different rules for the girlfriend
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I went to a girlfriends house party in the summer and she'd hired a couple of these naked butlers. I'm fairly sure they kept bending over on purpose. I saw far too much cock and balls that evening. And yes, one of the Girls got pile driven by one.
Start hiding your money OP and don't move out of the house!
Start hiding your money OP and don't move out of the house!
jamest1988 said:
A little help from those gentlemen with more life experience would be greatly appreciated...
Girlfriend is on a work do with a friend, said friend uploads a picture of the back of a "naked waiter" which is a feature of the works do. Girlfriend failed to mention this, I don't have a particular problem with this besides the fact that:
A. I've seen enough videos on z hamster to know what goes on at "stripper parties"
B. The one time I visited a strip club (with friends on a stag do) she went mental
I don't think (hope) she's giving the entertainment any help with excess squirty cream but I cant see a difference between a naked waiter and a stripper.
What should my next course of action be, I don't really care that she's there, just the fact that there seems to be one rule for her and another for me. Should I act hurt to make her feel guilty and possible do things she normally doesn't do, trade her in for a younger model, or act like a grown up and talk about my feelings?
any input greatly appreciated.
James
A. Those videos are faked, they are acting.Girlfriend is on a work do with a friend, said friend uploads a picture of the back of a "naked waiter" which is a feature of the works do. Girlfriend failed to mention this, I don't have a particular problem with this besides the fact that:
A. I've seen enough videos on z hamster to know what goes on at "stripper parties"
B. The one time I visited a strip club (with friends on a stag do) she went mental
I don't think (hope) she's giving the entertainment any help with excess squirty cream but I cant see a difference between a naked waiter and a stripper.
What should my next course of action be, I don't really care that she's there, just the fact that there seems to be one rule for her and another for me. Should I act hurt to make her feel guilty and possible do things she normally doesn't do, trade her in for a younger model, or act like a grown up and talk about my feelings?
any input greatly appreciated.
James
B. Shes a woman they are mental.
hajaba123 said:
1: Nail her sister, mother and favourite aunt tonight, get your retaliation in first (or possibly at the same time)
2: Google Dancing Bear, drive yourself mental
3: Don't listen to us lot, you won't get too many sensible replies
great advice there 2: Google Dancing Bear, drive yourself mental
3: Don't listen to us lot, you won't get too many sensible replies
Seriously though dude - don't sweat it
Edited by irocfan on Monday 22 December 12:21
Well past time now for the OP but this is the sort of thing you note, mark and inwardly digest.
In the future you will be asked to go on a Stag do. You will be going, there will be questions and if she blanches at the thought of you going to a strip club then you can always recall the time she had the naked waiters and you didn't fear she'd come home all bandy legged so why should you be treated with greater suspicion?
In the future you will be asked to go on a Stag do. You will be going, there will be questions and if she blanches at the thought of you going to a strip club then you can always recall the time she had the naked waiters and you didn't fear she'd come home all bandy legged so why should you be treated with greater suspicion?
Wifey had a naked waiter at her hen do (she knew nothing about it). She hates that kind of thing and specifically said that she would walk out if a stripper was organised behind her back. She has very strong feelings about lap dancing clubs and has made it clear that she would consider it to be on the cusp of cheating if I went back to one and had a dance. On this basis I trust her to behave when she is out and about.
B.J.W said:
She has very strong feelings about lap dancing clubs and has made it clear that she would consider it to be on the cusp of cheating if I went back to one and had a dance. On this basis I trust her to behave when she is out and about.
Oh how naive you are.I personally know two women who hated the thought of strip joints and made their husbands aware that they were not to be visited by them; under any circumstances, they were degrading to women, men are b
ds visiting them etc, one is now divorced after she was shagging around and the other is still married; still had an affair though.Edited by HTP99 on Monday 22 December 12:41
FredClogs said:
I'm pretty sure (prepared to wager £5) that those videos you see on Xgerbil.com are not real. Like the casting couch ones, the baby sitter ones and the ones where the step mum catches her daughter and boyfriend doing it wrong.
HTH
Next you'll be telling me 'big sausage pizza' isn't a documentary!?HTH
OP, I'm in the 'say nothing, bring it up if she makes a scene at the next stag do' camp.
It may have altered her perception and she might be more open to you going along with friends now that she's realised it's just a bit of a laugh.
I did once have a difficult situation with work where I was on a trip abroad and a very kind supplier had arranged ladies waiting in our hotel rooms.
Sorry for the delay folks! Thought I’d provide a quick update.
First off, I wasn't worried anything might happen at the party, I was just couldn't understand that there seems to be one rule for one and another rule for her.
When she came home I was impressed she mentioned this waiter before I even asked about it, obviously she didn't think it was worth hiding anything. Second, the point she made (and I can sort of see where she’s coming from) is that having a naked man, pretty much covered up and wondering around serving drinks to a room full of women is different from paying a stripper to take you to a room on your own and grind around like she’s milling oats with her cheeks.
I can kind of see her point and understand why stripper might upset her so the next stag do I go on, when we do inevitably visit a strip club, I’ll make sure I lie convincingly about the whole thing, problem solved!
First off, I wasn't worried anything might happen at the party, I was just couldn't understand that there seems to be one rule for one and another rule for her.
When she came home I was impressed she mentioned this waiter before I even asked about it, obviously she didn't think it was worth hiding anything. Second, the point she made (and I can sort of see where she’s coming from) is that having a naked man, pretty much covered up and wondering around serving drinks to a room full of women is different from paying a stripper to take you to a room on your own and grind around like she’s milling oats with her cheeks.
I can kind of see her point and understand why stripper might upset her so the next stag do I go on, when we do inevitably visit a strip club, I’ll make sure I lie convincingly about the whole thing, problem solved!
bigandclever said:
That, and not actually telling them you're off to the strippers.
Out for a friend's birthday a couple of years ago, the lads went off on their own for a while and left the girls chatting and my friends Mrs asked why we hadn't taken him to the strip club 
We came clean after she said that and admitted we had. Funnily enough they've been together for 9 years and got married 18 months ago. He does appear to have landed one that isn't mental to be honest.
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