Match.com (Volume 6)

Match.com (Volume 6)

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Gretchen

19,037 posts

216 months

Sunday 5th February 2017
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soad said:
Gretchen said:
Mercury00 said:
The crazy mare said I was lying, she's been with her boyfriend for two years. That may be the case but I've got pictures of you walking your cat with a harness on, and pictures of you in the bath naked wink
What girl doesn't send these?
You tell me, Miss.
#instagram.




Edited by Gretchen on Sunday 5th February 19:50

Condi

17,188 posts

171 months

Sunday 5th February 2017
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Mercury00 said:
Gretchen said:
What girl doesn't send these?
I'd hope ones with boyfriends of two years.
certainly not true. everyone likes a little excitement

Mercury00

4,103 posts

156 months

Sunday 5th February 2017
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Blown2CV said:
maybe your chat was st?
"Chat"? Are you an ethnic youth?

Blown2CV

28,808 posts

203 months

Sunday 5th February 2017
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Mercury00 said:
Blown2CV said:
maybe your chat was st?
"Chat"? Are you an ethnic youth?
why, do you want to fight me or fk me? You're not doing terribly well if it's the latter. How many girls have you bored away today then?

Mr Happy

5,695 posts

220 months

Sunday 5th February 2017
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Mercury00 said:
The crazy mare said I was lying, she's been with her boyfriend for two years. That may be the case but I've got pictures of you walking your cat with a harness on, and pictures of you in the bath naked wink
Plot twist, the boyfriend was moonlighting as the girl, and was the one sending you the pictures the first time round, now she's just discovered that he's been doing this she's dumped him and opened her own dating profile, and she just so happens to have started talking to you!

Gretchen

19,037 posts

216 months

Sunday 5th February 2017
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Christ. You men are bat st crazy.


Blown2CV

28,808 posts

203 months

Sunday 5th February 2017
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Gretchen said:
Christ. You men are bat st crazy.
and yet you can't quit us!!

Gretchen

19,037 posts

216 months

Sunday 5th February 2017
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Blown2CV said:
Gretchen said:
Christ. You men are bat st crazy.
and yet you can't quit us!!
I'm just a social player these days wink



shirt

22,555 posts

201 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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shirt said:
Pebbles167 said:
^ Good advice
Yes some amazing advice on this page. Message everyone, aim low, settle for what you can.
Pebbles167 said:
Gretchen said:
And possibly consider stop dating others. If anything develops not sure, if it were me, she'd be happy to discover this.
Yeah it was just a drink with a couple of girls I'd been chatting to. Not sure if I'd have let it go anywhere anyway.

That said i thnk she's probably still dating others. At least I've seen her online on POF. I wouldn't have a problem if she was, we're not going out of course, but for once i actually have feelings for someone, and it actually scares me a bit not knowing if she sees me as just a fun date or a potential partner.

The temptation to bail and stick to what i know is surprisingly strong.
This just gets better. Now it's aim low, message everyone, find someone you like then bottle it. All whilst giving everyone dating advice.

Gretchen said:
Christ. You men are bat st crazy.
6 volumes in nutshell right there




Pebbles167

3,442 posts

152 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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shirt said:
shirt said:
Pebbles167 said:
^ Good advice
Yes some amazing advice on this page. Message everyone, aim low, settle for what you can.
Pebbles167 said:
Gretchen said:
And possibly consider stop dating others. If anything develops not sure, if it were me, she'd be happy to discover this.
Yeah it was just a drink with a couple of girls I'd been chatting to. Not sure if I'd have let it go anywhere anyway.

That said i thnk she's probably still dating others. At least I've seen her online on POF. I wouldn't have a problem if she was, we're not going out of course, but for once i actually have feelings for someone, and it actually scares me a bit not knowing if she sees me as just a fun date or a potential partner.

The temptation to bail and stick to what i know is surprisingly strong.
This just gets better. Now it's aim low, message everyone, find someone you like then bottle it. All whilst giving everyone dating advice.

Gretchen said:
Christ. You men are bat st crazy.
6 volumes in nutshell right there
Selectively quote me all you want. I never claimed to be an expert. I'm asking for advice and giving advice at the same time.. shocker. Why does this bother you?

I've been on POF for around 5 years, I regularly get dates with attractive women, and it's fairly often we'll end up either back at hers or mine. I'm nothing more than average looking, and so I guess that I'm not wrong when I call myself fairly good at online dating. The problem I have is relationships, so I figured I'd ask for help.

I'm passing on various experiences I've had over the years, and like with most things, I've found there is more than one way to date online. The advice I give is based on my mood, since PH is somewhere I'll come when there are things on my mind. None of it will be intentionally bad, and I don't think it's contradictory (unless obviously tongue in cheek).

Don1

15,946 posts

208 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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shirt said:


Gretchen said:
Christ. You men are bat st crazy.
6 volumes in nutshell right there
hehe

Vaud

50,470 posts

155 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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olly22n said:
Never come to PH for relationship/opposite sex advice.
No, it's great. I read some of the advice and then do the exact opposite.

Blown2CV

28,808 posts

203 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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Vaud said:
olly22n said:
Never come to PH for relationship/opposite sex advice.
No, it's great. I read some of the advice and then do the exact opposite.
how many years single now? Still can't find the right man eh.

Vaud

50,470 posts

155 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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Blown2CV said:
how many years single now? Still can't find the right man eh.
Happily married thanks. I just surf this thread for humour.

Pebbles167

3,442 posts

152 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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olly22n said:
Never come to PH for relationship/opposite sex advice.
I like the advice I get here!

Blown2CV said:
Vaud said:
No, it's great. I read some of the advice and then do the exact opposite.
how many years single now? Still can't find the right man eh.
laugh

Edited by Pebbles167 on Monday 6th February 13:17

EL11SEG

1,849 posts

180 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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Gretchen said:
Christ. You men are bat st crazy.
Just found this out Friday night. Dodged a bullet big style.



(I know, I know, not all of you but Jesus I need to get rid of the magnet which attracts them to me)

Pebbles167

3,442 posts

152 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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^ Come on, out with the story.

EL11SEG

1,849 posts

180 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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Pebbles167 said:
^ Come on, out with the story.
Nowt overly exciting. I worked with him 20 years ago. Started dating just after new year. Stayed a few nights but was erm..... Unable to perform. I put it down to nerves and never put any pressure on him. Liked to tell me what to wear, and if he didn't like something I was to change, questioned me about mail that had been posted incorrectly to my house, checked through all my phone contacts and FB. All perfectly normal so far yes?? Went away for the weekend and yet again things did not work. I was then told for it to work I had to laser off a cover up tattoo on my lower back. Obviously upset I then questioned as it was only ink but was told I could also do with loosing more weight. While I may agree since we had met I lost 10 lbs so why would he not just run on our first date??. He then looses it in the hotel room and tells me I'm 'just like his effing mother and won't take a telling'. Me thinketh he has 'issues'.

Longest car journey home on the sat and even tho I told him it was over still referred to anyone who called him on the mobile as my G/F.

Today I had a friend pick u.p my wee one from nursery and she clocked him passing my house, so now going out of his way to pass my house as the work he does would not require him to be near me.

I shoulda married him I think. laugh

Sir Lord Poopie

212 posts

90 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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She said yes guys! smile


Gretchen

19,037 posts

216 months

Monday 6th February 2017
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Congratulations.
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