Thinking of leaving the OH
Discussion
DoTheRightThing said:
I have simply off-loaded and feel much better for doing so.
It's like a big load has dropped off your err mind.
Coming clean does tend to make one feel better doesn't it?
Will you be coming out into the open anytime soon?
Edited by Seek on Thursday 2nd October 09:13
hornetrider said:
The more I read of this thread and the drivel the op mashes into his spunk stained keyboard the more of a 
he becomes. Hiding behind an alternate login to protect his precious original anonymous forum persona and accumulated post count, frankly I say fk it. Leave him to his misery because he came for justification of his tttish treatment of the mother of his child, got his arse handed to him by everyone yet refuses to see what a he is.
fk him.
The best part is that: he becomes. Hiding behind an alternate login to protect his precious original anonymous forum persona and accumulated post count, frankly I say fk it. Leave him to his misery because he came for justification of his tttish treatment of the mother of his child, got his arse handed to him by everyone yet refuses to see what a he is. f
k him. 1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Edited by AndStilliRise on Thursday 2nd October 10:11
AndStilliRise said:
The best part is that:
1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Did you get an erection while you were writing that by any chance?1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Edited by AndStilliRise on Thursday 2nd October 10:11
Monkeylegend said:
AndStilliRise said:
The best part is that:
1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Did you get an erection while you were writing that by any chance?1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Edited by AndStilliRise on Thursday 2nd October 10:11
Pixel Pusher said:
Monkeylegend said:
AndStilliRise said:
The best part is that:
1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Did you get an erection while you were writing that by any chance?1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Edited by AndStilliRise on Thursday 2nd October 10:11
Soov535 said:
Do. Not. Go. There.
Don't.
Not ever.
When you had a child, your life ceased to be about YOU. That part is done with. You are a lucky man to be where you are. Look at what you HAVE. Have a f*****g word with yourself, frankly.
I GUARANTEE that if you leave, you will regret it, when your daughter is being brought up by some other bloke, who is living in the house you pay for and sleeping with your partner in the bed you assembled. It'll be even worse when your daughter hates you and won't have anything to do with you, and CALLS HIM DADDY.
At the end of the day, the grass looks greener. It's bl00dy not. Days of chasing pussy are done with, m8 - gone.
Make a go of it with your partner and think yourself lucky.
Don't throw three lives away for the sake of "posh w'nk".
GET A fkING GRIP.
I've read page one, and I can't imagine the advice gets any better than this on the subsequent pages...Don't.
Not ever.
When you had a child, your life ceased to be about YOU. That part is done with. You are a lucky man to be where you are. Look at what you HAVE. Have a f*****g word with yourself, frankly.
I GUARANTEE that if you leave, you will regret it, when your daughter is being brought up by some other bloke, who is living in the house you pay for and sleeping with your partner in the bed you assembled. It'll be even worse when your daughter hates you and won't have anything to do with you, and CALLS HIM DADDY.
At the end of the day, the grass looks greener. It's bl00dy not. Days of chasing pussy are done with, m8 - gone.
Make a go of it with your partner and think yourself lucky.
Don't throw three lives away for the sake of "posh w'nk".
GET A f
kING GRIP.Edited by Soov535 on Tuesday 30th September 12:59
Pixel Pusher said:
Monkeylegend said:
AndStilliRise said:
The best part is that:
1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Did you get an erection while you were writing that by any chance?1. You are either not listening to all of the great posts and stories
2. You know better
3. You are smarter than everyone else
4. We dont know what its like
5. We dont understand
6. Only you know you
OP you listening. I told you were a dick and so has everyone else. If you were asking me to my face - I would call you were a nob. In fact if you are in London I would happily go for a drink with you and then tell you.
You are not that brave though are you?
Bit of a coward?
Perhaps a bit of a bully?
I wonder what car the OP drives. I will guess will the allure of a pad in London, its gonna be an Escort van?
Edited by AndStilliRise on Thursday 2nd October 10:11
No, wait...
DoTheRightThing said:
I'm not aware I have asked anything at all. I have simply off-loaded and feel much better for doing so. Others have shared their own experiences and I'm very grateful for those perspectives. There have been some incredible posts, thanks to those that took the time.
This will be my last for a while as I don't wish to fuel a soap opera or be accused of 'attention whoring'.
...and the OP has made his choice. Looks like he is packing the suitcase. When you leave dont forget to take one of your kids toys - just so you dont forget who she is. This will be my last for a while as I don't wish to fuel a soap opera or be accused of 'attention whoring'.
Its real now OP - does it hurt?
BTW I am having a s
t week so why not blast you? F Coward.monthefish said:
Soov535 said:
Do. Not. Go. There.
Don't.
Not ever.
When you had a child, your life ceased to be about YOU. That part is done with. You are a lucky man to be where you are. Look at what you HAVE. Have a f*****g word with yourself, frankly.
I GUARANTEE that if you leave, you will regret it, when your daughter is being brought up by some other bloke, who is living in the house you pay for and sleeping with your partner in the bed you assembled. It'll be even worse when your daughter hates you and won't have anything to do with you, and CALLS HIM DADDY.
At the end of the day, the grass looks greener. It's bl00dy not. Days of chasing pussy are done with, m8 - gone.
Make a go of it with your partner and think yourself lucky.
Don't throw three lives away for the sake of "posh w'nk".
GET A fkING GRIP.
I've read page one, and I can't imagine the advice gets any better than this on the subsequent pages...Don't.
Not ever.
When you had a child, your life ceased to be about YOU. That part is done with. You are a lucky man to be where you are. Look at what you HAVE. Have a f*****g word with yourself, frankly.
I GUARANTEE that if you leave, you will regret it, when your daughter is being brought up by some other bloke, who is living in the house you pay for and sleeping with your partner in the bed you assembled. It'll be even worse when your daughter hates you and won't have anything to do with you, and CALLS HIM DADDY.
At the end of the day, the grass looks greener. It's bl00dy not. Days of chasing pussy are done with, m8 - gone.
Make a go of it with your partner and think yourself lucky.
Don't throw three lives away for the sake of "posh w'nk".
GET A f
kING GRIP.Edited by Soov535 on Tuesday 30th September 12:59
This thread makes awful reading. OP laying plans that will alter the course of the Lives of two innocent females, one of which has only recently started their little life, influenced by chatting to complete strangers on an internet forum. Very very shallow OP, very cowardly, and very poor form. I wonder what you fiancé would think if she were to read this.
I hope for their sake you have a reality check and back down, but if not, they deserve better, however much it will destroy them.
Poor girls, so sad in so many ways.
I hope for their sake you have a reality check and back down, but if not, they deserve better, however much it will destroy them.
Poor girls, so sad in so many ways.
It seems the OP has jumped the PH ship and will no longer comment. I just wish he had returned with the comment..'thanks to all who tool the time to respond. I have indeed be a complete gnob and will certainly not be pursuing the OW anymore. I can't bear the thought of the trauma that will be suffered by those whom I love and have a great deal of respect for.'
But he didn't. What a feckin' gnob!
But he didn't. What a feckin' gnob!
For the record I consider you a narcissistic knob,
However I've been here from the other side. Small child arrived in a relationship I didn't even want, sex varied from poor to non existent, opportunities were present all the time but I put the kid first, his mother had 2 affairs, when I caught her I walked away blameless, my kids, stepdaughter and son, are 2 of my best friends. If it is still about you then you do not deserve the miracle who is in name your daughter, fortunately she'll be brought up by another.
However I've been here from the other side. Small child arrived in a relationship I didn't even want, sex varied from poor to non existent, opportunities were present all the time but I put the kid first, his mother had 2 affairs, when I caught her I walked away blameless, my kids, stepdaughter and son, are 2 of my best friends. If it is still about you then you do not deserve the miracle who is in name your daughter, fortunately she'll be brought up by another.
SeanyD said:
This thread makes awful reading. OP laying plans that will alter the course of the Lives of two innocent females, one of which has only recently started their little life, influenced by chatting to complete strangers on an internet forum. Very very shallow OP, very cowardly, and very poor form. I wonder what you fiancé would think if she were to read this.
I hope for their sake you have a reality check and back down, but if not, they deserve better, however much it will destroy them.
Poor girls, so sad in so many ways.
I don't think he is being influenced, that's the problem. He came on here looking for somebody to validate him doing the dirty on his future wife and baby daughter and it didn't turn out quite how he expected it to...I hope for their sake you have a reality check and back down, but if not, they deserve better, however much it will destroy them.
Poor girls, so sad in so many ways.
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