Affair - hating it but can't see to disconnect (help)
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tjob said:
Monkeylegend said:
Hope that's not your real name and location in your profile. Somebody might spill the beans.
Lives in my town, 1 mutual friend on Facebook. Uh oh if he is that stupid!MikeO996 said:
tjob said:
Monkeylegend said:
Hope that's not your real name and location in your profile. Somebody might spill the beans.
Lives in my town, 1 mutual friend on Facebook. Uh oh if he is that stupid!tjob said:
Monkeylegend said:
Hope that's not your real name and location in your profile. Somebody might spill the beans.
Lives in my town, 1 mutual friend on Facebook. Uh oh if he is that stupid!Meoricin said:
tjob said:
Monkeylegend said:
Hope that's not your real name and location in your profile. Somebody might spill the beans.
Lives in my town, 1 mutual friend on Facebook. Uh oh if he is that stupid!Meoricin said:
tjob said:
Monkeylegend said:
Hope that's not your real name and location in your profile. Somebody might spill the beans.
Lives in my town, 1 mutual friend on Facebook. Uh oh if he is that stupid!SMcP114 said:
Meoricin said:
tjob said:
Monkeylegend said:
Hope that's not your real name and location in your profile. Somebody might spill the beans.
Lives in my town, 1 mutual friend on Facebook. Uh oh if he is that stupid!e600 said:
You have come across as self centred with little or no empathy, so to ensure you get the message look what happens to YOU when this explodes:
. Less or no toys in the garage
. 2 loads of dwellings to pay for, 1 for you and 1 for the mother of your child and daughter
. Maintenance support for the mother of your child for the next 16 years
. Weekend Dad syndrome
Things you might consider but I doubt will overly concern you:
. Hurt caused to mother of your child
. Vacuum in your daughters life when this explodes and your out of her life
If the above is worth a shag with your anorexic Friends addicted airhead, then crack on, if not, bin the bit on the side and concentrate on having a grown up relationship with your missus. T
t
Ps
Any editors of mainstream newspapers reading this should note I am available as a resident agony Uncle for yor newspaper.
Harsh, but fair.. Less or no toys in the garage
. 2 loads of dwellings to pay for, 1 for you and 1 for the mother of your child and daughter
. Maintenance support for the mother of your child for the next 16 years
. Weekend Dad syndrome
Things you might consider but I doubt will overly concern you:
. Hurt caused to mother of your child
. Vacuum in your daughters life when this explodes and your out of her life
If the above is worth a shag with your anorexic Friends addicted airhead, then crack on, if not, bin the bit on the side and concentrate on having a grown up relationship with your missus. T
tPs
Any editors of mainstream newspapers reading this should note I am available as a resident agony Uncle for yor newspaper.
You're not the first bloke in this situation, you won't be the last. You've done a s
tty thing, now you can either shut the door on it and make your family the priority, or carry on and either confess or wait 'til you're busted, but the "carry on" route comes with all the pain e600 posted above.It sounds like Bit On The Side is entirely one-dimensional; sack her off and if your legitimate sex life sucks, either sort it or resort to porn.
TheAngryDog said:
SMcP114 said:
Meoricin said:
tjob said:
Monkeylegend said:
Hope that's not your real name and location in your profile. Somebody might spill the beans.
Lives in my town, 1 mutual friend on Facebook. Uh oh if he is that stupid!TheAngryDog said:
Sounds to me that the OP is doing a good enough job of cocking his life up, as well as potentially that of his current partner and daughter (at least in the short term), without the need for someone to assist..
Just clicked on to post exactly this . No need for outside intervention . OP has fked himself over,he requires no help with the shovel .OP. Did you see this? Read it again. Stop your selfish whiny naval gazing. You're a .
Now fk off.
. Now f
k off.DrDoofenshmirtz said:
I bet the real issue is that you're feeling extremely guilty. If you aren't, then you probably aren't a very nice person.
Can you/do you want spend the rest of your life with the mother of your kid?
If the answer is yes, then the guilt will stay with you forever, eating you up inside until one day you can't stand it any more and you tell her. Her world will then collapse, and you will have ruined her entire life.
If the above doesn't bother you - then you're probably a bit of a heartless.
You're fked either way buddy. She'll either forgive you, but and never trust you again. Or she'll kick you out and you'll just be like any other modern broken family.
Good luck.
Can you/do you want spend the rest of your life with the mother of your kid?
If the answer is yes, then the guilt will stay with you forever, eating you up inside until one day you can't stand it any more and you tell her. Her world will then collapse, and you will have ruined her entire life.
If the above doesn't bother you - then you're probably a bit of a heartless
.You're f
ked either way buddy. She'll either forgive you, but and never trust you again. Or she'll kick you out and you'll just be like any other modern broken family.Good luck.
Flying Fish said:
OP. Did you see this? Read it again. Stop your selfish whiny naval gazing. You're a .
Now fk off.
Stop sitting on the fence . Now f
k off.DrDoofenshmirtz said:
I bet the real issue is that you're feeling extremely guilty. If you aren't, then you probably aren't a very nice person.
Can you/do you want spend the rest of your life with the mother of your kid?
If the answer is yes, then the guilt will stay with you forever, eating you up inside until one day you can't stand it any more and you tell her. Her world will then collapse, and you will have ruined her entire life.
If the above doesn't bother you - then you're probably a bit of a heartless.
You're fked either way buddy. She'll either forgive you, but and never trust you again. Or she'll kick you out and you'll just be like any other modern broken family.
Good luck.
Can you/do you want spend the rest of your life with the mother of your kid?
If the answer is yes, then the guilt will stay with you forever, eating you up inside until one day you can't stand it any more and you tell her. Her world will then collapse, and you will have ruined her entire life.
If the above doesn't bother you - then you're probably a bit of a heartless
.You're f
ked either way buddy. She'll either forgive you, but and never trust you again. Or she'll kick you out and you'll just be like any other modern broken family.Good luck.
Meoricin said:
A quick message on FB to the lady listed as his Mrs with a link to this thread? With any luck she'll leave him and move on
SMcP114 said:
You would need to be a huge knob to do that. Going out of your way to ruin someone else's life won't make your own any better.
I did wonder why someone i know called FB "The work of the devil".He told me eventually (after a beer) that the wife of the bloke his missus was banging contacted him this way for 'a chat' to inform him what was going on
Never had an affair as i firmly believe amongst other reasons don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to you. How would you feel if you found out your wife was having sex with another bloke, hopefully thats not the reason she's stopped having sex with you.
Probably best not to confess either, women forget nothing - ever.
Probably best not to confess either, women forget nothing - ever.
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