Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
Shnozz said:
Stock response:
Have you had a female friend cast their eye over your profile and gain their views?
Are you being realistic in those you are attempting to match/mate with? (again, seek counsel from female mates if needs be).
And if you are lucky, you might get a shag off her!Have you had a female friend cast their eye over your profile and gain their views?
Are you being realistic in those you are attempting to match/mate with? (again, seek counsel from female mates if needs be).
Morningside said:
Floptimus Prime said:
I've been on Match.com for just under 3 months now. Have not had one date or even exchanged numbers with a girl yet.
I've tried a funny profile, cheeky & normal, yet no matches.
Pretty sure my photos are okay.
Should I just accept I'm an ugly boring
& reside myself to a life of terminal singleness?
Sod Match, try POF.I've tried a funny profile, cheeky & normal, yet no matches.
Pretty sure my photos are okay.
Should I just accept I'm an ugly boring
& reside myself to a life of terminal singleness?Floptimus Prime said:
I used to be low on confidence so when I met new girls I'd simply rule myself out of having a chance with them and in turn just being a friend.
Confidence has improved but I can't get out the habit unfortunately
Fear not! Having plenty of girly friends is a good thing as it demonstrates to female outsiders that you're likeable and not mental.Confidence has improved but I can't get out the habit unfortunately
Pebbles167 said:
Right.
One of my best mates split with his girlfriend of 2 years about 8-10 months ago. No kids together. He wanted her back, but got over it. He's since found a lovely new girlfriend, who our friend group all get on with and he's now moved in.
His ex and I started talking about a month ago and of course one thing led to another and we've started sleeping together.
Said mate and his new girlfriend have invited all our friend group over for drinks, but I was actually intending to go to his exes with my daughter and her kids just to chill out.
Whilst I don't think he'll have a problem with it, I was planning to mention it (that we're seeing each other) to him out of courtesy tonight before everyone gets pissed up. Anything in particular I should say/avoid saying?
Avoid talking about orgasms and penis sizes.One of my best mates split with his girlfriend of 2 years about 8-10 months ago. No kids together. He wanted her back, but got over it. He's since found a lovely new girlfriend, who our friend group all get on with and he's now moved in.
His ex and I started talking about a month ago and of course one thing led to another and we've started sleeping together.
Said mate and his new girlfriend have invited all our friend group over for drinks, but I was actually intending to go to his exes with my daughter and her kids just to chill out.
Whilst I don't think he'll have a problem with it, I was planning to mention it (that we're seeing each other) to him out of courtesy tonight before everyone gets pissed up. Anything in particular I should say/avoid saying?
CaptainSlow said:
Pebbles167 said:
Right.
One of my best mates split with his girlfriend of 2 years about 8-10 months ago. No kids together. He wanted her back, but got over it. He's since found a lovely new girlfriend, who our friend group all get on with and he's now moved in.
His ex and I started talking about a month ago and of course one thing led to another and we've started sleeping together.
Said mate and his new girlfriend have invited all our friend group over for drinks, but I was actually intending to go to his exes with my daughter and her kids just to chill out.
Whilst I don't think he'll have a problem with it, I was planning to mention it (that we're seeing each other) to him out of courtesy tonight before everyone gets pissed up. Anything in particular I should say/avoid saying?
Avoid talking about orgasms and penis sizes.One of my best mates split with his girlfriend of 2 years about 8-10 months ago. No kids together. He wanted her back, but got over it. He's since found a lovely new girlfriend, who our friend group all get on with and he's now moved in.
His ex and I started talking about a month ago and of course one thing led to another and we've started sleeping together.
Said mate and his new girlfriend have invited all our friend group over for drinks, but I was actually intending to go to his exes with my daughter and her kids just to chill out.
Whilst I don't think he'll have a problem with it, I was planning to mention it (that we're seeing each other) to him out of courtesy tonight before everyone gets pissed up. Anything in particular I should say/avoid saying?
Just tell him straight and then give him time to get over it.
CaptainSlow said:
Avoid talking about orgasms and penis sizes.
Noted Condi said:
Just tell him straight and then give him time to get over it.
My thoughts, pretty much anonymous said:
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Reckon it's worth leaving it for now? Reason I thought tonight, is that when he gets word (and he will) that I chose to be with his ex and her, her kids and brothers for new year, he might get a st on thinking I'm being sly/sneaky when that's really not my intent.CaptainSlow said:
To be honest, mate's exes are out of bounds, every man knows this. You've broken a cardinal-rule.
He was seeing one of my exes, although it wasn't as serious. Wouldn't bring this up as a defense though. Pebbles167 said:
He was seeing one of my exes, although it wasn't as serious. Would bring this up as a defense though.
OK fair enough, you aren't great mates though as after the age of 12 it isn't the done thing. I wouldn't do it to my best buddy and I trust he wouldn't do it to me. I have told him that if he were to die his widow is fair game though.Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff