Strange work colleague

Strange work colleague

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BigsimonY

Original Poster:

616 posts

125 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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So been sharing a office with a guy for 6 months. He is completely professional, not got a single complaint work wise. However he seams to have taken a instant dislike to me. I try to make conversation with him as we are in close proximity for 6-8 hours a day. All i get back is one word answers, but everyone else gets full on chats. He gets up and goes to the shop. Never asks if i want anything, just appears with cans of coke and sweets. My last office colleague was a ok guy. We would chat as we worked about cars,football,our kids,politics etc. Not as great mates, just general work chat. This new guy is so closed of, but only to me. Not done anything to upset him. I have asked if everything is ok in our office, he just said "yip, why would it not be?". Now i know i may come across with this post all "why wont he like me" but its not like that. It makes for a unpleasant, strange work environment. Not sure if I've put across very well what im trying to convey. Anyone had a similar issue at work?

Pixel Pusher

10,192 posts

159 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Nope.

longshot

3,286 posts

198 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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You either got the job instead of someone he preferred or you've stuck it up his sister's wrong'un. smile

Pixel Pusher

10,192 posts

159 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Hey Longshot, you could be right there mate.

Anyway, how's you? Family OK?

I'm off to the newsagent, want some biccies? They're on me.

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RobinBanks

17,540 posts

179 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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It's fine.

Impasse

15,099 posts

241 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Look, I just want to do my job and then go home. We're colleagues not friends.






Oh, and wash more you stinker. I'm not the only one who has noticed.

Corpulent Tosser

5,459 posts

245 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Have you checked your personal hygiene, have you been letting off fruity woof woofs ? wink

N Dentressangle

3,442 posts

222 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Is his name Frank Grimes?

Hoofy

76,356 posts

282 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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You may have inadvertently pissed him off without realising it. I would ask if that's possible but you wouldn't know. biggrin

bigandclever

13,787 posts

238 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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He fancies you, but is a bit shy.

BoRED S2upid

19,699 posts

240 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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bigandclever said:
He fancies you, but is a bit shy.
Exactly what I was thinking it's typical behaviour we all did it when we were in school.

OP why don't you buy him a coke and some sweets? Break the ice.

markcoznottz

7,155 posts

224 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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You're a social inbetweener , people only talk to you if they absolutely have to, ☺️, its a hard life......

Hoofy

76,356 posts

282 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Slap his arse and wink next time he walks past.

Pit Pony

8,557 posts

121 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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I shared an office with a bloke who went "postal" at me one lunch break for typing "too loudly"

Started screaming at me, about what a tt I was, and how he hated me, and how I was really really selfish, for typing when he was trying to sleep.

Mind you, he started being nice to me, when I diagnosed imminent turbo failure on his 54 reg megane 240 orange st box, thus preventing total engine failure due to parts of the turbo being ingested into the engine.

It turned out he had mental health issues, and worse still lived with his dad, at age 35.

Pixel Pusher

10,192 posts

159 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Hoofy said:
Slap his arse and wink next time he walks past.
Works best if accompanied by this face.




Hoofy

76,356 posts

282 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Pixel Pusher said:
Hoofy said:
Slap his arse and wink next time he walks past.
Works best if accompanied by this face.

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ApOrbital

9,961 posts

118 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Hoofy said:
You may have inadvertently pissed him off without realising it. I would ask if that's possible but you wouldn't know. biggrin
I would go with this.

Rich1973

1,198 posts

177 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Maybe he just doesn't like you that much.
I have worked with a guy before that never directly said an unpleasant thing to me, but who I found to be clueless, self satisfied, insincere and smarmy. I never had much to say to him.
Work place politics meant that I had to refrain from telling him what I thought of him, so he probably had a similar impression of me as you are doing OP with your guy.

northwest monkey

6,370 posts

189 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Tell him about the time you used to work at Knowsley Safari Park and you oversteered an L200 into a penguin or the time you saved a fit bird from a shark attack by strangling it with an eel.


JimmyConwayNW

3,065 posts

125 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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northwest monkey said:
Tell him about the time you used to work at Knowsley Safari Park and you oversteered an L200 into a penguin or the time you saved a fit bird from a shark attack by strangling it with an eel.
Don't forget only ever bathe in evian and knocked out a cow by kicking it in the balls.