Match.com (Volume 6)
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xjay1337 said:
All that jazz said:
I can guarantee there will have been a girl-to-girl with her mates already about your annoying and disgusting bad habits.
But what if I can guarantee you that there hasn't...I can now appreciate how annoying it can be being on the "other side" of the fence, despite the unwanted/unneeded advice.
The fact she choses to not go on weekends away with her mates because she doesn't want to leave me says a lot. She is free to go, I don't stop her.
xjay1337 said:
I can and do what I want and what she wants.
We don't like having nights apart so when possible we do not go away overnight. Simples?
Can we not stop the cross examination of my perfectly fine relationship. I did not ask nor do I need help (at the moment).
Jeez, you both sound overly needy. I give it 1 year tops We don't like having nights apart so when possible we do not go away overnight. Simples?
Can we not stop the cross examination of my perfectly fine relationship. I did not ask nor do I need help (at the moment).
I personally think its healthy to enjoy time away from your partner and with. Not 'avoid nights apart'
johnwilliams77 said:
Jeez, you both sound overly needy. I give it 1 year tops
I personally think its healthy to enjoy time away from your partner and with. Not 'avoid nights apart'
Surprised you made a post outside of the "Vlogger..." ones. Must be hard to type with your fingers up Tim's bum! I personally think its healthy to enjoy time away from your partner and with. Not 'avoid nights apart'
it's absolutely healthy to have friends and family you see regularly. For me the concept of having a person who doesn't want to be apart from me would seem cute and endearing for a short while but it would rapidly become a problem. A relationship is not inherently a shelter from real life... it is meant to be real life. I think happy and well adjusted people are those that can enjoy a variety of social situations and don't have a list of 'musts' that life has to adhere to otherwise they can't cope. I also wouldn't want to be essential to someone else's every waking minute, as i'd get very tired of that. I do tend to prefer mentally stronger, independent women, although I understand many men thrive off being made to feel like a provider and protector, and traditional gender roles etc.
It's not like I pine for her if she's not around. Likewise she does not get funny with me if I do go out for while. We are both independant but we really like each others company and miss each other if we are not around. That is perfectly natural. We are very happy.
We both have our own friends which we see and do stuff with. For example I went to Pistoheads Sunday Service without her, she was tired from work.
She then went to a Uni reunion meal with her friends in the afternoon and got back around 10:45.
The last 2 weekends she has been away in Germany and Belgium. (pre-planned before we met). While we both missed each other we both went about our lifes, and her, her holidays.
Not that I should have to defend / explain myself. Can we end the topic now as I really don't care for/need peoples opinions.
We both have our own friends which we see and do stuff with. For example I went to Pistoheads Sunday Service without her, she was tired from work.
She then went to a Uni reunion meal with her friends in the afternoon and got back around 10:45.
The last 2 weekends she has been away in Germany and Belgium. (pre-planned before we met). While we both missed each other we both went about our lifes, and her, her holidays.
Not that I should have to defend / explain myself. Can we end the topic now as I really don't care for/need peoples opinions.
Edited by xjay1337 on Monday 12th December 22:38
xjay1337 said:
All that jazz said:
I can guarantee there will have been a girl-to-girl with her mates already about your annoying and disgusting bad habits.
But what if I can guarantee you that there hasn't...I can now appreciate how annoying it can be being on the "other side" of the fence, despite the unwanted/unneeded advice.
The fact she choses to not go on weekends away with her mates because she doesn't want to leave me says a lot. She is free to go, I don't stop her.
. I'm sure the females reading this thread would confirm it goes on.How old are you out of curiosity? The 1337 in your username suggests that you're still in your teens.
xjay1337 said:
It's not like I pine for her if she's not around. Likewise she does not get funny with me if I do go out for while. We are both independant but we really like each others company and miss each other if we are not around. That is perfectly natural. We are very happy.
We both have our own friends which we see and do stuff with. For example I went to Pistoheads Sunday Service without her, she was tired from work.
She then went to a Uni reunion meal with her friends in the afternoon and got back around 10:45.
The last 2 weekends she has been away in Germany and Belgium. (pre-planned before we met). While we both missed each other we both went about our lifes, and her, her holidays.
Not that I should have to defend / explain myself. Can we end the topic now as I really don't care for/need peoples opinions.
Something is definitely not healthy due to the fact that you are getting so excited and feel the need to justify yourself so much.We both have our own friends which we see and do stuff with. For example I went to Pistoheads Sunday Service without her, she was tired from work.
She then went to a Uni reunion meal with her friends in the afternoon and got back around 10:45.
The last 2 weekends she has been away in Germany and Belgium. (pre-planned before we met). While we both missed each other we both went about our lifes, and her, her holidays.
Not that I should have to defend / explain myself. Can we end the topic now as I really don't care for/need peoples opinions.
Edited by xjay1337 on Monday 12th December 22:38
Hope you don't miss each other today when you're both working / apart
Fermit The Krog and Sexy Sarah said:
xjay1337 said:
What's wrong with that?
Sarah and I had bought a house together after 7 months. Now together nearly 3 years and planning a wedding. It happens. Fermit The Krog and Sexy Sarah said:
Sarah and I had bought a house together after 7 months. Now together nearly 3 years and planning a wedding. It happens.
Careful, you'll have loads of single miserable people telling you what a HUGE mistake.We are renting a house, BTW.
Glad you guys are happy - As I'm sure you realised, when you know you know.
I've been on Match.com for just under 3 months now. Have not had one date or even exchanged numbers with a girl yet.
I've tried a funny profile, cheeky & normal, yet no matches.
Pretty sure my photos are okay.
Should I just accept I'm an ugly boring
& reside myself to a life of terminal singleness?
I've tried a funny profile, cheeky & normal, yet no matches.
Pretty sure my photos are okay.
Should I just accept I'm an ugly boring
& reside myself to a life of terminal singleness?Floptimus Prime said:
I've been on Match.com for just under 3 months now. Have not had one date or even exchanged numbers with a girl yet.
I've tried a funny profile, cheeky & normal, yet no matches.
Pretty sure my photos are okay.
Should I just accept I'm an ugly boring & reside myself to a life of terminal singleness?
Sod Match, try POF.I've tried a funny profile, cheeky & normal, yet no matches.
Pretty sure my photos are okay.
Should I just accept I'm an ugly boring
& reside myself to a life of terminal singleness?Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff