Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
Obviously internet sleuthing is a real no-no on PH on punishment of death for transgressors, but someone mentioned in recent a post is quite easy to find on POF. But lovely though they are, they are from t'North so probably speak funny. And wear clogs. And drink pints with twigs in it.
But apart from that...
But apart from that...
Council Baby said:
Just caught up on a bit of this.
I'm disappointed in you lot, there are virtually no escapades, filthy stories, dating nightmares or jumping on females when they post on the thread.
What the f
k has happened to this place?
Emma (who posted above) has her pic in her profile, have any of you pm'd her yet for a date? Sent cock pics?
Get to it lads for fk's sake.
Sometimes it takes a man at the top of his game to teach others how it's done CB.I'm disappointed in you lot, there are virtually no escapades, filthy stories, dating nightmares or jumping on females when they post on the thread.
What the f
k has happened to this place?Emma (who posted above) has her pic in her profile, have any of you pm'd her yet for a date? Sent cock pics?
Get to it lads for f
k's sake.Back in the day Emma would have had at least two dozen proposals of absolute filth. Now, the mods have done so much cleansing on the site even reasonably avid sleaze bags such as me no longer bother.
I feel like Nurse Ratchett in one flew over the cuckoos nest has visited PH with a dose of virtual bromide. We even have another thread of a bloke (can't call him a man) worried about a double date FFS!
Pistonheads really isn't the place it used to be I'm afraid.
Thankyou4calling said:
Sometimes it takes a man at the top of his game to teach others how it's done CB.
Back in the day Emma would have had at least two dozen proposals of absolute filth. Now, the mods have done so much cleansing on the site even reasonably avid sleaze bags such as me no longer bother.
I feel like Nurse Ratchett in one flew over the cuckoos nest has visited PH with a dose of virtual bromide. We even have another thread of a bloke (can't call him a man) worried about a double date FFS!
Pistonheads really isn't the place it used to be I'm afraid.
Sums up why I rarely visit these days, the sport has gone 😉Back in the day Emma would have had at least two dozen proposals of absolute filth. Now, the mods have done so much cleansing on the site even reasonably avid sleaze bags such as me no longer bother.
I feel like Nurse Ratchett in one flew over the cuckoos nest has visited PH with a dose of virtual bromide. We even have another thread of a bloke (can't call him a man) worried about a double date FFS!
Pistonheads really isn't the place it used to be I'm afraid.
Ki3r said:
Date was postponed sadly. But probably a good thing, I had my fitness test and personal safety refresher at work and was walking like I shat myself and was asleep by 7:30!
Hoping for next week
Well I was going to meet her tonight, she text me last night to say she'll be back around 7ish and she'll keep me updated on when she's back. Hoping for next week
Not heard anything from her. Not wasting anymore time, on to the next one
. Anyone feel like they are just better off single? Recently come out of a very stressful 'relationship' with a girl who I really thought beforehand could have been something long term. In reality its best for both of us we went our own way, so not annoyed or pissed off, not angry, just a bit disappointed.
Ah well... there is always another one to shag.
Ah well... there is always another one to shag.
Ki3r said:
Ki3r said:
Date was postponed sadly. But probably a good thing, I had my fitness test and personal safety refresher at work and was walking like I shat myself and was asleep by 7:30!
Hoping for next week
Well I was going to meet her tonight, she text me last night to say she'll be back around 7ish and she'll keep me updated on when she's back. Hoping for next week
Not heard anything from her. Not wasting anymore time, on to the next one
. king date up in the first place? Condi said:
Anyone feel like they are just better off single? Recently come out of a very stressful 'relationship' with a girl who I really thought beforehand could have been something long term. In reality its best for both of us we went our own way, so not annoyed or pissed off, not angry, just a bit disappointed.
Ah well... there is always another one to shag.
Yep - definitely. I'll keep dating because I enjoy it and I'm open to a relationship should exactly the right girl come along, but I've got no pressing desire for it & I'm perfectly happy (and regularly satisfied...) without any kind of commitment at all. Ah well... there is always another one to shag.
Blown2CV said:
got to say i think that could be the most frustrating thing about internet dating - timewasters!! Either mentalists or just inconsiderate. Why would they not just say "i've changed my mind" or better yet just never set the fking date up in the first place?
You're expecting the wrong things - their minds don't work on logic and "honour" and fairness like blokes' minds do. Probably they have thought you were OK, but not been too sure about you, when you proposed a date they decided to go along with it and give it a shot, but they weren't hugely excited about it so it was easily overridden by other plans without even a second thought. There's no malice there, just a different system. No use being angry about it, even though it is frustrating for us. king date up in the first place? I went through a period with a lot of flakes. Set up your dates for a place really close to home so it's no skin off your back if she doesn't show. But better is to not give all the details when arranging the date - for example pick a day and a time and a general geographical area but don't name a specific pub or anything - then you know if you don't hear from her on the day that she's forgotten or dumped you without even needing to bother getting out of bed.
Better still though is to not even bother arranging anything unless you can feel she's positively definitely rather attracted to you. They're not particularly coy about it when they DO fancy you, you just have to be honest with yourself (which can be rough on the ego) - if you're not sure whether she does or not, then SHE DOESN'T. Sorry! Keep her on the backburner for a long term warm-up, or ditch her.
Law of the jungle!
OwenK said:
Yep - definitely. I'll keep dating because I enjoy it and I'm open to a relationship should exactly the right girl come along, but I've got no pressing desire for it & I'm perfectly happy (and regularly satisfied...) without any kind of commitment at all.
You sound like a player. OwenK said:
You're expecting the wrong things - their minds don't work on logic and "honour" and fairness like blokes' minds do.
Now you sound like a hypocrite. Thing with women, we pick out key points
OwenK said:
Blown2CV said:
got to say i think that could be the most frustrating thing about internet dating - timewasters!! Either mentalists or just inconsiderate. Why would they not just say "i've changed my mind" or better yet just never set the fking date up in the first place?
You're expecting the wrong things - their minds don't work on logic and "honour" and fairness like blokes' minds do. Probably they have thought you were OK, but not been too sure about you, when you proposed a date they decided to go along with it and give it a shot, but they weren't hugely excited about it so it was easily overridden by other plans without even a second thought. There's no malice there, just a different system. No use being angry about it, even though it is frustrating for us. king date up in the first place? I went through a period with a lot of flakes. Set up your dates for a place really close to home so it's no skin off your back if she doesn't show. But better is to not give all the details when arranging the date - for example pick a day and a time and a general geographical area but don't name a specific pub or anything - then you know if you don't hear from her on the day that she's forgotten or dumped you without even needing to bother getting out of bed.
Better still though is to not even bother arranging anything unless you can feel she's positively definitely rather attracted to you. They're not particularly coy about it when they DO fancy you, you just have to be honest with yourself (which can be rough on the ego) - if you're not sure whether she does or not, then SHE DOESN'T. Sorry! Keep her on the backburner for a long term warm-up, or ditch her.
Law of the jungle!
Emmapuma said:
Not just women that do this! Had a few time-waster blokes too! Absolutely baffling!
We all shoot for people above our station, and read more enthusiasm into their words than they actually wrote. Hard to admit to yourself but it's our own fault, so often you convince yourself you can see things that aren't there.
dazmm said:
Internet dating is like being in a sweetshop, far too many distractions..
but, it's all about the chemistry... it's either there or it isn't.. you can't force it..
Some people just have the knack of oozing instant sexual chemistry, it's an art form in it's own right.
Some of us have got it, some of us haven't.but, it's all about the chemistry... it's either there or it isn't.. you can't force it..
Some people just have the knack of oozing instant sexual chemistry, it's an art form in it's own right.
It's just the way it is.
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