Seeing your ex with someone else..
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littlebasher said:
BuzzBravado said:
First time i seen it, it cut deep as f
k. They are now married and in two months going to a wedding where i need to perform best man duties..... oh joy.
You could have said No !k. They are now married and in two months going to a wedding where i need to perform best man duties..... oh joy. BuzzBravado said:
littlebasher said:
BuzzBravado said:
First time i seen it, it cut deep as fk. They are now married and in two months going to a wedding where i need to perform best man duties..... oh joy.
You could have said No !k. They are now married and in two months going to a wedding where i need to perform best man duties..... oh joy. *possibly NSFW
Hoofy said:
CAPP0 said:
Wow. A few of those, I'd be surprised if they get any business.The ex will probably say something along the lines of, I'm glad you're moving on but I'm sure you could have done better.
)Hoofy said:
CAPP0 said:
Must confess I did no more than look at the PP's location then Google "escorts Scotland" and post the link - I'm sure there must be higher-class options (even up north )
'Course you did. Not a regular customer at all, eh? )
CAPP0 said:
Hoofy said:
CAPP0 said:
Must confess I did no more than look at the PP's location then Google "escorts Scotland" and post the link - I'm sure there must be higher-class options (even up north )
'Course you did. Not a regular customer at all, eh? )
my ex has a new bloke
met him at the kids school fate thingy
seems ok
kids were lost, do they stand with dad or do they sit with mum and new bloke
elder of them just wandered off with his mates
the other 2 stayed with mum
I did nothing said nothing and think I came away with my self respect in tact in front of the other parents who though it was a bit odd her bringing the new man in her life to a school event knowing I was going to be there
met him at the kids school fate thingy
seems ok
kids were lost, do they stand with dad or do they sit with mum and new bloke
elder of them just wandered off with his mates
the other 2 stayed with mum
I did nothing said nothing and think I came away with my self respect in tact in front of the other parents who though it was a bit odd her bringing the new man in her life to a school event knowing I was going to be there
NRS said:
Not to mention you're paying someone to come out to dinner, plus all meals, drinks, entrances fees etc, the escorts fees, any travel expenses etc!
Didn't click the link as nsfw. Sounds a bit pricy. Is "revenge" at your ex ever worth paying £1000+ for a bird who everyones going to wonder why they only met her once, when she was beautiful and lovely conversation?
I continued to live with my ex after splitting up. Had to put up with her seeing someone else, bringing him home and shagging him in the bed we once shared. Told her how I felt about it, she couldn't understand what the problem was.
She was nuts, I moved out before the contract was up and refused to carry on paying the bills, much to her resentment
She was nuts, I moved out before the contract was up and refused to carry on paying the bills, much to her resentment
I've recently just become single after a 5 year relationship (found out he was cheating on me) and a week later is suddenly in a relationship with the girl.
I really, really wanted to show him up for what he really was, make a scene, but made a conscious effort to just 'let it go' as I decided I was better off without and could do far better, did the usual facebook cleanse and got rid of him and his family (who I never got along with anyway), decided he wasn't worth the time or effort bothering about and he'd probably get some strange satisfaction out of a reaction from me.
The only thing I did do, he had a massive amount of car parts at my house as I had the room to store them, so the day after it all happened I knew he was out for a night out with his family, I went round and dumped it all on his driveway (I had to make 2 trips as there were two van loads full), but knew it would 1) get him out of my life and 2) he still lived at home so would cause some minor disruption, as his Dad was forever going on at him for having car parts, bet he never knew how much he was keeping at my house!
I have a good job, I earn nearly 3 times as much as him and am on track to build my own house, I have ambition, and know that the best revenge is really to have a better life, if and when I do bump into him I'm kind of looking forward to it, as it will just remind me of how much better things will be/are without him!
I'm not normally so ruthless, so all of this has come as a bit of a surprise for me!
I really, really wanted to show him up for what he really was, make a scene, but made a conscious effort to just 'let it go' as I decided I was better off without and could do far better, did the usual facebook cleanse and got rid of him and his family (who I never got along with anyway), decided he wasn't worth the time or effort bothering about and he'd probably get some strange satisfaction out of a reaction from me.
The only thing I did do, he had a massive amount of car parts at my house as I had the room to store them, so the day after it all happened I knew he was out for a night out with his family, I went round and dumped it all on his driveway (I had to make 2 trips as there were two van loads full), but knew it would 1) get him out of my life and 2) he still lived at home so would cause some minor disruption, as his Dad was forever going on at him for having car parts, bet he never knew how much he was keeping at my house!
I have a good job, I earn nearly 3 times as much as him and am on track to build my own house, I have ambition, and know that the best revenge is really to have a better life, if and when I do bump into him I'm kind of looking forward to it, as it will just remind me of how much better things will be/are without him!
I'm not normally so ruthless, so all of this has come as a bit of a surprise for me!
Good for you Lora-X
I went 'round to our marital home (currently in middle of divorce) last week and there were a new pair of slippers in the hall. Not a pleasant feeling. She ended it (by being caught cheating), but that's life. I'm moving on and do hope that they're happy together.
I'd rather she'd done it in a cleaner way...but ultimately, we clearly weren't meant to be together
NEXT!
I went 'round to our marital home (currently in middle of divorce) last week and there were a new pair of slippers in the hall. Not a pleasant feeling. She ended it (by being caught cheating), but that's life. I'm moving on and do hope that they're happy together.
I'd rather she'd done it in a cleaner way...but ultimately, we clearly weren't meant to be together
NEXT!
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