow or do they settle for a Beta (the sort of guy they wouldn't have given the time of day to it their 20s, also known as the ex husband).
Women rate 80% of men on dating sites looks as below average, so you have the same women chasing 20% of the men :
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-o...
These 20% of men obviously have their pick of women so it is no wonder they are pumping and dumping all these women on dating sites. These are the women who put on their profile that they are looking for a relationship and don't do one night stands, but trust me they will with any guy considered to be in this top 20%. Also women on dating sites get way more attention than they ever did in real life so it is easy for them to believe that they should only settle for a guy who is in this top 20%.
As had already been said, these single parent mothers with 3 kids, no job and skin like clingfilm filled with porridge honestly believe that a millionaire, Brad Pill lookalike who is a decent guy but with the right amount of bad boy Alpha traits is going to come along and want to marry them.
I would say that any woman who is still on a dating site in her late 30s/early 40s is stuffed and she will most likely never find a man who is willing to marry her. I have seen women on POF who have been on there for 9 years! Seriously in 9 years you could not find a single guy who wanted to be with you long term? These women will just be pump and dump fodder for worse and worse looking men the older she gets.
We seem to have two distinct groups of men on this thread, those that cannot even get a reply on dating websites and those that are getting laid left right and center. You can easily define whether you are in the 80% or 20% group by this fact alone.
Women love sex, just not usually with their husbands. Those women who tell their husbands they are not interested in sex actually mean they are not interested in sex with their husbands. Trust me, they become absolute sluts once they are separated from them!
I do feel really sorry for you, you sound really unhappy with your relationships, whether ONS or longer term. Women rate 80% of men on dating sites looks as below average, so you have the same women chasing 20% of the men :
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-o...
These 20% of men obviously have their pick of women so it is no wonder they are pumping and dumping all these women on dating sites. These are the women who put on their profile that they are looking for a relationship and don't do one night stands, but trust me they will with any guy considered to be in this top 20%. Also women on dating sites get way more attention than they ever did in real life so it is easy for them to believe that they should only settle for a guy who is in this top 20%.
As had already been said, these single parent mothers with 3 kids, no job and skin like clingfilm filled with porridge honestly believe that a millionaire, Brad Pill lookalike who is a decent guy but with the right amount of bad boy Alpha traits is going to come along and want to marry them.
I would say that any woman who is still on a dating site in her late 30s/early 40s is stuffed and she will most likely never find a man who is willing to marry her. I have seen women on POF who have been on there for 9 years! Seriously in 9 years you could not find a single guy who wanted to be with you long term? These women will just be pump and dump fodder for worse and worse looking men the older she gets.
We seem to have two distinct groups of men on this thread, those that cannot even get a reply on dating websites and those that are getting laid left right and center. You can easily define whether you are in the 80% or 20% group by this fact alone.
Women love sex, just not usually with their husbands. Those women who tell their husbands they are not interested in sex actually mean they are not interested in sex with their husbands. Trust me, they become absolute sluts once they are separated from them!
The truth is that men and women are all just people. Some want sex as 'one night stands', some want longer term 'friends with benefits' , some want relationships, some want to get married, some want to have children.
And relationships for both men and women break down, and new relationships are formed whether in your 20s, 30s, 40s or 70s and 80s. Ther is no cut off point, no rule that says women (or men) who haven't found someone by a certain age are fundamentally flawed, or doomed to a catful life.
I couldn't be like you, JoeyDeacon - I couldn't spend my time disliking people I wanted to relate to.
Grow up, get over whatever your exes or women have done to you, be much more open minded, and you might find life is a bit happier.
We've all dated male or female tossers but you can't let them define your attitude or control your life. Be brave!
Joey Deacon said:
Totally agree with this, why do you think when women get to the age of 33/34 they suddenly want to settle down? They have spent their 20's on the Alpha cock carousel, but the problem is none of these Alpha's are stupid enough to want to get married when they know they have an endless line of women who are prepared to sleep with them This leaves the women with a dilemma, do they risk becoming an Alpha widow or do they settle for a Beta (the sort of guy they wouldn't have given the time of day to it their 20s, also known as the ex husband).
Women rate 80% of men on dating sites looks as below average, so you have the same women chasing 20% of the men :
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-o...
These 20% of men obviously have their pick of women so it is no wonder they are pumping and dumping all these women on dating sites. These are the women who put on their profile that they are looking for a relationship and don't do one night stands, but trust me they will with any guy considered to be in this top 20%. Also women on dating sites get way more attention than they ever did in real life so it is easy for them to believe that they should only settle for a guy who is in this top 20%.
As had already been said, these single parent mothers with 3 kids, no job and skin like clingfilm filled with porridge honestly believe that a millionaire, Brad Pill lookalike who is a decent guy but with the right amount of bad boy Alpha traits is going to come along and want to marry them.
I would say that any woman who is still on a dating site in her late 30s/early 40s is stuffed and she will most likely never find a man who is willing to marry her. I have seen women on POF who have been on there for 9 years! Seriously in 9 years you could not find a single guy who wanted to be with you long term? These women will just be pump and dump fodder for worse and worse looking men the older she gets.
We seem to have two distinct groups of men on this thread, those that cannot even get a reply on dating websites and those that are getting laid left right and center. You can easily define whether you are in the 80% or 20% group by this fact alone.
Women love sex, just not usually with their husbands. Those women who tell their husbands they are not interested in sex actually mean they are not interested in sex with their husbands. Trust me, they become absolute sluts once they are separated from them!
This is the truth generally^^Women rate 80% of men on dating sites looks as below average, so you have the same women chasing 20% of the men :
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-o...
These 20% of men obviously have their pick of women so it is no wonder they are pumping and dumping all these women on dating sites. These are the women who put on their profile that they are looking for a relationship and don't do one night stands, but trust me they will with any guy considered to be in this top 20%. Also women on dating sites get way more attention than they ever did in real life so it is easy for them to believe that they should only settle for a guy who is in this top 20%.
As had already been said, these single parent mothers with 3 kids, no job and skin like clingfilm filled with porridge honestly believe that a millionaire, Brad Pill lookalike who is a decent guy but with the right amount of bad boy Alpha traits is going to come along and want to marry them.
I would say that any woman who is still on a dating site in her late 30s/early 40s is stuffed and she will most likely never find a man who is willing to marry her. I have seen women on POF who have been on there for 9 years! Seriously in 9 years you could not find a single guy who wanted to be with you long term? These women will just be pump and dump fodder for worse and worse looking men the older she gets.
We seem to have two distinct groups of men on this thread, those that cannot even get a reply on dating websites and those that are getting laid left right and center. You can easily define whether you are in the 80% or 20% group by this fact alone.
Women love sex, just not usually with their husbands. Those women who tell their husbands they are not interested in sex actually mean they are not interested in sex with their husbands. Trust me, they become absolute sluts once they are separated from them!
A friend of mine is definitely in the top 20% of what these women desire, he's 50% mens health cover model and 50% John Holmes!
He has to beat them off with a stick.
When we are out with him, women in a group will wait to talk to him and jostle one another for his attention. (take a ticket like Tesco meat counter)
He has slept with half the town's women from 17-50 but here's the glaring difference between women and men..the girls know he's an absolute tart but want to be the one that 'wins him'. Men in general don't want to be the one that ends up with the slut.
so ironically the more women he sleeps with the more want a go.
He's had some stunning women but is also a equal opportunities shagger and will hook up with horrendous women...obviously who then decide that this is their level and will hold hold out until someone of a similar standard will date them.
anonymous said:
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Yeah, religion mainly, but seeing some of the messes that my friends end up in, I’m glad of it - you won’t believe the number I’ve been agony aunt too. Saying that, I’d love to meet the right person but just have no interest in timewasters or competing to land some player who I have to check up on all the time. I know it’s old-fashioned but mutual trust, understanding and compatibility is more important to me. And I reckon the sex within such a relationship would be better and more meaningful too. But it's just my opinion, I know that it's not for everyone. I was just suggesting that dating sites should more be open - or people should be more honest about their intentions on them whatever they might be - in order to cut down on disappointment. 1974nc said:
He's had some stunning women but is also a equal opportunities shagger
love it. For my part I'm an Alpha male in terms of looks, physique and wealth, but never had any interest in shagging around. It just doesn't and didn't interest me. Quite happy being a family man, no interest in straying inspite of the ease with which it could be done. IMO men who indulge in the playing of the field often end up unhappy/lonely/confused/resentful because if you date too many women I think you completely lose sight of the fact that making a relationship work is very different to getting a shag on a date. It becomes 'child in a sweet shop syndrome'. Anyway that's my tuppence.
Timmy40 said:
For my part I'm an Alpha male in terms of looks, physique and wealth, but never had any interest in shagging around. It just doesn't and didn't interest me. Quite happy being a family man, no interest in straying inspite of the ease with which it could be done. IMO men who indulge in the playing of the field often end up unhappy/lonely/confused/resentful because if you date too many women I think you completely lose sight of the fact that making a relationship work is very different to getting a shag on a date. It becomes 'child in a sweet shop syndrome'. Anyway that's my tuppence.
:-)You're the man!
steelbreeze said:
Yeah, religion mainly, but seeing some of the messes that my friends end up in, I’m glad of it - you won’t believe the number I’ve been agony aunt too. Saying that, I’d love to meet the right person but just have no interest in timewasters or competing to land some player who I have to check up on all the time. I know it’s old-fashioned but mutual trust, understanding and compatibility is more important to me. And I reckon the sex within such a relationship would be better and more meaningful too. But it's just my opinion, I know that it's not for everyone. I was just suggesting that dating sites should more be open - or people should be more honest about their intentions on them whatever they might be - in order to cut down on disappointment.
Thanks for posting that, it makes a nice change from all the rubbish that's usually on here.Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff