3 yr old Son dressing up in girls costume

3 yr old Son dressing up in girls costume

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anonymous-user

54 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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So a very young kid likes wearing girls clothes. Is that really a problem?

Impasse

15,099 posts

241 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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TobyLaRohne said:
If i read this right the Mrs is pushing this on him?

If that's the case then it's not something you should let go.

Cant you get him infront of some move like Ironman or maybe the incredibles then buy him one of those outfits?
Didn't sound that way to me. She identified a character from a story which the kid liked and allows him to play in a manner he enjoys.
He's three. It's make believe and all good imagination development.

Far too many uptight types on here.

Baldy881

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1,333 posts

177 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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TobyLaRohne said:
If i read this right the Mrs is pushing this on him?
No, he's 3. He sees something and says he wants it. She doesn't say no but buys him it regardless. There are times when you should just say no IMO.

BTW,he has a knights outfit, Toy Story Woody outfit (which is gay in itself!), Batman, Skeleton, Power Rangers, Ninja turtle etc etc but the dress seems to be weapon of choice frown

Hooli

32,278 posts

200 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Baldy881 said:
Burnham said:
As for the dress, he'll probably grow out of it.
hehe
hehe

Some Gump

12,688 posts

186 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Oh woody isn't gay. He totally nailed that bo peep lass. Sure of it.

HereBeMonsters

14,180 posts

182 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Baldy881 said:
No, he's 3. He sees something and says he wants it. She doesn't say no but buys him it regardless. There are times when you should just say no IMO.

BTW,he has a knights outfit, Toy Story Woody outfit (which is gay in itself!), Batman, Skeleton, Power Rangers, Ninja turtle etc etc but the dress seems to be weapon of choice frown
"Oh no, it got lost in the wash!"

andy-xr

13,204 posts

204 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Hmmm...what've we got here. Bigotry, sexism, homophobia all wrapped up nicely into a macho thread.

Great work people. Great work

As for the kid, fair play to him, sounds like he's having a blast and doesnt care what other people think.


BHC

17,540 posts

179 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Whilst as a father I wouldn't particularly like it either, it doesn't really mean anything.

However encouraging a boy to dress as Rapunzel for fun isn't really the most appropriate thing, in my opinion.

A very good friend of mine did the same as a child though and laughs about it now. He isn't a tranny or anything.

Studio117

4,250 posts

191 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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I know a tranny who loved action man as a child!

Baryonyx

17,996 posts

159 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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You could solve this quite easily by throwing the costume in the bin and telling the boy to stop playing the fool.

LordHaveMurci

12,042 posts

169 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Studio117 said:
I know a tranny who loved action man as a child!
And probably still does whistle

Baldy881

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1,333 posts

177 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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HOLY fk!!

I was going to say that part of the problem is that my OH best mate also has a similar aged daughter. So trawling through her FB feed for a photo I can see the problem has gone beyond his own wardrobe!!

I've cropped his head off for privacy but rest unsured this is my son...



AS fkING TINKERBELL!!!!!

Comment on FB from OH "business as usual" !!!

FFS furious

jimbop1

2,441 posts

204 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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mike-r said:


Funny someone suggested football kits to butch him up. Probably the girliest sport going.
Oh ok warrior.

You ever seen girls football? They instantly look butch for some reason.

Justin Cyder

12,624 posts

149 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Baryonyx said:
You could solve this quite easily by throwing the costume in the bin and telling the boy to stop playing the fool.
You're a never ending barrel of laughs you are. It's a three year old child - good luck with your stern reasoning.

Some Gump

12,688 posts

186 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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andy-xr said:
Hmmm...what've we got here. Bigotry, sexism, homophobia all wrapped up nicely into a macho thread.

Great work people. Great work

As for the kid, fair play to him, sounds like he's having a blast and doesnt care what other people think.
Really? Homophobia? He's 3 for fks sake. 3. NOTHING about a 3 year old is sexual.


Full of bloody Savilles, this thread.

Eddh

4,656 posts

192 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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andy-xr said:
Hmmm...what've we got here. Bigotry, sexism, homophobia all wrapped up nicely into a macho thread.

Great work people. Great work

As for the kid, fair play to him, sounds like he's having a blast and doesnt care what other people think.
I suspect that 99% of the replies are tongue in cheak, as mine is...

The other 1% are made by gays in deinal...

TobyLaRohne

5,713 posts

206 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Baldy881 said:
...but the dress seems to be weapon of choice frown
hehe

My advice is take pictures for future blackmailing if he trys to put you in a home or something.

Mr Gearchange

5,892 posts

206 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Oi oi Roberto.
My lad used to do this. Mrs thought it hilarious - I didn't. We had arguments around it.

He grew out of it before 5 years old.

Don't worry

pork911

7,136 posts

183 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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Baldy881 said:
HOLY fk!!

I was going to say that part of the problem is that my OH best mate also has a similar aged daughter. So trawling through her FB feed for a photo I can see the problem has gone beyond his own wardrobe!!

I've cropped his head off for privacy but rest unsured this is my son...



AS fkING TINKERBELL!!!!!

Comment on FB from OH "business as usual" !!!

FFS furious
he's a boy, so it's a boy's frock

Mr Trophy

6,808 posts

203 months

Tuesday 12th August 2014
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OP, I would be the same as you, however, I would be sitting down Miss T and saying, this is not happening under any circumstances. Whilst I appreciate he's 3, it's still a no IMO of course.