Sexlife as parents..frequency. what's 'normal'?
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I'm hoping some of the frequency might be balanced / offset with the time you've been together?
Me and Mrs M have been with each other for 20 years this year, but have two 3 and under (3 and 1.5), once a month is normal I would say. Children knacker us + sap so much time that we its hard to keep that 'closeness' you had before kids, at least in our case. However, after 20 years I feel my persuading her to try 'up the bum' is falling on receptive ears.
At least no more nippers would be a cert.
Me and Mrs M have been with each other for 20 years this year, but have two 3 and under (3 and 1.5), once a month is normal I would say. Children knacker us + sap so much time that we its hard to keep that 'closeness' you had before kids, at least in our case. However, after 20 years I feel my persuading her to try 'up the bum' is falling on receptive ears.
At least no more nippers would be a cert.
hora said:
hacksaw said:
Everyone's different I guess. We have two little 'uns, 7 and 3, but both are good sleepers, meaning 4 or 5 times a week, as a rule, is about right for us.
How old are you?.Friend one 39
Friend two 43.
Wacky Racer said:
Cambridge University did a study of this once, way back in 1957, and the conclusion they reached was you multiply the number of kids you have, by their total ages, then divide by two if they are all girls, then finally multiply this figure by 3.142, this should give you, (within a day or so) the average time between engaging in naughty business.
Apparently, this figure referred to under forties only. If you are over forty, add an extra week for every ten years over this you are.
HTH.
I assume that's in hours? Even then, I'd be a little hacked off, but if it's really suggesting it's days, then clearly the inhabitants of the fifties were practically celibate...Apparently, this figure referred to under forties only. If you are over forty, add an extra week for every ten years over this you are.
HTH.
At an adult education class the tutor asked how many had sex the night before
a few hands went up
then they asked how many have it weekly, again a few hands went up
then again they asked how many had it monthly, more than a few hands went up
then he asked how many only 6 monthly no hands
then he asked how many yearly, one hand was up and he was jumping up and down all excited
he asked him why he was so excited and jumping up and down
he replied.......
Because tonights the night!!!
a few hands went up
then they asked how many have it weekly, again a few hands went up
then again they asked how many had it monthly, more than a few hands went up
then he asked how many only 6 monthly no hands
then he asked how many yearly, one hand was up and he was jumping up and down all excited
he asked him why he was so excited and jumping up and down
he replied.......
Because tonights the night!!!
Used to be 3 or 4 times a week before the little was born. He's 2 and a half now, it was 6 months before we got back in the saddle, plus 3 months before! Ouchy.
Now it's once a week, twice occasionally if I'm lucky. 3 weeks a month of course.
The wife is just so much more knackered these days. She's got a tougher job than before, a longer commute and some health issues that kicked off 'cos of pregnancy for which she's taking drugs for. Said drugs make her lethargic a lot.
Oh poor me....
Now it's once a week, twice occasionally if I'm lucky. 3 weeks a month of course.
The wife is just so much more knackered these days. She's got a tougher job than before, a longer commute and some health issues that kicked off 'cos of pregnancy for which she's taking drugs for. Said drugs make her lethargic a lot.
Oh poor me....
usually it averages about once a week (I'm 43, she's 46, two kids 8 & 5). main problem is that she doesn't 'do' sex at night, it is nearly always morning, so Ceebeebies is an absolute godsend.
Saying that, must be a bumper week as it was last thursday evening, friday morning, saturday lunchtime, monday night, wednesday night and then again this morning.
It's like I've won the lottery!
Mind you, that's probably my ration til easter all used up
Saying that, must be a bumper week as it was last thursday evening, friday morning, saturday lunchtime, monday night, wednesday night and then again this morning.
It's like I've won the lottery!
Mind you, that's probably my ration til easter all used up
smileymikey said:
mybrainhurts said:
Whilst on the subject, how many times before she needs a rebore?
I think after childbirth, they tend to be +60 oversized on the bore front. Compression is certainly down in any event lol Wacky Racer said:
Cambridge University did a study of this once, way back in 1957, and the conclusion they reached was you multiply the number of kids you have, by their total ages, then divide by two if they are all girls, then finally multiply this figure by 3.142, this should give you, (within a day or so) the average time between engaging in naughty business.
Apparently, this figure referred to under forties only. If you are over forty, add an extra week for every ten years over this you are.
HTH.
It's interesting that the value of Pi to three decimal places has crept in there. Lies, damn lies and statistics? Apparently, this figure referred to under forties only. If you are over forty, add an extra week for every ten years over this you are.
HTH.
boyse7en said:
usually it averages about once a week (I'm 43, she's 46, two kids 8 & 5). main problem is that she doesn't 'do' sex at night, it is nearly always morning, so Ceebeebies is an absolute godsend.
Saying that, must be a bumper week as it was last thursday evening, friday morning, saturday lunchtime, monday night, wednesday night and then again this morning.
It's like I've won the lottery!
Mind you, that's probably my ration til easter all used up
She has probably decided she wants another sprog! ! 😱 hthSaying that, must be a bumper week as it was last thursday evening, friday morning, saturday lunchtime, monday night, wednesday night and then again this morning.
It's like I've won the lottery!
Mind you, that's probably my ration til easter all used up
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